What's the worst PM you've ever got?

[AmberLGreen]

Why would I follow someone who does not even care to reply to a pm?
There are enough arrogant people in real life.
The benefit of this board is the pictures.

Are you saying the worst PM you have ever received is no PM?

Was it a friend who didn’t reply? If so, a bit rude. I would no longer consider them a friend! If it was somebody you didn’t know, were they aware of the contractual obligations to reply to all PMs?

There are some great pictures here.

 

[cqiam]

At worst, I get gay/bisexual males PMing me when I explicity asked them not to. very rare nowadays though. Was worse when I first started posting

 

[LiveWire64]

The one that wasn't meant for me.

 

[Dreamliner]

Back in the day when l was posting thong pictures more often then usual...
This was the first yr or so after l joined. He basically said l was a F...king whore and l should be ashamed of myself, a married woman showing her ass off for the world to see....He words were much more abusive and it upset me a lot. l had responded with a message something like, Take it easy...have you ever gone to the beach? Lots of women wear this type of bottom or less. I didn't think my photos were distasteful and lt was harmless. I was only having a bit of fun. Oh no this guy just kept firing the pm's so l blocked him and didn't sign on the site for about a month. l was afraid for some reason...lm not sure why but he hit a nerve.
l reply to all messages good or bad....but this one was one l should have ignored. l have never had anyone talk to me like that before. It was an eye opener for me.

I would like to add, Patti has a very cute butt, it looks spectacular in her thong posts!

More latterly, the women down here have found their way back to thong beach wear, as it should be on the beach. There was a brief period where they copped ill-informed comments, fortunately the pushback sorted that out.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

I’m SO tired of the people on here who’s like “omg. You’re Bi! Threesome with me and my partner?” Hahaha. No. If they took the time to read my profile it clearly says in my signature I’m not into married people/couples.

 

[ydahecnot]

Another one from the archives (not a joke, like the “starter Litlationship” one; I giggled at it getting frowns.) It was soon after I became a PG regular.

“After reading your description of yourself, I no longer want to meet up with you. “

The words…whatevs. But that little kiss at the end, after she basically said she was grossed out by me…well, I almost left the board. But that’s where my concept of not letting someone who hurt me live rent-free in my head started.

 

[HotBrand]

I’m SO tired of the people on here who’s like “omg. You’re Bi! Threesome with me and my partner?” Hahaha. No. If they took the time to read my profile it clearly says in my signature I’m not into married people/couples.

Ooft. You haven't even been a member of Lit for that long. That really sucks!

Of course, it isn't a surprise, but there are definitely people around that you can form a more genuine connection with. There's a few threads for bisexual/pansexual women and lesbians - BY bisexual/pansexual women and lesbians - and they might be environments that help keep your faith in Lit. You might have seen already!

Stay strong, sister!

 

[HotBrand]

"After reading your description of yourself, I no longer want to meet up with you. "

No way! I had one of those too!

I am SO sorry you had that experience. Did it feel a bit surreal? Like ... how do you even process that? How does someone occupy that space where they can then insinuate: "You missed out on me - and I'm the best you could ever hope for - because you're *you*."

It's such a trashy message and I am so sorry for you.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

Ooft. You haven't even been a member of Lit for that long. That really sucks!

Of course, it isn't a surprise, but there are definitely people around that you can form a more genuine connection with. There's a few threads for bisexual/pansexual women and lesbians - BY bisexual/pansexual women and lesbians - and they might be environments that help keep your faith in Lit. You might have seen already!

Stay strong, sister!

This is a new account that I made when I came to terms with who I really am - to get a fresh start. I’ve been around before this one was created on other accounts.

It shouldn’t surprise me - it’s more annoying and shows how they don’t respect boundaries. Not worth my time. Byeeeee!
I just tell them off. This one got “If you took the time to read my signature - that would be a no. Just because I am Bisexual doesn't mean I am of interested in being in a threesome.” And then I deleted the message. I didn’t go crazy off on him like I usually do.

I have found some of those other threads.

 

[ydahecnot]

No way! I had one of those too!

I am SO sorry you had that experience. Did it feel a bit surreal? Like ... how do you even process that? How does someone occupy that space where they can then insinuate: "You missed out on me - and I'm the best you could ever hope for - because you're *you*."

It's such a trashy message and I am so sorry for you.

Thank you, man. I mean, I was married so I don’t think I would have carried through, but yeah, it was deflating. But I processed it and decided she was going to be the one missing out

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Thank you, man. I mean, I was married so I don’t think I would have carried through, but yeah, it was deflating. But I processed it and decided she was going to be the one missing out

People: what a bunch of bastards

I'm sorry, y. That sucks. I'm proud of you for growing through it. But I hate that it happened to you x

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Ooft. You haven't even been a member of Lit for that long. That really sucks!

I think there are people who actually take veteran status into account.
I got a completely different type of attention once I hit different post count milestones.

Hitting 10k brought out some real weirdos

 

[pandaburr]

I think there are people who actually take veteran status into account.
I got a completely different type of attention once I hit different post count milestones.

Hitting 10k brought out some real weirdos

I’m not surprised by this somehow

 

[Leglover1234]

She couldn’t talk to me because I’m a cop. Apparently all cops are killers according to her

 

[Sundayschild]

I think there are people who actually take veteran status into account.
I got a completely different type of attention once I hit different post count milestones.

Hitting 10k brought out some real weirdos

I'm the opposite. I get far fewer surprise PMs now - I don't know it's to do with post count, but it does seem to have tracked with my #.

People: what a bunch of bastards

I recognise that quote

 

[SkyeGirl32]

From my experience - I mean I’ve never hit that many posts but even at my tiny number of posts get my fair share of weirdos.

 

[pandaburr]

I refuuuuse, absolutely REFUSE, to pm anyone with over 5k posts. That’s too experienced for my virgin ass. Nevermind that I don’t pm anyone anyway..it’s still relevant.

 

[Sundayschild]

I refuuuuse, absolutely REFUSE, to pm anyone with over 5k posts. That’s too experienced for my virgin ass. Nevermind that I don’t pm anyone anyway..it’s still relevant.

Very wise...

 

[pandaburr]

Very wise...

Lol well it’s a diff story if you pm me first obviously!!

 

[jason28053]

I refuuuuse, absolutely REFUSE, to pm anyone with over 5k posts. That’s too experienced for my virgin ass. Nevermind that I don’t pm anyone anyway..it’s still relevant.

So you’re saying there’s a chance

 

[Sundayschild]

So you’re saying there’s a chance

Amazing

 

[HotBrand]

From my experience - I mean I’ve never hit that many posts but even at my tiny number of posts get my fair share of weirdos.

Maybe it's the sense of novelty and being unclaimed? I think there are a few people who feel they're on the hunt and ...

... *sniff* *sniff* ...

... fresh meat.

... I feel dirty for even saying that so I'm just going to go wash my skin clean.

 

[Shi_One81]

When I first joined under my old profile, I had a male send me a series of stories containing fantasies about me and in the final one he gave very specific details about how he was going to kill me. It was absolutely terrifying!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

So you’re saying there’s a chance

464 chances to be precise

 

[SkyeGirl32]

Maybe it's the sense of novelty and being unclaimed? I think there are a few people who feel they're on the hunt and ...

... *sniff* *sniff* ...

... fresh meat.

... I feel dirty for even saying that so I'm just going to go wash my skin clean.

Oh I’m sure that’s what it is. And it’s disgusting especially when it’s stated clearly on my profile which I’m sure he read since he went and followed me.
Another check in the box of why I can’t stand men.