LibertineDaddy
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Is there much better than doing that?
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Is there much better than doing that?
Is there much better than doing that?
)It is possible? If you get invited to a party it is not a nudist event. It is a party where people with similar ideas are together. A simple way to meet people with the same adventurous ideas. As well the parties are tasteful. Kind of a protocol the way people interact and respect each other. If endowment is a known issue I am sure it would be brought up. If it is a major concern for you, be sure to mention it. I sent you a post that included a site where you could not only find parties, but learn the protocol so you don't do something stupid. As well, being in Vegas you should be able to meet 'parties' of people coming to Vegas as a group. There are not only mingle parties for swingers. It is a lifestyle site. What are you looking for?
Visiting an on-premis club the first time I will admit I was really nervous. I figured I'd be the smallest in the room. She thought she would feel fat. It wasn't like that. The main part of the club is a party with dance and good food and byob you drop off at the bar to be served as requested. In a separate part of the club is an area where people are naked. Clothing is not an option to enter that area. You enter as a couple and it is not pushy. If you want to talk to someone acknowledge them. If you don't, don't. Same thing at resorts that are clothing optional.
Any swapping we did we called soft swing. To each their own. The point is don't be discouraged. Just because you mingle does not mean you have to do anything. Someone pressuring you will be promptly removed. Sometimes we went to parties just because it was fun. Only once did we bring someone to our room that we met at a party. Any couple we met and eventually played with we had dinner at one of our homes or out. There were times we met and never ended up enjoying each other physically. It wasn't like ordering a massage and finding out who the masseuse was later. It is laid back and fun. In our experiences we always came away thinking they were as fortunate as us. We all looked better without or clothes.
Has anyone ever been to a party where one of the participants was too big for one of the other participants to even want to try to be with? - Yes. Twice. One of these times I managed to enjoy him but my best friend Georgie (and occasional lover) was unable to accommodate this guy. I was DEE-lightfully sore for a couple of days afterwards but sometimes the pain is worth the pleasure, if you get my drift. On the second occasion, the owner of said horse cock was mad keen on trying to push his weapon into women's asses all night and we just decided to smoke him and not let him ruin our insides.
What happens if someone, a man or a woman, is shocked to the point of having to stop by what he or she sees when his or her partner-to-be is naked? - Well, the golden rule of all good swinger's parties in 'No means, NO!' but I can see what you mean here. What happens if someone partners up with someone and when they de-kit they are just not a turn-on for that partner, right? Well, I still say, no means no, so provided you can politely and without any cruelty back out of the situation, it is better than going through a sexually weird situation with someone you're not attracted to.
There is also another scenario that I have made work in this situation, Liz! Let me know if you think I am either mean or just too damn kinky for my own good. If I have a 'swapee' or partner that is less than Chris Hemsworth-like in the looks department, I often get Steve to join us and I just focus on him physically, and let Mr or Mrs slightly less appealing play with me - eg; fuck me doggie style while I suck Steve, if you get my drift. It's amazing how accommodating we can be to those we don't initially find attractive once the real fun starts, and I always enjoy the sensation of additional hands, tongues or cocks.
Has that ever happened to anyone or at a swingers/swap party they attended? Yes - see answers above.
It must be really awkward, but the more I think about it I imagine it very easily could happen.
Besides a penis that's too big, I guess there's also the risk of too old? not attractive enough? too fat or too skinny for someone?
I guess a boiled down question would be, what happens when someone changes their mind (for whatever reason) AFTER they pair off with someone?

I LOVE "taking her back" ... sometimes we will roleplay the situation even... some playtime in the afternoon, and then later in the evening something like asking how her day was, and she will say she got fucked...and I need to take her back..Sloppy seconds are the best (and note I'm saying this as a woman not as a guy). Especially when the guy getting my sloppy seconds is my husband. It's not only sexy AF being used by a second guy right after I've been someone else's fuck toy, emotionally, knowing that my husband still loves me and wants to fuck me and make me scream AFTER I've been with someone else adds a whole new level to the term "making love". I'm not just having sex with him. We are reaffirming our love for each other. Its just so emotionally and physically arousing. It literally makes me love him even more than I already do. (plus I feel dirty AF before, during and especially after, which I don't hate at all either)
Not a term I would expect to use, but your feelings for your husband at that point are just so sweetSloppy seconds are the best (and note I'm saying this as a woman not as a guy). Especially when the guy getting my sloppy seconds is my husband. It's not only sexy AF being used by a second guy right after I've been someone else's fuck toy, emotionally, knowing that my husband still loves me and wants to fuck me and make me scream AFTER I've been with someone else adds a whole new level to the term "making love". I'm not just having sex with him. We are reaffirming our love for each other. Its just so emotionally and physically arousing. It literally makes me love him even more than I already do. (plus I feel dirty AF before, during and especially after, which I don't hate at all either)

oh, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you too!I sooooooooo hope I get to be her next month.
Crossing my fingers and my toes!!!!!![]()
I would like to know if your still interested in talking about other families like your sister for one.oh, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you too!
Let us know if that happens!I sooooooooo hope I get to be her next month.
Crossing my fingers and my toes!!!!!![]()
Let us know if that happens!
You will definitely be running late![]()
"Are you almost ready honey? I don't want to be late. I forgot to tell you I'm going to be one of the only
women at the party tonight. We're interviewing new unicorns for the Summer Solstice Party."
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I sooooooooo hope I get to be her next month.
Crossing my fingers and my toes!!!!! 
WWhhaatt't''sshhaWhhat'sh
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Liz - I have this exact same dress!!! It was rather revealing as shown and oh boy did it cause a stir with the menfolk.........never been so handsy!!![]()
"Are you almost ready honey? I don't want to be late. I forgot to tell you I'm going to be one of the only
women at the party tonight. We're interviewing new unicorns for the Summer Solstice Party."
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Liz - I have this exact same dress!!! It was rather revealing as shown and oh boy did it cause a stir with the menfolk.........never been so handsy!!

I’m liking ithttps://i.imgur.com/1Ha9LNV.png
"There sure are a lot of blondes at this swap party aren't there? Let me
know if you're looking for a little variety."
I should have been asleep an hour ago, you're making it hardhttps://i.imgur.com/1Ha9LNV.png
"There sure are a lot of blondes at this swap party aren't there? Let me
know if you're looking for a little variety."
I should have been asleep an hour ago, you're making it hard![]()
No, you're world class at it to be honestDo you expect me to apologize?lol
Is it actually possible to walk in that? It looks killer.Liz, is this dress and these heels appropriate for next weekend's swingers party??