Tymeless said:
SEVERUSMAX said:I admit that I like threesomes as much as the next man, but people are individuals, and what works for me or some polyamorous woman doesn't necessarily work for others. Even bi girls are not necessarily into the group sex scene. Some just prefer it one-on-one. Same with some guys. That's their right.
In my open relationship, we can each do it with other people, as long as protection is used and we inform each other. I don't mind having a threesome, but the main issues for me are honesty and fairness (i.e. no double standards). If my girl wants a little bi fun with a woman on a one-on-one basis, I'll understand, just as I would expect her to understand if I want a little one-on-one action myself. Some people, even in a poly setting, might not be in an orgy kind of mood at the moment. As long as she isn't trying to impose a double standard and neither am I, it's cool.
If a woman tells me that she is a lesbian, I take her at her word and respect that. I know where I stand with her and we can both, hopefully, relax and enjoy each other's company on a platonic basis. We might even flirt a little, but we both know that it is a bit tongue-in-cheek. I know that at the end of the day, she is gay, and that no man could change her sexuality, including me. I have several lesbian friends with whom I have such a friendship, which pleases me, because it demonstrates that I don't need to fuck any particular woman to be happy. I can keep it in my pants long enough to chill and just be a good friend. I'm proud of that fact.
The same principle operates with me and a woman (or man, for that matter) who is in a monogamous relationship. I respect their right to live that way and I don't try to seduce either partner (or both). I might write stories about that sort of thing, but that's fiction, not reality.
This business of trying to convince someone that he or she is not gay because you want to sleep with that person is just plain sick. It's a very selfish act and shows a lack of true friendship. On behalf of my entire sex, let me just reiterate what Wolf said: we're not all like that. We regret that you met a substandard representative of our sex.
playwithlezli said:Thank you for such an articulate response.
Night_Jasmine said:
I find that it works best to take people at their word, unless they give me reason to think otherwise. If people come out to me, male or female, I accept it as I would want them to accept my bisexuality. 
SEVERUSMAX said:You're welcum. Thanks for reading it. I try to speak my mind and tell it how I see it. Luckily, I have a fairly high IQ.
Wolfman1982 said:
SEVERUSMAX said:LOL. One can usually tell, can't they? For instance, if a guy sees a sign that says "Stop" and he wants to know what he should stop doing, he ain't exactly Einstein.
Wolfman1982 said:
It's okay. That's the difficult thing about writing responses. You think they sound one way but to another, they sound completely different.
Night_Jasmine said:
