What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[Azuldrgon]

Lol, I wouldn’t know. We had a tank of a car in high school, but I couldn’t even say s-e-x back then.

Well we all have things we regret about back then. Or wild memories to recall when needed when we're feeling a bit older than usual. lol.
*hugs*

 

[hairball18]

I'm Nosey,

What car have you had the best sex in?

66 ford station wagon.

 

[Azuldrgon]

66 ford station wagon.

Exactly!!!

 

[AveryElle]

I'm Nosey,

What car have you had the best sex in?

None. It’s never been great in a car. I haven’t had to do that since my spouse was in the military and I visited him. But it’s never been good. BJs, handies, etc. all because they had to be done there not because it was sexy. One guy I hooked up with had some BMW sports car and I was like seriously?? Too small for anything and I was much smaller then!

 

[cheekygirl75]

I’m nosey about if it’s just me who feels presumptuous sometimes about responding to a serious post from someone they haven’t interacted with much (or at all).

For example: I just started to reply to a post from someone who seems to be having a tough time. I don’t know this person well & don’t know what they’re going through. I started to offer a virtual hand to hold, but then felt silly for presuming to offer comfort from a mostly stranger.

Is it just me? Do you wait until you have a certain level of interaction, connection, friendship, etc. with someone before responding to serious posts?

I think what I worry about is not wanting to make someone else’s hard time about me… or to barge in somewhere with inappropriate sentiments.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I’m nosey about if it’s just me who feels presumptuous sometimes about responding to a serious post from someone they haven’t interacted with much (or at all).

For example: I just started to reply to a post from someone who seems to be having a tough time. I don’t know this person well & don’t know what they’re going through. I started to offer a virtual hand to hold, but then felt silly for presuming to offer comfort from a mostly stranger.

Is it just me? Do you wait until you have a certain level of interaction, connection, friendship, etc. with someone before responding to serious posts?

I think what I worry about is not wanting to make someone else’s hard time about me… or to barge in somewhere with inappropriate sentiments.

It depends on what they are posting. If it is clear what their struggle is and I can relate to it, then I would offer the hand of support. Sometimes talking with somebody who has gone through something similar can help and be a comfort. I would offer the hand and then leave it up to them to talk. The offer of the hand can sometimes be enough.

For me personally, if I was posting about my struggle on a public board then I would accept any hand that is offered. If I didn’t want the support of others, I wouldn’t post it.

 

[Modern_drunkard]

I’m nosey about if it’s just me who feels presumptuous sometimes about responding to a serious post from someone they haven’t interacted with much (or at all).

For example: I just started to reply to a post from someone who seems to be having a tough time. I don’t know this person well & don’t know what they’re going through. I started to offer a virtual hand to hold, but then felt silly for presuming to offer comfort from a mostly stranger.

Is it just me? Do you wait until you have a certain level of interaction, connection, friendship, etc. with someone before responding to serious posts?

I think what I worry about is not wanting to make someone else’s hard time about me… or to barge in somewhere with inappropriate sentiments.

Could not tell you. Cant get close to muh fuckers in real life so cyber life seems kinda jokey.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I’m nosey about if it’s just me who feels presumptuous sometimes about responding to a serious post from someone they haven’t interacted with much (or at all).

For example: I just started to reply to a post from someone who seems to be having a tough time. I don’t know this person well & don’t know what they’re going through. I started to offer a virtual hand to hold, but then felt silly for presuming to offer comfort from a mostly stranger.

Is it just me? Do you wait until you have a certain level of interaction, connection, friendship, etc. with someone before responding to serious posts?

I think what I worry about is not wanting to make someone else’s hard time about me… or to barge in somewhere with inappropriate sentiments.

I’ve definitely thought about this a few times. It’s occurred to me that it might come across as random or bizarre, but then I generally end up going with why the fuck not? It doesn’t matter if you know what the issue is or can offer great advice. Sometimes it’s just nice to know someone noticed and cared enough to reach out. I’d rather risk it on my end than to miss an opportunity to connect with someone when it matters. What’s the worst that can happen?

I’ve done it a few times and never once regretted it.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I’m nosey about if it’s just me who feels presumptuous sometimes about responding to a serious post from someone they haven’t interacted with much (or at all).

For example: I just started to reply to a post from someone who seems to be having a tough time. I don’t know this person well & don’t know what they’re going through. I started to offer a virtual hand to hold, but then felt silly for presuming to offer comfort from a mostly stranger.

Is it just me? Do you wait until you have a certain level of interaction, connection, friendship, etc. with someone before responding to serious posts?

I think what I worry about is not wanting to make someone else’s hard time about me… or to barge in somewhere with inappropriate sentiments.

I don’t wait until I know someone. If someone is hurting and I feel drawn to respond, I will. I will likely do it in a PM though. I hope they can tell my concern or offer of support is genuine. I will say, in my experience, I think a couple of women I have reached out to were skeptical of my motives or something because their response was pretty cold.

 

[mynameisben]

Do women lie about their panty size, too?


Ben

 

[cheekygirl75]

Do women lie about their panty size, too?


Ben

Have you been lying about your panty size?

 

[mynameisben]

Have you been lying about your panty size?

34 inch waist boxers. No lies, no panties.


Ben

 

[SassySheDevil]

Do women lie about their panty size, too?


Ben

I can't recall a time my panty size came up in conversation. Color, style, on/off. But I don't think a guy ever asked me what size. Unless he's buying them for me. No reason. Small sounds way better than XL so. I guess anything is possible.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I don’t wait until I know someone. If someone is hurting and I feel drawn to respond, I will. I will likely do it in a PM though. I hope they can tell my concern or offer of support is genuine. I will say, in my experience, I think a couple of women I have reached out to were skeptical of my motives or something because their response was pretty cold.

Yes, PM for sure. I think sincerity is usually obvious when it’s there, but that doesn’t always mean the other person is in a place to recognize it.

 

[RustyIron]

I can't recall a time my panty size came up in conversation. Color, style, on/off. But I don't think a guy ever asked me what size. Unless he's buying them for me. No reason. Small sounds way better than XL so. I guess anything is possible.

Oh Wait really, What is you panty size. There's a first right there.
Doesn't matter, your ass is hot in what ever size you wear.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I can't recall a time my panty size came up in conversation. Color, style, on/off. But I don't think a guy ever asked me what size. Unless he's buying them for me. No reason. Small sounds way better than XL so. I guess anything is possible.

I agree with Sassy.

It has always baffled me why so many men here care what color my panties are. *
I mean, it’s highly unlikely they’re ever going to see them so what’s the big deal?

 

[Justabaldguy70]

I am pondering on the size of panties the Lit women wear…..hmmmmm

 

[SassySheDevil]

I agree with Sassy.

It has always baffled me why so many men here care what color my panties are. *
I mean, it’s highly unlikely they’re ever going to see them so what’s the big deal?

YES! it's not like it will matter. Most likely they will still say. "I bet you look hot" no matter which color I tell them it is.

 

[Orchidea73]

I’m nosey about if it’s just me who feels presumptuous sometimes about responding to a serious post from someone they haven’t interacted with much (or at all).

For example: I just started to reply to a post from someone who seems to be having a tough time. I don’t know this person well & don’t know what they’re going through. I started to offer a virtual hand to hold, but then felt silly for presuming to offer comfort from a mostly stranger.

Is it just me? Do you wait until you have a certain level of interaction, connection, friendship, etc. with someone before responding to serious posts?

I think what I worry about is not wanting to make someone else’s hard time about me… or to barge in somewhere with inappropriate sentiments.

Very rarely so. Like you, I think it would be a bit presumptuous of me to think that somebody else - whom I don't know at all - would want my opinion/support with whatever they are struggling with. I do catch myself doing that in public sometimes, and I refrain myself, if I can help it.

The reason is simply. Many people just want to rant/vent and they don't need your "lecture". They should feel free to post whatever they want, without fearing that someone will jump and contribute with their say on the matter. Especially when they don't have a clue of what's going on.

In some other cases, I don't like to do it because some people post that kind of stuff all year long, and frankly I get tired. It's a cheap manipulation tool for attention seeking. And nothing I would say or do will help those people.

 

[mynameisben]

I agree with Sassy.

It has always baffled me why so many men here care what color my panties are. *
I mean, it’s highly unlikely they’re ever going to see them so what’s the big deal?

It's just an icebreaker. We don't really care about the color so much as we care about letting you know we take an interest in your fashion sense.


Ben

 

[Jake069258]

That's because most of the clothing manufacturers for women can't agree on what a size is. Even within their own brand, so how are we supposed to know? Lol

Dude! Your digging a hole you can't get out of... trust me!!! Just walk away... I'm trying to help...

 

[Jake069258]

*drinks a local IPA in your face*

Hey... now we're drinking together... making progress!! Haha

 

[Orchidea73]

That's because most of the clothing manufacturers for women can't agree on what a size is. Even within their own brand, so how are we supposed to know? Lol

Most of the time I don't have a clue either, and I'm a woman.
They do change from country to country also. I stick with what I know.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I’m nosy about red flags…
Do you heed them or ignore them or what does it depend on?

 

[Azuldrgon]

I’m nosy about red flags…
Do you heed them or ignore them or what does it depend on?

I do try to heed them whenever possible, but sometimes you want to give the benefit of the doubt depending.