where are all the bi or bicurious women?

[muskokan]

Just dropping in and saying hi...

I'm still waiting to meet that special someone who will help me explore my curiosity..

hope all you ladies are doing well.

 

[Filly Gal]

Just a shoutout to all the sexy women posting here!!

 

[IVYLOVE]

Hi

Hi Java girl,
I am first time in here, and find out here is very interesting...but make me feel shy...anyway I feel more safe to discouse this kind of thing with a girl rather then man...

I am so curious about Bi, in Taiwan, all the bi women is very secret.

Have a nice day


Ivy

 

[lilwetone]

Thought id come in and say hi....

 

[UptheRiverFemme]

Mostly Lez here but occassionally Bi. Just living life and loving it!

 

[badgurl19772000]

hi

honestly i'm curious myself, i get turned on watching women do each other on porn. i honestly wouldn't know what to do if given the chance though.

 

[College_geek]

Bicurious here, but only because no women will fool around with me. If they did, I'm pretty damn sure I'd be full bi.

 

[inmyanonymity]

are you kidding?

college_geek,

You are too cute!

You must not be paying attention, as I'm sure there are women out there hot for you.

 

[WynEternal]

I guess I should put in my hello, since I plan on being here for a while.

I'm 28, bi and married. A little over two years ago, I finally admitted to myself that I wasn't quite as straight as I claimed to be.

 

[Cherrycola]

Thought I'd drop by to say hello!

I've been on this board about five days and I've been so busy exploring I hadn't got here yet Hi, I'm a British 36 year old married mother of two, I've known I was bisexual since I was 17 and never had a problem with it except at the very beginning when some lesbians told me I couldn't like both.... luckily, I ignored them!

The first person I slept with was a woman and I had as many relationships with women as men before I married. My husband has always known about my sexuality and has neither a problem with it, nor an unhealthy curiosity as to the details. I love looking at real all girl websites and have frequent all girl fantasies.... toys optional

So yeah, that's a bit about me, hello everyone and glad to be here!

 

[College_geek]

college_geek,

You are too cute!

You must not be paying attention, as I'm sure there are women out there hot for you.

Well, they sure do like to hide it. Whenever I mention to friends, at least (even ones who are bisexual), they usually give me a look of "oh god, I would vomit if I had sex with you". It's pretty depressing.

I also find it quite frustrating that most straight girls I know have made out with (and done other stuff with) more women that I will ever. Which doesn't say much cause my number is 0 and it looks like it'll be staying that way. >.<

 

[inmyanonymity]

college geek

don't worry about it. it just hasn't been the right time/girl for you. you're a doll, smart and sassy. you're going to go alot of places those other girls won't. and you won't be looking back.

 

[College_geek]

don't worry about it. it just hasn't been the right time/girl for you. you're a doll, smart and sassy. you're going to go alot of places those other girls won't. and you won't be looking back.

I sure hope so. ^^ I'd probably have better luck if I were single, but I'm not going to break up a 5 year relationship for that. I think my best chance would be to get someone who'd join us in a threesome, but we've been having difficulty with that, too.

 

[scoutjem]

Looks like we're all here!

Hey Java,

I'm bi too. I'm with a great guy right now (I want to marry him), and he knows that I've been with women in the past and I know he's been with guys in the past. He's even told me that I could still be with women as long as he knows about it, and vice versa. It's a great relationship, and I've never felt closer to anyone. Also, it's really good sexually. He can be really submissive in bed and likes to act like my 'lesbian lover' every once in awhile. He likes when I use a strap-on. Surprisingly, it turns me on like crazy! It's almost - and I stress ALMOST - like being with a woman! (Of course as much as I love being with him, nothing is quite like the feel of a real woman's body...)

 

[Bandit58]

I sure hope so. ^^ I'd probably have better luck if I were single, but I'm not going to break up a 5 year relationship for that. I think my best chance would be to get someone who'd join us in a threesome, but we've been having difficulty with that, too.

There doesn't seem to be that many single girls or women who want a threesome - most of them seem to have male partners who they want to watch or join in too.

I was only looking for one on one sex with a female....it seemed to be so difficult to find! My current play partner is married, but her hubby is fine with her playing alone with me a couple of times a month. Both our husbands reap the benefits of it later on at home

 

[HookerBoots]

I sure hope so. ^^ I'd probably have better luck if I were single, but I'm not going to break up a 5 year relationship for that. I think my best chance would be to get someone who'd join us in a threesome, but we've been having difficulty with that, too.

See, the problem here is that I live in Indiana. Cause I would totally join the two of you, but I can't justify driving to Mass. for it.

On the other hand, I've had one boyfriend tell me that I would never have a FMF because I'm too jealous. And he was right, but it was about me not trusting him; there's a reason he's an ex

 

[College_geek]

See, the problem here is that I live in Indiana. Cause I would totally join the two of you, but I can't justify driving to Mass. for it.

On the other hand, I've had one boyfriend tell me that I would never have a FMF because I'm too jealous. And he was right, but it was about me not trusting him; there's a reason he's an ex

Yep, the odd lack of people in the Tri-state area also adds to our frustration. I wouldn't expect anyone to travel more than 100 miles, and even that's a huge stretch.

 

[Cherrycola]

There doesn't seem to be that many single girls or women who want a threesome - most of them seem to have male partners who they want to watch or join in too.

I did have a threesome with 2 other women once, I class it as my best sexual experience! Me and my girlfriend of the time got chatting to a woman at a lesbian club, didn't seem like it was gonna go that way at first but I'm sure glad it did!

 

[Trajal]

There doesn't seem to be that many single girls or women who want a threesome - most of them seem to have male partners who they want to watch or join in too.

I was only looking for one on one sex with a female....it seemed to be so difficult to find! My current play partner is married, but her hubby is fine with her playing alone with me a couple of times a month. Both our husbands reap the benefits of it later on at home

My girl is bi, I wouldn't have too much of a problem with her having a threesome with other girls only (but not men).

I think if it was only 1 other girl then I'd get a bit jealous though, as that's a bit too much like cheating in my book. However, you're right, 3somes with male partners who want to join in (watching is boring) does seem to be the way most go here.

 

[Bandit58]

My girl is bi, I wouldn't have too much of a problem with her having a threesome with other girls only (but not men).

I think if it was only 1 other girl then I'd get a bit jealous though, as that's a bit too much like cheating in my book. However, you're right, 3somes with male partners who want to join in (watching is boring) does seem to be the way most go here.

I define cheating as going behind your partner's back to do anything. If you know about what she is doing and with whom then how is it cheating?

 

[Trajal]

I define cheating as going behind your partner's back to do anything. If you know about what she is doing and with whom then how is it cheating?

That's the best definition and I agree with you. I was struggling to define what it is that would urk me. Perhaps jealous of the sole affection she'd be demonstrating to another individual? It's most likely irrational, but I simply wouldn't be happy with her being with a single other woman. However an all female couple I wouldn't mind so much.

Perhaps it's lack of threat, so it's not playing on any insecurity I have, I don't know. I absolutely wouldn't be happy with her being with another guy (then again she's never expressed a desire for that, I think I comfortably fulfill her there).

However sometimes she does hint that she'd quite like to be with another woman again. We'll see how that pans out, but I would imagine the "safest" emotional perspective for us would be for it to be in a 3some with me involved. Was mainly reiterating the previous posters point and trying to give some insight on the male perspective of this issue.

 

[inmyanonymity]

jealousy

i'm hoping to be able to explore more fantasies in my current relationship including a threesome (either way), and i do want to be with another woman. anyway, those of you with experience here, how do you deal with the jealousy parts of it?

 

[MTskibunny]

Im a curious kitten. I would be down for some chatting over IM.

 

[MTskibunny]

i'm hoping to be able to explore more fantasies in my current relationship including a threesome (either way), and i do want to be with another woman. anyway, those of you with experience here, how do you deal with the jealousy parts of it?

You should be careful. Dont do it unless your relationship is really strong. If you are really jealous, be careful! You could tell him that he can watch and only touch you. *shrug*

 

[yevkassem72]

You should be careful. Dont do it unless your relationship is really strong. If you are really jealous, be careful! You could tell him that he can watch and only touch you. *shrug*

That seems like a double standard to me. What, do only women get jealous? Should only men be expected to be faithful? What if the man was bi and the woman straight? Should she have to only watch and touch him? This doesn't make sense, but I have seen this logic again and again. It is rather disturbing.