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The LIT Swingers Club

Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?

  • Yes - with close friends only

    Votes: 45 7.5%

  • Yes - but with strangers only

    Votes: 68 11.3%

  • Yes both with friends and with strangers

    Votes: 140 23.2%

  • No - but I/we might consider it if the situation was perfect

    Votes: 299 49.6%

  • No - sharing my significant other with someone else is outside my comfort zone

    Votes: 51 8.5%
  • Total voters
    603
Damnation Lizzie, that’s hot AF! I’m inspired and feeling my creative juices flow. Maybe those are other juices that are flowing. ;):kiss:
 
Lorelei907 said:
Damnation Lizzie, that’s hot AF! I’m inspired and feeling my creative juices flow. Maybe those are other juices that are flowing. ;):kiss:
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Mmmm, I want to know more about those "other juices" Lori! Where, umm, are they? :D :devil:
 
A question I’ve always had about swinging. How do you prevent feelings from developing with someone you’re swinging with, especially if it’s more than a one time thing with the same people?
 
mulehead61 said:
A question I’ve always had about swinging. How do you prevent feelings from developing with someone you’re swinging with, especially if it’s more than a one time thing with the same people?
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Well that's a problem we're currently experiencing and a big reason why I started this thread. I've been very grateful for the advice Dee and several others with more experience in this psycho-sexual arena have been willing to share.

In my limited experience, I will say it seems to be a constant bubbling under the surface of even the best of times.

The only way to deal with it, again in my rather limited experience, is to keep the lines of communication open between all parties involved AND schedule regular, sit down, non-sexual talk-it-outs whenever feelings do arise or get complicated.

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Why is this an issue?

mulehead61 said:
A question I’ve always had about swinging. How do you prevent feelings from developing with someone you’re swinging with, especially if it’s more than a one time thing with the same people?
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May I ask why you want to prevent feelings from developing with someone you’re swinging with? Surely, as long as feelings for all parties own spouses are not diminished, feelings for somebody else simply amplify matters

I know this from personal experience, the third party has lived with us for getting on for 4 decades. As with all close relationships, e.g. spouses, issues arise which have to be dealt with, but as long as they are resolved to the satisfaction of all involved, 'all is well that ends well'. This has applied within my own marriage, but my wife and I happily celebrate our Golden Wedding next year, together with our third party!

Granted this wasn't quite a swing situation bur surely the same principle applies.
 
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Sometimes talking about the fun we've had and the fun we want to have is almost as much fun as having it.

Almost.

But not quite! :devil:
 
LizVegas79 said:
So I guess hub's and I officially took Step Number3 down this fun road last week.

Or at least Step Number Two and A Half I guess LOL :D

We mutually arranged to have the same night off work and for the kidlets to spend the night with one of their sets of grandparents. We got all dressed up and went to a bar to meet another couple friend of ours (ones we played with back in March). We had two rounds of drinks while we re-discussed and re-agreed on the rules Kim and I had already discussed and presented to our husbands.

Watching her grinning at and play footsie with my husband under the table was no small turn on I assure you! She has such cute little size 6 feet I was jealous of the all the attention my husband was getting because of ... well, all the fun her and I had together during Step 2 I guess! :devil:

Anyways, Kim had a small rolly overnight bag packed and I had a small rolly overnight bag packed. We both already looked sexy AF in our skimpy little cocktail dresses and fuck-me shoes, but I was dying to know what she had in her bag (turns out, after we talked later, she was dying to know what all was in my bag too!)

Anyways, my husband paid for her drinks and her husband paid for mine. Then we said our goodbyes in the parking lot and my husband drove her to our house and her husband drove me to theirs.

When Kim's husband dropped me off at home the next morning to pickup his wife, it was obvious by the look on my husband's face and the look on hers that they had a really great time together.

She hadn't bothered to shower.

Neither had I so we both literally reeked of sex. :D

Watching her husband and my husband shake hands after I was returned to my rightful owner and Kim was returned to her rightful owner (at least for the time being) was incredibly hot for some reason btw.

Kim and I had a hard time keeping our hands off each other and launching into every detail right from the beginning but after some heavy petting and kissing and preliminary sharing about what all went on, she left (rather reluctantly) with her husband and I was left standing there in front of my husband reeking of another man's adoration with a shit-eating, you better fucking reclaim me right now grin on my face.

Mmmm, "officially" swapping partners for a night was SOOOOO FUN!!!! :D
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Reading this has me rock hard!!!
 
To help answer that question - Liz is spot on, communication between all parties and especially your spouse is vital. To a certain extent we’re all going to be increasingly attracted to partners we sleep with but to make sure the emotions are kept in check. Remember its all about the physical aspect just like playing with a toy and putting it back on the shelf. Keep it in perspective.

Make sure your spouse is feels secure and you feel secure playing. If either starts to feel insecure - back away. I’ve seen too many couples crash and burn from emerging jealously.
 
I am absolutely love in this thread.

I can't believe I only just stumbled on it. Obviously, I need to thread stalk Liz far more often! (#jokingnotjoking)

Seriously though ... the realness and even rawness in this thread is so touching. I can't dare comment on individual experiences but I hope with all my heart that everyone here gets what they want, need, and need but don't know they want it yet!

I'll write a proper post here soon but ... you guys are awesome.l

Totally awesome.
 
HotBrand said:
I am absolutely love in this thread.

I can't believe I only just stumbled on it. Obviously, I need to thread stalk Liz far more often! (#jokingnotjoking)

Seriously though ... the realness and even rawness in this thread is so touching. I can't dare comment on individual experiences but I hope with all my heart that everyone here gets what they want, need, and need but don't know they want it yet!

I'll write a proper post here soon but ... you guys are awesome.l

Totally awesome.
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Awww, you're so sweet! :kiss:

But any realness or rawness you're sensing is only because I'm such a newb and the "lifestyle" as it's called is all so new to me. I'm just trying to figure out how to make sure no one gets hurt.

And I suspect if anything is "touching" it's because ... well, what's touching to who right now can probably be left to our imaginations HB.

Or is it the other way around? ;) :)
 
LizVegas79 said:
So I guess hub's and I officially took Step Number3 down this fun road last week.

Or at least Step Number Two and A Half I guess LOL :D

We mutually arranged to have the same night off work and for the kidlets to spend the night with one of their sets of grandparents. We got all dressed up and went to a bar to meet another couple friend of ours (ones we played with back in March). We had two rounds of drinks while we re-discussed and re-agreed on the rules Kim and I had already discussed and presented to our husbands.

Watching her grinning at and play footsie with my husband under the table was no small turn on I assure you! She has such cute little size 6 feet I was jealous of the all the attention my husband was getting because of ... well, all the fun her and I had together during Step 2 I guess! :devil:

Anyways, Kim had a small rolly overnight bag packed and I had a small rolly overnight bag packed. We both already looked sexy AF in our skimpy little cocktail dresses and fuck-me shoes, but I was dying to know what she had in her bag (turns out, after we talked later, she was dying to know what all was in my bag too!)

Anyways, my husband paid for her drinks and her husband paid for mine. Then we said our goodbyes in the parking lot and my husband drove her to our house and her husband drove me to theirs.

When Kim's husband dropped me off at home the next morning to pickup his wife, it was obvious by the look on my husband's face and the look on hers that they had a really great time together.

She hadn't bothered to shower.

Neither had I so we both literally reeked of sex. :D

Watching her husband and my husband shake hands after I was returned to my rightful owner and Kim was returned to her rightful owner (at least for the time being) was incredibly hot for some reason btw.

Kim and I had a hard time keeping our hands off each other and launching into every detail right from the beginning but after some heavy petting and kissing and preliminary sharing about what all went on, she left (rather reluctantly) with her husband and I was left standing there in front of my husband reeking of another man's adoration with a shit-eating, you better fucking reclaim me right now grin on my face.

Mmmm, "officially" swapping partners for a night was SOOOOO FUN!!!! :D
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Lizzie,

I thought I'd do a little light reading before bed. Saw I had a PM, read that, and then clicked the link to this thread.

Omg, this post might keep me "up" for hours! If I'm late to work in the morning I'll explain my tardiness with nothing more than "read this". There's no way my boss would reprimand me after she reads it. Actually, I won't be surprised if she goes MIA for a short while afterwards. If the next time I see her there's more color on her face, I'll know you have another fan.

Brain "I'll be dreaming of Step 3 tonight" Teez :D

P.S. I'm so glad you're back :heart:
 
BrainTeez said:
Lizzie,

I thought I'd do a little light reading before bed. Saw I had a PM, read that, and then clicked the link to this thread.

Omg, this post might keep me "up" for hours! If I'm late to work in the morning I'll explain my tardiness with nothing more than "read this". There's no way my boss would reprimand me after she reads it. Actually, I won't be surprised if she goes MIA for a short while afterwards. If the next time I see her there's more color on her face, I'll know you have another fan.

Brain "I'll be dreaming of Step 3 tonight" Teez :D

P.S. I'm so glad you're back :heart:
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Let me know what your boss says.

If I need to have a word (or two) with her we'll setup a martinis and deets lunch at some nice hotel bar somewhere. :D
 
Lorelei907 said:
Huh, no cuffs this time. Dressed appropriately, er rather inappropriately, and waiting. :heart::heart:
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So, as you know I need someone to take notes on the interrelations that go on in this thread for me.

Your resume caught my eye, Lori, but I need to know that you are an all and any team player.

I also need to know that you have an intense willingness to please, you are open to new experiences,
that you are very flexible, and that you are suckcess oriented. If frequent, intense performance reviews
after work are going to be a problem this job might not be for you.

Now, if all of that sounds reasonable and acceptable to you, we can begin step two of the interview process.

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LizVegas79 said:
So, as you know I need someone to take notes on the interrelations that go on in this thread for me.

Your resume caught my eye, Lori, but I need to know that you are an all and any team player.

I also need to know that you have an intense willingness to please, you are open to new experiences,
that you are very flexible, and that you are suckcess oriented. If frequent, intense performance reviews
after work are going to be a problem this job might not be for you.

Now, if all of that sounds reasonable and acceptable to you, we can begin step two of the interview process.

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Actually I believe step two of the interview was covered during the last Taco Tuesday. Unless there’s a need (read desire) to go over it again, I’m certainly available for lunch tomorrow, which should show my willingness to please. :)

After my tour of your, um, basement remodel, I would think you know how eager I am to try new things. And my flexibility proved itself on some of your, er, furniture. Especially the back stretcher, although the cuffs did chaff a little.

Team player? I don’t know how many girls were there (in my defense, I was blindfolded), but I do believe we all played together very well, even if I couldn’t move a muscle. :heart::heart:

So, I feel I would be a great candidate to take meetings and training notes for you, however it would be easier if my hands were free next time. :):heart:
 
Lorelei907 said:
Actually I believe step two of the interview was covered during the last Taco Tuesday. Unless there’s a need (read desire) to go over it again, I’m certainly available for lunch tomorrow, which should show my willingness to please. :)

After my tour of your, um, basement remodel, I would think you know how eager I am to try new things. And my flexibility proved itself on some of your, er, furniture. Especially the back stretcher, although the cuffs did chaff a little.

Team player? I don’t know how many girls were there (in my defense, I was blindfolded), but I do believe we all played together very well, even if I couldn’t move a muscle. :heart::heart:

So, I feel I would be a great candidate to take meetings and training notes for you, however it would be easier if my hands were free next time. :):heart:
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Welcome to the organization! :nana:

You had what it took that weekend you stopped by for a tour of my basement (your YELP reviews were all 5-stars!) and you obviously have what we're looking for in this position. Well, positions I should say. I can't say at this point how many different hats and outfits you'll be wearing, but I do have you in mind for SEVERAL very DIFFERENT (and difficult) positions! :kiss:

I have the feeling you're going to be a very natural fit. I look forward to "talking" when we take a shortcut thru the woods tomorrow to my favorite lunch spot (which, fyi, is my basement). :heart:

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