I’d like something kinda sentimental, we are both each other’s first “couple.”
Help! Need Christmas gift ideas for our swap couple! I’m thinking a bottle of local distillery bourbon for the hubs but I need a good idea for the wife. She likes jewelry, but not sure?
Help! Need Christmas gift ideas for our swap couple! I’m thinking a bottle of local distillery bourbon for the hubs but I need a good idea for the wife. She likes jewelry, but not sure?
A book is always good, especially if it is sexy.
Try Robert A Heinlein,
To Sail Beyond the Sunset: The Life and Loves of Maureen Johnson
and
Time Enough for Love
Both of those turned me on, I think that will be true for him as well as her.
Help! Need Christmas gift ideas for our swap couple! I’m thinking a bottle of local distillery bourbon for the hubs but I need a good idea for the wife. She likes jewelry, but not sure?
Definitely an ankle bracelet. I got our Kim an ankle bracelet and can't wait to give it to her. It has two gold charms on it, one a heart, the other a key to hint at future naughty possibilities.
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So does anyone have any fun NYE plans? (I hope, I hope, I hope!
So does anyone have any fun NYE plans? (I hope, I hope, I hope!
We played the game this weekend and had lots of teasing fun... before we had lots of bedroom fun!
Going with our main couple to a Club in Ohio for two nights. Should be lots of sexiness happening!
We played the game this weekend and had lots of teasing fun... before we had lots of bedroom fun!
Going with our main couple to a Club in Ohio for two nights. Should be lots of sexiness happening!
Sounds like great sexy fun
because like I said I'm jealous AF (I have to work )
So does anyone have any fun NYE plans? (I hope, I hope, I hope!
Thanks for sharing Kim! This kind of openness is exactly what I was hoping for because like you and others have pointed out, feelings can get hurt and things can get complicated pretty quick.
My husband and I went to a couple swingers clubs here in Vegas not long after we were first married (it was my idea after I found out he still had a thing for blondes lol). We looked around but did not hookup with anyone. They were pretty gross. But, I've heard two of them have gotten much nicer (the third went out of business)
For us, having the first round be no spouses allowed together and the second round being ONLY spouses together to reconnect really made a difference. That made the third, fourth and fifth rounds much, much easier.
Communication is so important throughout the whole "party" imho. For instance, my husband enjoyed having sloppy seconds (it was sloppy thirds actually
(I'd be willing to bet their relationship is really going to change the most since she seemed to transform right before my eyes from nice, sweet, petite, submissive, yes-dear-anything-you-say, sexually subdued Korean-American wife into I-am-so-out-of-your-league-you-will-obey-everything-I-say-from-now-on spitfire.
I like the idea of the private FB group. Getting to choose who you want to explore boundaries seems so much less stressful than guessing or hoping.
Although, on the other side of the friends dynamic is the fact that we do all know each other and work with each other. What if something happens? What if someone gets jealous or their relationship falls apart? What if some of our other friends find out and either want to join or are repulsed and start to ghost us?
In a weird way I almost feel like my life has been changed more by what happened last weekend between me, my husband and four of our friends than by the coronavirus. I actually kind of hope that it turns out to be true.
Do you know what I mean?
Ooo, good luck with the married couple! Camping together sounds like a fun idea!
Maybe something else to consider, according to our friends, RV'ers all around the country are a huge part of the swinger community!
