What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I so feel ya! I only time I felt that was when Jerry died and my friends and I hung out on Central Park all day and cried with a bunch of dead heads.... I was shocked about Bobby. 😔
Thats so cool! I was just getting into them when Jerry died and I remember exactly where I was when I heard news but it wasnt this for me. Bobby lived a long wonderful hard life and I guess we all knew it could happen. But the fact he kept his illness private I think we all woke up to that terrible news

I've actually gone on deep dive with music and reading as much as I possibly can. I found some amazing sites that have all our old tapes still around!
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again.
He's a Knobhead.

You're certainly not old, fat or droopy.
Tell him to take a long walk off a short cliff.
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.

He's your ex for a reason and he achieved exactly what he wanted to do. He got inside your head and made you crumble and doubt yourself. Be comfortable, be you. Don't let him control what you do or how you dress. If he has issue with it, it's his problem. And most likely, his finding you braless is distracting in the sense that he likes it. But he just wants to demoralize you now.
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.
Your ex is an ass.
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.

I see why he's your ex. What an ass. He should wear a muzzle to keep his fat mouth shut. Yes. I'm mad. My ex is an ass, too.

I'm sorry that his words made you feel self conscious and that you're feeling down on yourself.

I hope you get back to that place of feeling beautiful no matter what you wear.
 
@MissMaidenMinx You know what I said i had in my boot (trunk for the yanks). It would come in very helpful in the Outback.....

You know how men will offer help when it's not asked for? I'm thinking about starting to be unhelpful on their posts. Like when they say they're masturbating on the thread, I could reply and say something that would kill the vibe.
Thankfully I don't do that, but that sounds hilarious.
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.
🫂 🫂
 
You know how men will offer help when it's not asked for? I'm thinking about starting to be unhelpful on their posts. Like when they say they're masturbating on the thread, I could reply and say something that would kill the vibe.
lol I’ve often thought the same. Same for the women that are constantly announcing it too. I get it sex but you don’t have to announce it or add details every 5 minutes. We get it. You’re masturbating….no one will have sex with you in reality or cyber. 🙄😂
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.
I can understand why that would hurt you and mess with your head and I could tell you not to react cause then he wins but I’ll just say thank goodness you got free of him, you’re a beautiful person inside and out and fuck that piece of shit….I’ll bring a shovel and tarp.
 
You know how men will offer help when it's not asked for? I'm thinking about starting to be unhelpful on their posts. Like when they say they're masturbating on the thread, I could reply and say something that would kill the vibe.

lol I’ve often thought the same. Same for the women that are constantly announcing it too. I get it sex but you don’t have to announce it or add details every 5 minutes. We get it. You’re masturbating….no one will have sex with you in reality or cyber. 🙄😂


I can never envision where they're doing that, but still able to type with their dominant hand. 🤷‍♀️. I think they just want attention.
 
For about a year now Master has had me not wearing bras. I've not minded. It took me a while to get used to, but there I was in my mid 40s feeling sexy and comfortable in my skin for the first time in a long time.

A couple of days ago my ex who I spent 20 yrs with asked me to wear a bra if I am going to be around him. We have 2 kids and he wants me to help do up the house before it's sold so I am around him often. I asked if he finds them distracting. He said "I do. I don't need to see your swinging saggy tits" I said "really?" He replied "well they're not to your knees but they're on the way there"

Since that conversation I have been so fucking self conscious it's ridiculous. I feel like every glance I get when I'm out is accompanied with the thought of "mutton dressed as lamb" or "geez she really should be wearing a bra". Master disagrees but he can disagree as much as he wants. I just feel old and fat and droopy. I don't know how to get back to feeling good about me.

Sorry for the word vomit. That's what I am thinking right now.
He's a bastard and needs flogged. And not in the good way.
 
I can understand why that would hurt you and mess with your head and I could tell you not to react cause then he wins but I’ll just say thank goodness you got free of him, you’re a beautiful person inside and out and fuck that piece of shit….I’ll bring a shovel and tarp.

YES!! Roadtrip! I've got my bat and @snexxer can figure out our alibis!
 
Sorry for the word vomit.
This actually upset me lol so I’ll calm down before saying men LOVE my sagging breasts - and they’ve BEEN sagging since I was freakin’ 20 years old!

Sounds like he had a hard dick with no sure place to put it so he put it in his own mouth instead. Fucking idiot lmao.

Sorry that happened to you. Maybe you and your M can work out some alternatives that can meet in the middle.

I’m a big fan of pretty bralettes and spaghetti strap tank tops - the trick is to get a size smaller than you normally would so the girls are held nice and snugly while allowing you to jiggle and bounce the way nature intended.

Not that we should be dressing for the male gaze, but if we’re gonna, trust meeeeee, no bra vs bra is going to win every time. Every single time lol
 
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