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The LIT Swingers Club

Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?

  • Yes - with close friends only

    Votes: 45 7.5%

  • Yes - but with strangers only

    Votes: 68 11.3%

  • Yes both with friends and with strangers

    Votes: 140 23.2%

  • No - but I/we might consider it if the situation was perfect

    Votes: 299 49.6%

  • No - sharing my significant other with someone else is outside my comfort zone

    Votes: 51 8.5%
  • Total voters
    603
carnival24 said:
Will do, only this is not a house party invite, it's an on-premise club. All that seems to be required to be able to attend is to complete the membership application (we did), get accepted (we did) and then pay the membership fee (we will). Oh, and you cannot be a single male on a Saturday night.

This happens to be a rare exception to Groucho Marx's adage, which I have adopted for myself, that I don't want to belong to any club that would have me as a member.
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Oh it sounds like a wonderful, or at least a very interesting opportunity to me.

So I trust you and your wife have talked about boundaries and safe words and even code words for when it's time to leave?
 
JerseyJade said:
So can I safely assume that elevators are strictly a No-No, Liz? :D
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Not necessarily. I mean if there's another couple in it with me and my husband and they're cute ... or my husband isn't there and it's just me and 3-5 hot guys who are as equally agitated by the situation as me so we have to work together to figure out a way to distract ourselves and calm down then I guess, you know, I wouldn't mind doing what I had to to, you know, relax and calm down and focus my attention on whatever, you know, came up or fell out or whatever. :devil: :rolleyes:
 
LizVegas79 said:
Not necessarily. I mean if there's another couple in it with me and my husband and they're cute ... or my husband isn't there and it's just me and 3-5 hot guys who are as equally agitated by the situation as me so we have to work together to figure out a way to distract ourselves and calm down then I guess, you know, I wouldn't mind doing what I had to to, you know, relax and calm down and focus my attention on whatever, you know, came up or fell out or whatever. :devil: :rolleyes:
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My thoughts exactly! :D
 
LizVegas79 said:
So I trust you and your wife have talked about boundaries and safe words and even code words for when it's time to leave?
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I had never thought about code words before in this context. Like a ... language within language?

My thoughts (albeit, from a poly perspective) were always on safety and consent. It's such a good idea to have a couple of words/phrases that allow you to communicate a feeling - in the moment - beyond "this is a bit much for me".

I'll be genuinely thinking on this today in a swinger context.

---

My question for all those experienced souls: Do you pay much thought to the "right" time for climax?

If you finish too quickly, is there a chance that the whole scene becomes a chore afterward?

If you finish too slowly, is there a chance that you don't get a sense of physical fulfillment?
 
JerseyJade said:
Well I wouldn't be in any hurry to get out of the elevator, if that's what you mean. :D
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I can't believe I'm saying this, but if the situation was right neither would I :D

HotBrand said:
I had never thought about code words before in this context. Like a ... language within language?

My thoughts (albeit, from a poly perspective) were always on safety and consent. It's such a good idea to have a couple of words/phrases that allow you to communicate a feeling - in the moment - beyond "this is a bit much for me".

I'll be genuinely thinking on this today in a swinger context.
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Naughty food for thought - it's what's cooking in the kitchen today! :)

I guess sort of like a language in a language. I was thinking of little pre-agreed upon phrases that have special meaning for just you and your partner. Like, "Remember when we went to Paris?" could mean it's time to leave for a couple who have never been to Paris. That kind of stuff. Or something simpler like, "I love Sweden" means I want the blonde or "Cabo is awesome" means check out that Latina over there :D

carnival24 said:
We finally made it to our date at the on-premise swingers club and while we enjoyed our time it was a dud night for meeting and greeting.

The crowd was a bit slight I imagine and by and large not into mingling. There was almost none. We have decided to return another night perhaps one with a different promotion or theme. As they say, better luck next time.
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Awww, I'm sorry. That's too bad. I remember the first time we went to the Green Room here in Vegas it was sort of like that. The people that knew each seemed to keep to themselves. And the guys who were on the prowl just sort of moved around in packs hoping to find a woman who was into being outnumbered. It was pretty gross but I've heard it's much better though "depending on when you go" so I guess it's just like where you went.

Do you plan to go again? Or look for a new spot?

Good luck either way!
 
The nice thing about being friends with people you swing with is when they find out it's you're birthday, they make a deal with your husband and then call their wives to get permission to give you their presents a day early. :)
 
LizVegas79 said:
The nice thing about being friends with people you swing with is when they find out it's you're birthday, they make a deal with your husband and then call their wives to get permission to give you their presents a day early. :)
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:heart:

Yup
 
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One of the problems of being tall and Latina is how much I intimidate some men.
They're afraid to approach me or talk to me and just stare at me from a safe distance
at parties and other social gatherings.

Fortunately, my husband figured out a way to make me a little less intimidating at our next party.

We tried it out last night. I hope it works!

Although, since I'll be on my tummy I won't be able to tell exactly who and who
didn't get over their shyness until I come back downstairs and see who smiles at me. :devil:
 
We still attend our local swingers club, however since I started seeing my FWB (who’s not in the LS) I have not played. He’s never told me I can’t and he knows that I go. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? I like him so much, I get those little butterflies whenever we hang out, it’s really disgusting. Lol 😂
 
I have always liked the face up/easy access a round bed offers..

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LizVegas79 said:
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One of the problems of being tall and Latina is how much I intimidate some men.
They're afraid to approach me or talk to me and just stare at me from a safe distance
at parties and other social gatherings.

Fortunately, my husband figured out a way to make me a little less intimidating at our next party.

We tried it out last night. I hope it works!

Although, since I'll be on my tummy I won't be able to tell exactly who and who
didn't get over their shyness until I come back downstairs and see who smiles at me. :devil:
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Shi_One81 said:
We still attend our local swingers club, however since I started seeing my FWB (who’s not in the LS) I have not played. He’s never told me I can’t and he knows that I go. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? I like him so much, I get those little butterflies whenever we hang out, it’s really disgusting. Lol 😂
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No, I haven't personally. Not yet anyways. But it doesn't sound like the worst situation to be in to me. I personally believe it's really really important to be honest with our "primary partner" but once you have permission to play, as long as you're honest about it and share all the juicy details about your encounters when you get home, then what's the harm?

Keeping the lines of communication is the most important and the hardest part. That's what I've learned so far anyways. And you know, sometimes you just have to feed their suspicious minds so that they don't START getting suspicious.

If you like him that much it seems the best thing you can do is be honest with him. Heck, he might even ENJOY hearing about your adventures!

And, like I and others have mentioned here in other posts, the RECLAIMING part is absolutely the BEST!

I had no idea it was going to be so good and neither did my husband. I swear, it feels like we're getting close to the point where it's going to be okay for me to go out and play just so that I can come home and be reclaimed by him.

Honesty + Communication = Wildest Desires and Multiple O's at least imho! :D
 
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