What's the worst PM you've ever got?

[drobert44]

I haven't received creepy msg., least of all violent. I haven't received over the top sexual msg or fantasies either. I can't measure "worse" because in general I don't get bothered.

I have received some msg (mostly at the beginning) what I would call silly and stupid but they don't bother me either. My attitude towards that is do not engage, ignore and move on. It has worked perfectly so far, for me.

One guy said I was sick and needed professional help. Well, screw him. I like being a perv.

 

[snap16]

It's not you, it's me

 

[Orchidea73]

I also post stalk the shit out them

Love you. lol

 

[pandaburr]

It's not you, it's me

SMH.

 

[bone251]

So a trap Eh?

Hmm. Hidden behind the veil of the website things might jump out?

Well I guess I did see one girl from a site like this walking on the street. A tat, a mark and few things were all correct to be the same person. She does not know because I kept a distance and never said anything. But I never PMed her to set a trap and say can you walk this street at a certain time on a certain day.

So I just do not see traps being an issue. But I pretty much gave up sending PM's, so maybe that is the trap. I say nothing and you get caught.

The irony is the girls that admitted to being in porn or escorts that I messaged responded and made comments on the board as they seen it. This board does not treat escorts very well from the comments I got. But these girls did not feel threatened by a trap from me.

Maybe I should put an image of a Bear/Bare trap up.

 

[ShaneoD]

It was either that time a random guy asked me if I'd ever had thoughts about my mother, or, only on here could there be an "or", that time I was asked to "tribute my wife" but only after sending two examples of previous work. I may or may not have sent back a smart answer to the second one.

 

[beachbaby179]

I was called an ignorant cunt once by a guy who had sent me 3 pm's in one hour and was mad because I was "ignoring" him. Dude. It was the middle of the work day and I wasn't even logged on! He's blocked now, in case you couldn't guess.

 

[Sean Renaud]

I don't understand how guys are this dumb. I genuinely do not and how women don't get it either. You would have to do something stupid for us not to want a pic of it. Most of us aren't going to be but so pick you took pictures of while singing I kissed a girl, liked it and proving it.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don't understand how guys are this dumb. I genuinely do not and how women don't get it either. You would have to do something stupid for us not to want a pic of it. Most of us aren't going to be but so pick you took pictures of while singing I kissed a girl, liked it and proving it.

???

I can't make out what you're trying to say here.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

???

I can't make out what you're trying to say here.

Glad it isn't just me. I was hoping they'd correct it. or that someone would to decipher it. I just can not get the last sentence.

 

[Sean Renaud]

I read through the thread and there seems to be a general trend of disturbing things women get primarily from men.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I read through the thread and there seems to be a general trend of disturbing things women get primarily from men.

Dude, it's my thread.
I know.

What I can't figure out is what you're trying to say.
1. Guys are dumb.
2. ?
3. ?

I want to know what you mean. Can you try again? It's important.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

The worst stuff I get it mostly either bots or women who can't complete a sentence. Just real base illiteracy. None of which compares to the rank aggression and misogyny I know the women around here experience, to be clear.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

The worst stuff I get it mostly either bots or women who can't complete a sentence. Just real base illiteracy. None of which compares to the rank aggression and misogyny I know the women around here experience, to be clear.

Hey, haven't we ?

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*Edited to add*
Wait, there's bots here?

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Hey, haven't we ?

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*Edited to add*
Wait, there's bots here?

Oh, lord, if I think about what we haven't...or worse, what I've probably thrown in your inbox.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Oh, lord, if I think about what we haven't...or worse, what I've probably thrown in your inbox.

That may be why the ladies are speaking incoherent sentences

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

That may be why the ladies are speaking incoherent sentences

What can I say? I have a gift.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Another one that truly stuck in this tiny old heart was when someone I really thought I cared deeply for and felt the same for me told me I had, to him, “become like his fat wife sitting on the couch next to him.”

Ouch.

Whoah.
Is that who I think it is?

What a horrid thing to say.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I doubt it.

You deserve so much better

 

[theeonanist]

I really can’t remember if it was Lit or on Reddit but one lady(?) begged and begged and begged me to tribute her pic. S/he didn’t have to beg, I’d have done it anyway if they’d asked. But beg they did, and when I didn’t get round to it for a few days I received a few pms from him/her asking big I’d done it or when it would be done. I eventually sent the requested material only for him/her to tell me how disappointed they were. Fuck them.

 

[Nonsense01]

I'm in a cuckold FLR. I'm very interested in speaking or communicating with other cucks to understand their experiences, how they deal with it, and other ideas.

I get these guys who just want to meet my wife. I fully understand why I get the first message, but it continues even after I explain, I'm not on here for that. I don't set my wife up, etc. With one exception, they are persistent to make an exception for them and want her email, other contact means, and even cell phone.

I get it. I've opened myself up to it, but after the third time, I wonder what they think they are going to accomplish. Perhaps I'm too polite.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm in a cuckold FLR. I'm very interested in speaking or communicating with other cucks to understand their experiences, how they deal with it, and other ideas.

I get these guys who just want to meet my wife. I fully understand why I get the first message, but it continues even after I explain, I'm not on here for that. I don't set my wife up, etc. With one exception, they are persistent to make an exception for them and want her email, other contact means, and even cell phone.

I get it. I've opened myself up to it, but after the third time, I wonder what they think they are going to accomplish. Perhaps I'm too polite.

It's the persistence

That sucks.

 

[theeonanist]

I actually do have a pm story. It was me who PM’d him and his response made me sad. I was having a real hard time with a connection I had made, getting over this guy. I saw someone on the forum whom I thought I could have a lovely conversation with. I PM’d and he returned with “I’m sure you have enough men to talk to”. That sorta hurt my feelings, not sure why.

He was a complete idiot. I can’t imagine many heterosexual men having that reaction.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I actually do have a pm story. It was me who PM’d him and his response made me sad. I was having a real hard time with a connection I had made, getting over this guy. I saw someone on the forum whom I thought I could have a lovely conversation with. I PM’d and he returned with “I’m sure you have enough men to talk to”. That sorta hurt my feelings, not sure why.

I can see why that stung. I suspect he was trying to pay you a compliment that came from a place of not feeling "good enough" for you and it just landed horribly.

You deserve better.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I typically get the worst PMs when I share a revealing photo. I do miss being able to “hide” said photos by posting them as a profile pic and then primarily people with whom I interact in specific threads would know to go look.

I block asshats immediately. No response. Most often these are men with zero post counts.

Recently, though, I check to see If they are a regular on the PG. I have resisted blocking just in case I need to moderate.