What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

Oh, what a tangled web . . . . If loved ones and others in my offline life knew a fraction of what I've done online, they'd say I have zero morals or integrity. On the flip side, I think that people in my online world would say that I have high morals and integrity. It's all relative to the space I'm occupying.

My wife, kids and associates would for the most part be very surprised and shocked at the personal compromises I've made, the vows I've broken and questionable decisions I've made. Of course, I can rationalize it all for myself. Whether others would agree with those rationalizations is another story. Now, other than my online and related sexual indiscretions go, I feel my integrity is well regarded and is something I am constantly working to uphold.

Over my years here, I have tried to be honest about my intentions and acted by a golden rule of sorts. There have been mistakes made and lessons learned from those mistakes, of course, but overall a sense of integrity has served me well. The last couple years here, I've been 'with' only one other Litster and I'm happy to say that it's worked well for both of us.

It can be a personal struggle at times and in both spaces trying to do the right things and to be true to some principles. It's worth it though in the end.

Eloquently put Abs and i have no doubt like LW a lot can relate to your words.
 
I'm nosey about stories, and what you like.

I've read a mix. Some are more literary - for want of a better term - and are essentially short stories with a sexual element. Others get to the sex quickly and focus on that, with everything else more pared back. And that's not a criticism - some of the longer, 'literary' ones felt turgid and the sex was limp, while some of the shorter ones stayed with me.

But which do you like? Do you want a story? Or do you want to go straight to the fucking by the third paragraph?
 
I'm nosey about stories, and what you like.

I've read a mix. Some are more literary - for want of a better term - and are essentially short stories with a sexual element. Others get to the sex quickly and focus on that, with everything else more pared back. And that's not a criticism - some of the longer, 'literary' ones felt turgid and the sex was limp, while some of the shorter ones stayed with me.

But which do you like? Do you want a story? Or do you want to go straight to the fucking by the third paragraph?

I prefer to read and write stories that are authentic and believable. Nearly everything I have written is based on a fictionalized actual experience or at least a realistic fantasy. Maybe some of what I call unbelievable is believable for some people, but if it's too far fetched for me, I lose interest.

Usually this lends to shorter stories. Unless you wanted to hear then entire 30 years of my sex life in story form, I'm only going to squeeze 4-5 pages out of a scenario and like to read similar.
 
I'm nosey about stories, and what you like.

I've read a mix. Some are more literary - for want of a better term - and are essentially short stories with a sexual element. Others get to the sex quickly and focus on that, with everything else more pared back. And that's not a criticism - some of the longer, 'literary' ones felt turgid and the sex was limp, while some of the shorter ones stayed with me.

But which do you like? Do you want a story? Or do you want to go straight to the fucking by the third paragraph?

The quality of the writing has greatly diminished over the last 20 yrs in my opinion. Or let me rephrase and say I can easily go through the "new" story first page and find nothing that interests me. I do not like chapter stories. Just my personal taste. I prefer conflict...the battle of should I or shouldn't I? It builds the suspense. I can care less about the size of her boobs or length of his dick. So if the story starts out with measurements...I am done and on to the next story. One of the best stories I read here was from several years ago that had no sex...but only talk of sex. People rated it poorly cause of exactly that. But it felt real. The dialog made sense. It flowed.

It doesn't matter the genre...i can find anything worthy of my time if it is written well. But if I can open 10 stories from that genre and read the same story...well I have read it before...and probably better written. I do find good fantasy or horror themed stories easier to read
 
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I'm nosey about stories, and what you like.

I've read a mix. Some are more literary - for want of a better term - and are essentially short stories with a sexual element. Others get to the sex quickly and focus on that, with everything else more pared back. And that's not a criticism - some of the longer, 'literary' ones felt turgid and the sex was limp, while some of the shorter ones stayed with me.

But which do you like? Do you want a story? Or do you want to go straight to the fucking by the third paragraph?

I prefer longer and more detailed stories that let you get to know the characters. I like for the story to trigger many different emotions throughout the plot including detailed intense sexual content.
 
I'm nosey about stories, and what you like.

I've read a mix. Some are more literary - for want of a better term - and are essentially short stories with a sexual element. Others get to the sex quickly and focus on that, with everything else more pared back. And that's not a criticism - some of the longer, 'literary' ones felt turgid and the sex was limp, while some of the shorter ones stayed with me.

But which do you like? Do you want a story? Or do you want to go straight to the fucking by the third paragraph?

I want it written well, with actual punctuation, grammar and spelling, which is often a lot to ask for, I have found. I don’t want too much plot or character buildup; make it a readable, hot tale of sexual activity
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.
I have had sex when she was menstruating. There was not much finger/foreplay... she was horny and wanted cock... who was I to say no? Haha. Felt no different at all. Some simple clean up afterwards. I would do it again!
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.

I have no problems with it. It's just that I don't feel the friction and so I prefer anal.
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.

I find women hotter when they are menstruating. Or have. Most stuff is still on the table.
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.

I would have sex or masturbate on the tail end of my period. Heavy flow days…no thank you. I feel horribly unsexy then. My husband won’t come anywhere near me if he thinks a trace of blood might get on him. He actually makes me feel very self conscious about it. I also get super crazy horny when im on my period.
 
I would have sex or masturbate on the tail end of my period. Heavy flow days…no thank you. I feel horribly unsexy then. My husband won’t come anywhere near me if he thinks a trace of blood might get on him. He actually makes me feel very self conscious about it. I also get super crazy horny when im on my period.

This!

Plus I get crampy and tired, so the last thing on my mind is sex.
 
I would have sex or masturbate on the tail end of my period. Heavy flow days…no thank you. I feel horribly unsexy then. My husband won’t come anywhere near me if he thinks a trace of blood might get on him. He actually makes me feel very self conscious about it. I also get super crazy horny when im on my period.
Very similar. Super horny but flow too heavy to do anything.

I will say though that I did used to give blow jobs even there was nothing else happening
 
This!

Plus I get crampy and tired, so the last thing on my mind is sex.
I don't know how to quote both of you sorry...

But LW and JJ, if your SO is making you feel self conscious about that??!! That's bullshit.

On a completely separate and unrelated note... when you're crazy horny, just let me know ;)
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.

I don't think I've ever been with a woman who wanted sex on her period. I don't think I'd hate it, but it's not something I'm particularly eager for either. I did have one girlfriend once who simply declared it "blowjob week." She was a keeper.
 
I don't think I've ever been with a woman who wanted sex on her period. I don't think I'd hate it, but it's not something I'm particularly eager for either. I did have one girlfriend once who simply declared it "blowjob week." She was a keeper.

Oh to see the Hallmark card for that
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.


I've known lots of girls who liked flo-sex. :)
I wouldn't call it enhancing, but I've never had problem with it.
 
I would have sex or masturbate on the tail end of my period. Heavy flow days…no thank you. I feel horribly unsexy then. My husband won’t come anywhere near me if he thinks a trace of blood might get on him. He actually makes me feel very self conscious about it. I also get super crazy horny when im on my period.

Same as LW (minus the husband stuff since I don't have one)

I had one boyfriend who didn't care about me being on my period for sex, he was all for it. He even pushed for it when I was feeling gross & crampy, saying that an orgasm would help my cramps (ignoring the fact that I'd never had an orgasm with him). And that''s actually true sometimes, but I'd rather do it on my own at that point of my period.
 
I’m feeling nosey about sex and menstruation.

Ladies, what’s your take on this? Do you want it, need it, have to have it, can’t stand it? Do you masturbate when you’re menstruating? Do you differ any of your sex or wanky behaviours when you have your period?

Men what’s your take on sex or sexual activity while she’s got her period?

Come on, let’s get into this like grown ups.

Over the years , and with different baby mama’s it’s been different with each one of them. The first baby mama wasn’t into it in the least bit. But she would suck my balls dry and spit the little swimmers into a towel if I asked nicely when Aunt Flo visited.

The current Mrs. FF is a hot bath tub soaking first , then shower and it’s on kinda gal.

It’s a non issue for me personally. All tho , I have to admit I will poke the bear if she gets grumpy or whiny and plays the PMS card. I bring her chocolates , cheese puffs and Natty lite.

FF
 
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I never liked it. But when you love someone, there are some things you do without complaining just because.
 
I'm pretty indifferent to it. I'd probably avoid oral depending on the specific characteristics, but everything else is on the table for me.

Probably the biggest thing for me is you gotta let me know. Ive known enough women in my lifetime that don't want me to breathe near them, but of you want a dicking, just say so (or just jump on board).
 
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