Why do older men become bi-curious?

I think that is a common theme. I absolutely love women. Nothing comes close. Love everything about them. Wife has very low sex drive. So infrequent sex leaves me to take care of myself. I think it's a mix of what you are exposed to and what feels most comfortable.

So the more I watched porn the more i searched out more extreme fetishes. This is very common. You get bored with one type and move on and up the fetish scale...

I'd subscribe to this
 
My wife loves my oral talents. Many times she cums multiple times and then becomes too sensitive and slides her hand diwn to keep my tongue away from her pussy. She will then tease my lips with her index and middle finger. I will open my mouth and suck then in and pretend she has a small cock as I Bob up and down and swirl my tongue around her fingers. It seems to get her turned on and she curls the other fingers up into her pussy and starts grinding against my mouth as I suck. Many times it brings her to another back arching, sheet grabbing and moaning orgasm. Makes me incredibly hard! I wish sometimes it was a real cock!

I'll suck to that.
 
I'm not attracted to men, but a 'woman' with a cock - that's something else. On my knees, her cock pressed against my lips. Oh, man, that sounds good.
A feminine looking CD would be my choice for a partner... and if she had a nice ass, and I had to suck her to get to it, I don't think it would be a problem. I've always enjoyed anal with women, and think it would be great with a CD also...
 
I think most have touched on the main reasons we start looking for guys to have sex with as we get older. One I haven't seen yet is: Sex with guys is simply easier than with women! Especially if you are a married, closeted guy. The amount of work (and committment) required to get most women in bed seems overwhelming. But most guys are willing to trade handjobs/blowjobs/and more at the drop of a hat (or pants), anywhere and anytime.
 
So many that post here orient to an oral solution for their curiosity. I can accept some oral activity as preliminary action, but my goal is to be mounted and fucked.

I want to feel knees spreading my legs apart, thumbs spreading my ass cheeks apart. I want to feel a hot rod line up against my hole and demand entry. I want to feel the full power of a cock thrust into me while balls slap against my ass. I want hands holding my hips while I am being bred. I want my bowels painted white with his seed and I want to feel my sphincter clinch to recover after he withdraws.

I am not a sissy, a cross dresser or a sub. I am a bottom. Am I alone with this desire? Are there no others like me?

You are not alone. I am not a sissy, cross dresser, or sub. I suck dick to completion because getting a blowjob is what most men seem to stop at when it comes to cumming inside another man. However, like you, for me, sucking cock is really a preliminary. Once in a while, when I've got a guy seriously horned up, I can redirect him. I'll suck, lick, jerk, worship his cock until his precum isn't a drip but is a stream. Then I'll "pop the question": Would you like to fuck me and shoot it all inside? Sometimes, when I'm lucky, he'll go for it. Usually, he's so horny at that point that all he cares about is shooting off as fast as he can, so I don't have to worry about attempts at small talk or him trying to be "sexy" about it.
 
As a teenager I was repulsed by cocks. Now I get hard so fast just pulling up gay porn. Who knew ;)
 
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Always liked the look of cocks...but it is over powering now to want one in my mouth and other places lol
 
Having some jack off buddies when I was growing up was a lot of fun not only because I had ejaculations from their hands, I liked making them cum also and marveled at the fact that no two dicks are the same, soft or hard. I had only one instance where I had an erection in my mouth and I did not follow through and really suck it good.
Girls came into my life and the following decades sex for me was all about pussy. As I got older those long ago memories seemed to come to life. I began reading and watching bisexual porn and got up the nerve to start tasting my own sperm.
I liked it - a lot!
The taste, the taboo aspect, and the desire to suck dick grew stronger by the month.
I drank my own semen all the time then (and now) and it is thrilling when I give a guy a blow job and the first blast of warm thick cum shoots from his cock makes me feel wonderful. I absolutely love everything about giving head, licking and kissing balls, swallowing cum, and more.
So my memories led to the curiosity, which led to obsessive desire, which led to craving cock to the absolute NEED TO FULFILL THIS DESIRE.
Age is just a number, and male on male sex is my preference. Giving oral pleasure is the most intimate sexual act a man can give to another man in my opinion. I am now an avid cock sucker and nothing is going to change that.

Very similar story for me, but I am only just starting on actually enacting the cock-sucking. Mmmmmmmmm.
 
I think most have touched on the main reasons we start looking for guys to have sex with as we get older. One I haven't seen yet is: Sex with guys is simply easier than with women! Especially if you are a married, closeted guy. The amount of work (and committment) required to get most women in bed seems overwhelming. But most guys are willing to trade handjobs/blowjobs/and more at the drop of a hat (or pants), anywhere and anytime.
in my case I'd agree with this. Closeted and married here I'd would prefer a woman but there seems to be more guys available who want to suck my cock than there are women..lol. I still get to cum and get the thrill of making someone else cum so it works such as it is.
 
Imagine how you would feel restrained with hermdoingnher thing and your coco getting sucked

She's the one usually restrained. But she's to passionate to stay that way. Besides when she digs in I know I've done my job. 😎
 
I could tell when she was having one....I just could never tell when they were over.
 
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