The LIT Swingers Club

Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?


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We’ve been attending the local swingers club since March 2019, there are a lot of things I liked about it and a lot that I don’t.

In May of this year, I went to the club solo - hubs was on the road and I was bored. Long story short, I went in a room with a guy who ended up roughing me up. I kept telling him no, stop it, that hurts.... he ended up ripping out my hair, split my lip, and bruised my breasts and upper torso. I immediately found the owner and the man was kicked out.

I was under the impression he was banned.

Fast forward to this past Saturday. We were at a club hosted hotel takeover. Hubs and I were walking down the hall when I heard him say my attacker’s name. I looked up, and there he was right in front of me. I started shaking all over and then came the tears. I got in his face and screamed, “you’ll never touch me again” and I ran off to find security. I found out that night that he wasn’t banned because the incident happened behind closed doors which made it a he said she said situation (even though I have photos of my injuries).

I no longer feel safe attending their events.

I had the worst panic attack I’ve ever had in my life and my week has been awful. I just keep thinking about what happened and that this guy got off scott free. The club told me I couldn’t go to police because then I’d be in violation of the non disclosure agreement I signed. I’m stuck. And I’m a wreck.

I’ve decided to step away from the lifestyle. It might be for a few weeks or it might be forever. I really don’t know. I just know I don’t want anyone but my husband touching me.

OMG - what a horrible experience Shi - TWICE!!!

I was assaulted once years ago in a parking lot. I often think back on that experience and sometimes I even wish I could run into those two guys again. I am probably way over-confidant from all the self-defense classes I took after I was attacked, but whenever I read a story like yours I picture my sweet, sweet revenge on their ugly faces and tiny, busted balls.

I am currently picturing what my husband would have done to that guy if it had been me walking in that hotel this past Saturday instead of you. OMG he would have killed him and I'd probably be begging all of you for bail money right now!

Can't blame you one bit for wanting to step away from the lifestyle for a bit or forever. Despite the complications I've run into with the group we had fun with back in March, there certainly is something to be said for going down this road with friends rather than strangers. Of course there's no guarantee a so-called friend might turn into an abusive asshole behind closed doors, but, om g, that is just horrible. I'm so, so sorry Shi.

Do you mind if I ask you what the name of that club is and what city it's in? You can answer me privately in a PM. (I have lots of VIP clients who ask me for "referrals" in other cities and I would like to warn them to stay away from the one where this happened to you! :mad: )
 
And NRJLives is absolutely right - those NDA's are total BS and not enforceable. Especially when a crime has been committed on premises. They have NO legal leg to stand on! (at least in Nevada anyways)
 
It has been a few years but I had good luck with the group at swingersboard . com
There used to be a section for reviews of local clubs all over the US and possibly more.
One particular somewhat local group turned out to be real good and very respectful for all involved. I have since been to their "gatherings" with a few different women and everyone had good times.
Also there is another site sls . com I think that also had reviews of clubs.
All I recall for sure is both sites had good things to say about the local one I have been involved with.

They were also spot on about a couple in another city I used to frequent that did not have as good reviews. The reviews were also accurate there as well.
Needless to say now with that woman we now wait to go when she is here and we don't go to her local clubs.
 
Thank you all for being so supportive, it’s been a rough week mentally for me. Lots of flashbacks and what if’s. I keep replaying both events in my brain and just can’t seem to shut it off.
 
Thank you all for being so supportive, it’s been a rough week mentally for me. Lots of flashbacks and what if’s. I keep replaying both events in my brain and just can’t seem to shut it off.

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope it helps you to heal and to regain your power.
 
Thank you all for being so supportive, it’s been a rough week mentally for me. Lots of flashbacks and what if’s. I keep replaying both events in my brain and just can’t seem to shut it off.

I’m so sorry to read what happened to you Shi! What the hell happened to no means no? I thought that was the backbone of the Swing club philosophy. I’m in agreement with calling the police! You were assaulted!! Hugs!!!
 
Thank you all for being so supportive, it’s been a rough week mentally for me. Lots of flashbacks and what if’s. I keep replaying both events in my brain and just can’t seem to shut it off.

I am a male who is on your side, I know almost nothing about US law, but if it didn't support you it would be wrong!

Friendy, platonic hugs and kisses,
:rose::rose::rose::rose::rose::rose::rose::rose::rose::rose:
 
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Since I am a doctor :rolleyes: I've decided to expand testing an organic vaccine for Covid
that I think I've discovered.

So far, my husband hasn't gotten sick.

My new bestie Kim hasn't gotten sick.

Her husband only had one dose back in March but he hasn't gotten sick.

My other friend and her husband who only had one dose back in March haven't gotten sick.

Maybe this organic vaccine was right under their noses!

Maybe I need to find some more volunteers to test this theory of mine! :D :devil:

Hmm, I owe it to the world to find out if my new theory is right or not, right? ;) :)
 
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Since I am a doctor :rolleyes: I've decided to expand testing an organic vaccine for Covid
that I think I've discovered.

So far, my husband hasn't gotten sick.

My new bestie Kim hasn't gotten sick.

Her husband only had one dose back in March but he hasn't gotten sick.

My other friend and her husband who only had one dose back in March haven't gotten sick.

Maybe this organic vaccine was right under their noses!

Maybe I need to find some more volunteers to test this theory of mine! :D :devil:

Hmm, I owe it to the world to find out if my new theory is right or not, right? ;) :)

I'm really happy that real life has been developing
...organically for you. :heart:

It's very freeing to let nature conquer fear. :cool:
 
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Since I am a doctor :rolleyes: I've decided to expand testing an organic vaccine for Covid
that I think I've discovered.

So far, my husband hasn't gotten sick.

My new bestie Kim hasn't gotten sick.

Her husband only had one dose back in March but he hasn't gotten sick.

My other friend and her husband who only had one dose back in March haven't gotten sick.

Maybe this organic vaccine was right under their noses!

Maybe I need to find some more volunteers to test this theory of mine! :D :devil:

Hmm, I owe it to the world to find out if my new theory is right or not, right? ;) :)

I will step up and risk my health to help you test your vaccine.:cattail:
 
Soooo ... I was right (as usual :rolleyes: ) about those VIP guests who checked in on Friday and had quite the party Saturday night. :D

I didn't get to witness any of the best parts like I have "accidentally" in the past with other guests, but I did see enough to make me smile.

Because it's part of my job to make sure our VIP guests are happy and have everything they want or need, when they go MIA from the gaming floor for any length of time, it's my job to check in on them.

Well, around a little before 7 this past Saturday evening, I decided it was time to drop off a couple of dinner coupons to entice them downstairs. As some of you know, I checked this one particular group into one of our VIP suites on Friday night. It's not uncommon for high rollers to bring a few of their buddies with them to Vegas during football season. But it is a little unusual when they bring their buddies and a couple of them bring their wives.

This one particular group I checked in on Friday was 6 guys and 2 women. The guy who booked the room is one of our semi regular whales (big gambler) and I have met his wife many times. She wasn't with him this time, but she has come to Vegas with some of his friends in the past and been, shall we say, at the center of attention at some of his parties in the past. (I know because I have "accidentally" knocked and been invited in during a few them :devil: )

Well, these two were new. I didn't recognize their husbands either. They weren't registered in our player history so they must be new to this guy's group of friends back home where he's from.

It's probably some sort of initiation thing they have going on with their group because these two women had such ear to ear grins on their faces when I was checking them all in on Friday night that I knew they knew they were in for a special weekend!

Now for any of you who don't know about serious gamblers, college and pro football season is some of our heaviest traffic of the year. So whales who bring wives with them for a weekend in Vegas along with a bunch of their buddies during football season means the guys not only want those wives there, those lucky wives want to be there with them too. :devil:

Now, I didn't really see anything on Saturday when I dropped off those dinner comps. Just two attractive, pleasingly plump women in their early to mid-40's spilling out of their sexy black lingerie and wearing serious fuck-me shoes (my fave :) ) sipping champagne and laughing at everything five guys wearing towels around their waists said to them.

Apparently they were all waiting for their sixth buddy to get out of the shower when I came a'knockin' lol

Needless to say they weren't too interested in my dinner comps. They asked when they expired. I told them when the restaurants closed. They asked when that was. I told them and they all shrugged. "How late does room service go to?" was their next question. :)

One of the guys mentioned they were having a party and asked when I got off work. I smiled and told them probably around 1AM. One of them shook a bottle of what I assume was boner pills and said they hoped to still be going strong. One of the women stood up, sauntered over to him, fell into his arms and said, "Yeah, right. Promises, promises."

The sixth guy came out of the shower drying his hair with one towel with another tied loosely around his waist. He eyed me up and down, glanced at his buddies, then back at me and said something like "Awesome" or something like that.

I made my exit and reluctantly went back to work.

I leave the rest up to your imagination because that's what I had to do. :D
 
So I guess hub's and I officially took Step Number3 down this fun road last week.

Or at least Step Number Two and A Half I guess LOL :D

We mutually arranged to have the same night off work and for the kidlets to spend the night with one of their sets of grandparents. We got all dressed up and went to a bar to meet another couple friend of ours (ones we played with back in March). We had two rounds of drinks while we re-discussed and re-agreed on the rules Kim and I had already discussed and presented to our husbands.

Watching her grinning at and play footsie with my husband under the table was no small turn on I assure you! She has such cute little size 6 feet I was jealous of the all the attention my husband was getting because of ... well, all the fun her and I had together during Step 2 I guess! :devil:

Anyways, Kim had a small rolly overnight bag packed and I had a small rolly overnight bag packed. We both already looked sexy AF in our skimpy little cocktail dresses and fuck-me shoes, but I was dying to know what she had in her bag (turns out, after we talked later, she was dying to know what all was in my bag too!)

Anyways, my husband paid for her drinks and her husband paid for mine. Then we said our goodbyes in the parking lot and my husband drove her to our house and her husband drove me to theirs.

When Kim's husband dropped me off at home the next morning to pickup his wife, it was obvious by the look on my husband's face and the look on hers that they had a really great time together.

She hadn't bothered to shower.

Neither had I so we both literally reeked of sex. :D

Watching her husband and my husband shake hands after I was returned to my rightful owner and Kim was returned to her rightful owner (at least for the time being) was incredibly hot for some reason btw.

Kim and I had a hard time keeping our hands off each other and launching into every detail right from the beginning but after some heavy petting and kissing and preliminary sharing about what all went on, she left (rather reluctantly) with her husband and I was left standing there in front of my husband reeking of another man's adoration with a shit-eating, you better fucking reclaim me right now grin on my face.

Mmmm, "officially" swapping partners for a night was SOOOOO FUN!!!! :D
 
Wow. Congrats Liz!!!

A big step playing separately and staying over night. Fantastic

Details please !!!
 
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