Sex & Shenanigans

[BrendaBear]

Totally … I feel like, if a guy is nice to me.. that’s just basic human decency to be kind.

and there are women out there who utilize the nice men in exchange for things and lead them on.. which is not ok.

And I’ve also experienced men who have expected romantic feelings from me when I was just being friendly … which was not ok.

Yeah! All that too!!!!

 

[DaringFunGuy]

Men who can ready signals is a super power. Problem is that is seems to ebb and flow kinda like a streak. Sometimes I feel like I’m focused in and can’t lose. Other times I’m so wrong which can be bad and turns super man into super creep

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

There was a show called Sliders, a science fiction where they ended up in an alternate reality every show. One had an interesting take on the zombie genre. In that world there had been a weight loss drug that eventually had the side effect of destroying the body's ability to store fat, so the "zombies" were driven mad and had to consume human body fat.

I remember this show! It was fun stuff. I remember having a huge crush on Kari Wuhrer.

 

[__Nathan1968]

I would suggest that all of us owe kindness to anyone who is nice to us, even if that kindness is to politely decline niceties that exceed what is reasonable for the relationship.

If a stranger holds the door for you, say thank you.

If a friend brings a coffee, do the same.

But if the gift or gesture makes you uncomfortable, let the other know it is either not expected or not appropriate.

And for God’s sake guys (and girls) read the room. Over the top gifts or favors shouldn’t gain you romantic favor. And if they do, you’re in for a world of hurt.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I would suggest that all of us owe kindness to anyone who is nice to us, even if that kindness is to politely decline niceties that exceed what is reasonable for the relationship.

If a stranger holds the door for you, say thank you.

If a friend brings a coffee, do the same.

But if the gift or gesture makes you uncomfortable, let the other know it is either not expected or not appropriate.

And for God’s sake guys (and girls) read the room. Over the top gifts or favors shouldn’t gain you romantic favor. And if they do, you’re in for a world of hurt.

Hey … how’s your dick today.


Clearly I can’t read the room.

 

[BrendaBear]

Men who can ready signals is a super power. Problem is that is seems to ebb and flow kinda like a streak. Sometimes I feel like I’m focused in and can’t lose. Other times I’m so wrong which can be bad and turns super man into super creep

I'm suddenly really wanting the next Marvel movie to be about Super Creep!

No, wait. A Keenen Ivory Wayans movie about Super Creep would be better.

 

[BrendaBear]

Hey … how’s your dick today.


Clearly I can’t read the room.

Really? I thought you read it pretty good.... this room, I mean...

 

[BrendaBear]

Hey … how’s your dick today.

I want to be there to watch what happens when some woman walks up to a stranger and asks him how his dick is today.

 

[DaringFunGuy]

I'm suddenly really wanting the next Marvel movie to be about Super Creep!

No, wait. A Keenen Ivory Wayans movie about Super Creep would be better.

I feel like almost nothing worse than misreading something and then realizing not only were you wrong but that your reaction just made evening worse.

That said, confidence is important and sometimes the risk is worth the reward so long as you pick your spots and don’t just think every lady who is nice to you wants to see your bedroom.

 

[DaringFunGuy]

I want to be there to watch what happens when some woman walks up to a stranger and asks him how his dick is today.

So … what’s the right answer to this?

 

[BrendaBear]

So … what’s the right answer to this?

Um... well, it is.... it's a.... well....

Gosh, it's complicated, so maybe @crazychemgirl can answer that.

* steps into the kitchen, giggling away *

 

[DaringFunGuy]

I mean … I’m just curious about the today part. I can’t really see any answer other than fantastic or maybe a little flirty like “waiting for you” or “waiting for a [insert sexy body part”]”

If the question is how is it right now all sorts of fun possibilities arise.

 

[BrendaBear]

I mean … I’m just curious about the today part. I can’t really see any answer other than fantastic or maybe a little flirty like “waiting for you” or “waiting for a [insert sexy body part”]”

If the question is how is it right now all sorts of fun possibilities arise.

We see what you did there.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I think half and half would be 6% milk fat? Something like that. I only put about a tablespoon. But, I am weird. Putting milk in tea is a British thing I think. Correct me if I'm wrong anyone please. Lol

2%, 1% or FatFree milk is healthier and more popular now. But when I was a kid whole(4%) was used allllll the time.

Well, a chai latte is a joy for me, so...

 

[UnquietDreams]

Totally … I feel like, if a guy is nice to me.. that’s just basic human decency to be kind.

and there are women out there who utilize the nice men in exchange for things and lead them on.. which is not ok.

And I’ve also experienced men who have expected romantic feelings from me when I was just being friendly … which was not ok.
***edit on this last point … it’s ok for someone to have non-reciprocal feelings … like, not everyone I like will like me back. But if I’ve indicated that I am not interested in anything but friendship and then to continue to be sexual / romantic towards me is not ok.

As someone once put it, you are never in the "friend zone" if you are actually a friend. That's only your hell if you think you deserve more and you are just there to try to get someone to give you more. (RomComs are fun, but they give the worst life advice.)

 

[UnquietDreams]

So … what’s the right answer to this?

"It's fine, thanks for asking."

 

[crazychemgirl]

"It's fine, thanks for asking."

No no no …

Limp and a little to the left

 

[Wriggle]

No no no …

Limp and a little to the left

I say low and to the left .

But yeah

 

[UnquietDreams]

No no no …

Limp and a little to the left

No, that is the answer to "howzit hanging?" Different question.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

What?? Pepsi!!!

OMG! How obvious!!!

If you said “Coke”, you get the same credits…. And a free pass … but Pepsi is far better

Soda has less caffeine than coffee, and I can drink about 1 can or small glass of it with food without too many consequences. 2 cans/glasses or one of those giant theater / fast food cups of caffeinated soda will make me feel like death.

But there are like a bajillion different types of tea! My favorite right now is a spicy ginger/cinnamon/cardamom blend!

It's like spicy Christmas

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You will not convert me to a tea-drinker: I’ve hated it all my life. Chai lattes are tolerable only because of the latte components, but would be better as any other kind of latte.

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Holy cannoli!

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

What?? Pepsi!!!

OMG! How obvious!!!

If you said “Coke”, you get the same credits…. And a free pass … but Pepsi is far better

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[SirConradPeckereye]

Check out this action going on in my kitchen …. It’s sexy

Letting the bread breed, you dirty girl!

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

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Holy cannoli!

 

[__Nathan1968]

No no no …

Limp and a little to the left

Recovering nicely.

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

I love you, Brenda, and so I will not let your wrong opinion come between us!!!

I say Brenda no longer exists for having this opinion!just kidding!!