The LIT Swingers Club

Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?


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No, I haven't personally. Not yet anyways. But it doesn't sound like the worst situation to be in to me. I personally believe it's really really important to be honest with our "primary partner" but once you have permission to play, as long as you're honest about it and share all the juicy details about your encounters when you get home, then what's the harm?

Keeping the lines of communication is the most important and the hardest part. That's what I've learned so far anyways. And you know, sometimes you just have to feed their suspicious minds so that they don't START getting suspicious.

If you like him that much it seems the best thing you can do is be honest with him. Heck, he might even ENJOY hearing about your adventures!

And, like I and others have mentioned here in other posts, the RECLAIMING part is absolutely the BEST!

I had no idea it was going to be so good and neither did my husband. I swear, it feels like we're getting close to the point where it's going to be okay for me to go out and play just so that I can come home and be reclaimed by him.

Honesty + Communication = Wildest Desires and Multiple O's at least imho! :D

Oh yes, the hubby knows everything. I don’t hide anything from him, hell I even send screenshots of convos to him.
 
Oh yes, the hubby knows everything. I don’t hide anything from him, hell I even send screenshots of convos to him.

So there's no problem at all then! YAAAAAY!!!!

Lucky you! Sounds like it's a win-win-win for everyone! :nana:
 
Believe it or not, she's the one who's actually in charge :D

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No, I haven't personally. Not yet anyways. But it doesn't sound like the worst situation to be in to me. I personally believe it's really really important to be honest with our "primary partner" but once you have permission to play, as long as you're honest about it and share all the juicy details about your encounters when you get home, then what's the harm?

Keeping the lines of communication is the most important and the hardest part. That's what I've learned so far anyways. And you know, sometimes you just have to feed their suspicious minds so that they don't START getting suspicious.

If you like him that much it seems the best thing you can do is be honest with him. Heck, he might even ENJOY hearing about your adventures!

And, like I and others have mentioned here in other posts, the RECLAIMING part is absolutely the BEST!

I had no idea it was going to be so good and neither did my husband. I swear, it feels like we're getting close to the point where it's going to be okay for me to go out and play just so that I can come home and be reclaimed by him.

Honesty + Communication = Wildest Desires and Multiple O's at least imho! :D

:heart: this post!!
 
Believe it or not, she's the one who's actually in charge :D

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Hi Liz,

Long time no chat! I hope you're all sorted for xmas and starting to enjoy a bit of freedom beyond Covid lockdowns?

This latest post reminded me of my first adventure since our lockdown ended here a few weeks ago. Hubby watching my play with two lovely younger guys we met at the casino in town. Quite a special night it was!
 
Hi Liz,

Long time no chat! I hope you're all sorted for xmas and starting to enjoy a bit of freedom beyond Covid lockdowns?

This latest post reminded me of my first adventure since our lockdown ended here a few weeks ago. Hubby watching my play with two lovely younger guys we met at the casino in town. Quite a special night it was!

Hey Dee!

It's been way too long! Sounds like you're doing well. Glad to hear things are getting better Down Under. It's turning into another shit-show here but hopefully it won't last as long as last time.

Oh my, that does sound like a special night. It sort of reminds me of my birthday last month. What an unexpected surprise that was! (twice!) :devil:

Enjoy your holidays and have a happy, wonderful 2022!

:kiss:
Lizzie
 
Vacations are more fun, and a lot less predictable! when you're not afraid to tell the world, discreetly of course, that you're open to any and all fun suggestions :devil:

Those are the kinds of billboards that always catch my eye. Lovely advertisement.
 
In my VERY limited experience, a beautiful and confident woman can ask for just about anything. I wound up in a odd positions and in a few odd locations because someone smiled at me and said "please, can we ... "
 
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Yay! I want to know everything 😊

Okay, sure! First things first. Whenever I'm near water I like to use at least an SPF 30 suntan lotion. Of course, finding someone nice who's willing to do my back is always the tricky part whenever I'm by myself. They're always, "Oh, that's an interesting ankle bracelet. Can I buy you a drink?"

I have a really hard time turning down free alcohol. Even in the morning. And I usually end up making fun, but terrible decisions whenever I start drinking on an empty stomach. That's why starting each day with a healthy breakfast is so important, especially when you're on vacation, right? Otherwise you end up getting invited to some beach wedding in the afternoon and doing the groom all the groomsmen back in their hotel room before dinner.

Those are the kinds of billboards that always catch my eye. Lovely advertisement.

Billboards? Didn't I use the word 'discreetly'? I don't have the advertising budget for billboards sweetie LOL
 
Link to pics from our New Years Eve shenanigans... we had fun at a local hotel takeover. Our fun couple spent two nights with us. :devil:

Link to pics
 
Link to pics from our New Years Eve shenanigans... we had fun at a local hotel takeover. Our fun couple spent two nights with us. :devil:

Link to pics


Jellie! One of these year's I'm going to have to NOT work NYE so that hub's and I can be one of the fun couples like you that I see having fun in their rooms or all around the resort!

What a beautiful, sexy dress too! Isn't it fun getting all dressed up and not knowing exactly who will be stripping it all off of you? :D

Lucky duck! :heart:
 
That is definitely part of the thrill! :devil:

The next party I go to I want to keep a washable marker in my garter so that everyone who has me can write their name on my back or on my tummy or maybe down one of my legs. Have you ever done anything like that? :devil:
 
The next party I go to I want to keep a washable marker in my garter so that everyone who has me can write their name on my back or on my tummy or maybe down one of my legs. Have you ever done anything like that? :devil:

:eek: No! But what an idea! With a group of good friends, I would like that!

Even though I had always fantasized about an orgy... it's really not my thing. Maybe IF I knew all of the players involved - like hand picked them for the orgy. But having strangers fuck me that I am not attracted to is not for me. I've been to one house party that turned that way... had to use my voice and say, nope!
 
:eek: No! But what an idea! With a group of good friends, I would like that!

Even though I had always fantasized about an orgy... it's really not my thing. Maybe IF I knew all of the players involved - like hand picked them for the orgy. But having strangers fuck me that I am not attracted to is not for me. I've been to one house party that turned that way... had to use my voice and say, nope!

Some women have all the fun. :rolleyes::D
 
:eek: No! But what an idea! With a group of good friends, I would like that!

Even though I had always fantasized about an orgy... it's really not my thing. Maybe IF I knew all of the players involved - like hand picked them for the orgy. But having strangers fuck me that I am not attracted to is not for me. I've been to one house party that turned that way... had to use my voice and say, nope!

I would want to know everyone too. Having been that girl back in my younger daze that stayed at parties too long after they were over and all the other girls left is not something I ever want to do again.

I am totally in love with the swingers scene even though I only have super limited experience with it so far. Going home with my husband after a fun night of swapping partners and having a bunch of names written in a list on my bod just sounds so deliciously naughty I can't wait to try it!

Some women have all the fun. :rolleyes::D

True. The secret is not waiting around for the fun to find you! :D
 
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