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Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?

  • Yes - with close friends only

    Votes: 45 7.5%

  • Yes - but with strangers only

    Votes: 68 11.3%

  • Yes both with friends and with strangers

    Votes: 140 23.2%

  • No - but I/we might consider it if the situation was perfect

    Votes: 299 49.6%

  • No - sharing my significant other with someone else is outside my comfort zone

    Votes: 51 8.5%
  • Total voters
    603
LizVegas79 said:
I'm not sure if that's the kind of guy I have or not. I'm still not quite sure how far to push it. I'm not suppose to be with anyone behind his back so I guess that kind of answers my own question LOL
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Based on those rules it sounds like it's fine as long as you do it in front of him.

Disclosure - I am not a lawyer.
 
TallGlassOfSarcasm said:
Ironic

If you "get a raise" that means you have the approval 😁
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I doubt that's what he would think. Especially if I get more than 4%, which I've heard is the baseline this year!

Although, to be fair, he MIGHT like to hear about it even if it was just pretend. More and more he enjoys good naughty pillow talk. Plus, getting a bigger than usual raise "the naughty way" would involve two of his favorite things: money and sex LOL
 
LizVegas79 said:
I doubt that's what he would think. Especially if I get more than 4%, which I've heard is the baseline this year!

Although, to be fair, he MIGHT like to hear about it even if it was just pretend. More and more he enjoys good naughty pillow talk. Plus, getting a bigger than usual raise "the naughty way" would involve two of his favorite things: money and sex LOL
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The more you get him worked up with pillow talk the more he will agree to.

Damn, we men are simple. 😐
 
LizVegas79 said:
Hello Everyone - I'm hoping those of you who have been to swingers clubs or shared a partner at a swinger's party will join in the discussion on this thread because I can tell my husband and I are going to need some advice.

This past Saturday night and Sunday morning my husband and I spent some quality time with two couples friends of ours openly and freely discussing our sexual bucket lists in regards to both this coronavirus pandemic and the fact that we're all starting to get a little older.

We knew that was the agenda for the party in advance because it all started from a conversation my husband and one of his best friends had at work last week.

It turned out to be a wonderful and amazing eye opening (and eye popping! :D ) experience for all six of us.

It was not the first time my husband and I looked into the swinger's scene here in Las Vegas. But it was the first time we participated in it.

I can tell already that it has not only changed our relationship with our friends I previously felt we already knew, but that it has and will continue to also change our own relationship as husband and wife.

It's all good. We broke down some barriers (especially a few of his) and I expect we will be breaking down a few more in the coming weeks and months.

It turns out that within our circle of friends more of them have been enjoying each other's company quite a bit more that I previously knew. I guess that old saying is true, "You never really know someone until you sleep with them." :D

https://66.media.tumblr.com/7bd4c476b58d4bf872096f3163a5ddc2/tumblr_pjqpoqI2861w0d0on_500.jpg

(mmmm, I can still feel that first tentative touch of one of my husband's best friends reaching out and caressing me for the first time :devil: )

With all that said, I'm hoping that some of you who have more experience with "the lifestyle" :D will share your own thoughts and experiences sharing your S.O.'s (significant others) with friends and/or strangers. Because I can tell already that this is going to be a bit of a tricky dance but at the same time I am soooooo looking forward to it!

I guess what I'm most interested in learning about is:

- What are some of the unexpected challenges that can arise within an active group of swingers?

and

- What are some of the things to look out for or discuss with your S.O. in order to keep the lines of communication open?

Thank you all in advance for sharing your wisdom! I can't think of a better way to talk about the joys and challenges of swinging and partner swapping than with a group of other people! :heart:
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Great thread, but I could not vote. When we did parties and enjoyed Trapeze we swapped on our terms. We usually mnet people interesting at clubs and found if they moved at our pace. We would enjoy dinner as a group and get to the agreed protocol and expectation. Then we would play. And we swapped for the ladies to enjoy each other, and sometimes the ladies would blow the patient men that watched. If there was full on sex it was in the same room with the lover we came with. No domination, bi guys or anal anything. Actual swinging without sex.
 
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