So just a fun poll... what do you prefer

[provenredhead]

So this came from a debate between a friend and I. Ladies, if you had to pick a man that matches one and only one of these three characteristic, which one would it be?

 

[ima6uldv8]

I chose rich. Yeah, I'm a greedy bitch.

 

[sasebrats]

I chose rich. Yeah, I'm a greedy bitch.

Yup me too! I married once for love...next time it's all about me!

 

[ima6uldv8]

Yup me too! I married once for love...next time it's all about me!

Me too. Been there, done that.

 

[MsTexas]

All the above

 

[provenredhead]

Wow so it's all about the green

So what if the guy with all the money is bad in bed. Hmm... Maybe that's what the gardener is for!

 

[provenredhead]

Alright, I assume that it's not good form to bump one's own thread but I thought I would have to ask another question that is relevant to this thread...

So if you are chatting with a guy, you are maybe interested, maybe not... and then he tell you he is loaded. What do you do?

You see I'm curious if money buys happiness, interest, or merely defers boredom

 

[HottieMama]

Alright, I assume that it's not good form to bump one's own thread but I thought I would have to ask another question that is relevant to this thread...

So if you are chatting with a guy, you are maybe interested, maybe not... and then he tell you he is loaded. What do you do?

You see I'm curious if money buys happiness, interest, or merely defers boredom

If someone was bold enough to tell me they were loaded...it would also mean they were pompous, and i would be immediately turned off.

i pick smart...i have a thing for dorky guys anyway...

 

[Bare_floored]

I prefer the geek,can have him wrapped around my finger in about 3 mins..LOL
Have my own money..not even close to rich..but comfortable..Handsome didnt even stand a chance.

 

[provenredhead]

If someone was bold enough to tell me they were loaded...it would also mean they were pompous, and i would be immediately turned off.

i pick smart...i have a thing for dorky guys anyway...

Well geeks around the world are rejoicing after a comment from a lovely lady like yourself

 

[JagFarlane]

Wooooo glad to see geeky in first hehe

 

[provenredhead]

I prefer the geek,can have him wrapped around my finger in about 3 mins..LOL
Have my own money..not even close to rich..but comfortable..Handsome didnt even stand a chance.

Did I mention that I'm somewhat geeky lol.

Of course a definition of "wrapped around my finger" may be in order

 

[sassykat]

If someone was bold enough to tell me they were loaded...it would also mean they were pompous, and i would be immediately turned off.

i pick smart...i have a thing for dorky guys anyway...

I agree with you for part of it...I don't really have a thing for dorky/geeky guys, but I want someone I can have good conversations with. Money is not all it is cracked up to be. I couldn't be with someone that I couldn't stand just because he had money. And really handsome men are usually so stuck on themselves that you feel left out cause they are too busy checking on themselves than looking at you...so out of the 3 choices, I have to go with smart.

And the part of them being pompous about the money thing is so true and such a turn-off.

 

[Bare_floored]

I was just teasing and all,would never insinuate that a geek was easy or nothing

 

[Brightdawn]

I agree with you for part of it...I don't really have a thing for dorky/geeky guys, but I want someone I can have good conversations with. Money is not all it is cracked up to be. I couldn't be with someone that I couldn't stand just because he had money. And really handsome men are usually so stuck on themselves that you feel left out cause they are too busy checking on themselves than looking at you...so out of the 3 choices, I have to go with smart.

And the part of them being pompous about the money thing is so true and such a turn-off.

I couldn't have said it any better myself

although dorky/geeky can be kinda cute

 

[provenredhead]

I was just teasing and all,would never insinuate that a geek was easy or nothing

Well I'm sure in skilled hands, anyone is easy lol

 

[littleone77]

Alright, I assume that it's not good form to bump one's own thread but I thought I would have to ask another question that is relevant to this thread...

So if you are chatting with a guy, you are maybe interested, maybe not... and then he tell you he is loaded. What do you do?

You see I'm curious if money buys happiness, interest, or merely defers boredom

I didn't vote because my reason for picking a man is not availabe, lol. How they treat me surpasses all else.

To answer your question, lets assume they are telling the truth *rolling eyes* Men Lie and also lets assume he is not a self centered prick as demostrated by his im habits...I sigh. Why? Besides the obvious material reasons it proves to me that 1-He is comfortable with himself 2-He is not only successful but intelligent 3-If I ever become successful on my own I do not have to worry about him feeling threatened, Plus he will probably be able to 'push' me in the right direction. *grinz* And 4-I can be taken care of in every way possible.

Money may not solve all your life problems but it certainly makes it much easier. A relationship should not be based on wallet size alone. What counts is your feelings for him and how many times he can take you t the moon and back.

FYI, there is a sugar daddy website out there for any interested...and no, I do not frequent there *shudders*

 

[HottieMama]

Well geeks around the world are rejoicing after a comment from a lovely lady like yourself

Thanks (Secretly i'm pretty dorky too..)

 

[Cathleen]

There's no contest -- smart beats all. Intelligence is the foundation of many other qualities.

 

[cheekygirl75]

There's no contest -- smart beats all. Intelligence is the foundation of many other qualities.

I agree... I voted for smart but geeky as well.

Of course, I'm also a bit geeky myself and tend to be more attracted to guys who are more quirky looking rather than conventionally handsome.

And I can get my own money, though if the guy was smart, geeky and loaded, I wouldn't turn him down

There was also an interesting article on Wired.com awhile ago about why geeks make better lovers, or something like that.... they had some good points, I thought It's here if anyone's interested: http://www.wired.com/culture/lifestyle/commentary/sexdrive/2007/04/sexdrive_0406

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Say don't fat poor guys get a vote. lol

 

[provenredhead]

Say don't fat poor guys get a vote. lol

Well I'm sure there are a ton of women out there that are all about that

One thing to take away from this all is that we all desire different things and have different tastes.

Of course I wonder how this evolves with age?

 

[RedVixen]

geeky and smart.... some geeks have great bods under those clothes and just eager as can be to use it....

 

[RedVixen]

Well I'm sure there are a ton of women out there that are all about that

One thing to take away from this all is that we all desire different things and have different tastes.

Of course I wonder how this evolves with age?

we all have different tastes.. mine is running to muscled and rough.. doesn't have to be body builder style by any means but if he's got a good set of shoulders and arms and rough looking.. yeah.... fuck yeah....

 

[pink]

i need to think on this, i'm not sure i would settle for just 1 trait.