Why do older men become bi-curious?

Some call it orientation. I call it being a willing participant. Any person given the opportunity can give great sexual pleasure to another person. You are only limited by your hang-ups, selfishness and opportunities.

My choices in life limit my opportunities.
 
Such an interesting thread. So many people with very similar stories to mine. Thank you all for posting. It has made me feel much better about myself and my changing feelings as I get older.
 
I believe that older men become more curious for several reasons which include but not limited to the following:

1) Society is much more open to same sex relationships then compared to when some of us who were teenagers back in the 70’s.
2) The internet has made it much easier for men to meet other men for casual sex.
3) When we get older, sometimes we just do not give a damn anymore about what people might think about us and what we do sexually or in other parts of our lives.
4) Some of us have always known that we were attracted to men but we were not mature enough to accept that part of us when we younger. As we grew in our thinking, reasoning, maturity etc.. we are now to the point that we accept being bi curious, bi or gay.

That is my two cents for whatever it is worth.
 
I believe that older men become more curious for several reasons which include but not limited to the following:

1) Society is much more open to same sex relationships then compared to when some of us who were teenagers back in the 70’s.
2) The internet has made it much easier for men to meet other men for casual sex.
3) When we get older, sometimes we just do not give a damn anymore about what people might think about us and what we do sexually or in other parts of our lives.
4) Some of us have always known that we were attracted to men but we were not mature enough to accept that part of us when we younger. As we grew in our thinking, reasoning, maturity etc.. we are now to the point that we accept being bi curious, bi or gay.

That is my two cents for whatever it is worth.

I agree with all of the above, and also maybe, because it is much easier as you get older to get off, for uncomplicated sex, with another guy, than with a woman..
 
No sex since about the third child coming along. So if you stay married the only alternative you have has been M 4 M sex. Being bisexual is easier than trying to find a girl friend.
 
It's not so much becoming curious as i get older, but more of wanting to do what i did when i was younger.
 
I believe that older men become more curious for several reasons which include but not limited to the following:

1) Society is much more open to same sex relationships then compared to when some of us who were teenagers back in the 70’s.
2) The internet has made it much easier for men to meet other men for casual sex.
3) When we get older, sometimes we just do not give a damn anymore about what people might think about us and what we do sexually or in other parts of our lives.
4) Some of us have always known that we were attracted to men but we were not mature enough to accept that part of us when we younger. As we grew in our thinking, reasoning, maturity etc.. we are now to the point that we accept being bi curious, bi or gay.

That is my two cents for whatever it is worth.

Correctly stated on all points.
 
All I know is I can't remember the last time I watched straight porn

Have to agree with you. I'm watching gay porn for over five years it just gets hotter. But my first exposure to it was in the days of VHS tape's and William Higgins videos. The actors or models were so young and youthful it was hot. A lot of massage and speedo scenes.
 
Speaking of VHS, that reminds me of the day when I rented my first gay video back in the 1980’s from the XXX bookstore. I was so nervous (and horny) and I thought when I walked out the door, I would be caught by someone that I knew. Thank goodness for the internet.-LOL
 
Speaking of VHS, that reminds me of the day when I rented my first gay video back in the 1980’s from the XXX bookstore. I was so nervous (and horny) and I thought when I walked out the door, I would be caught by someone that I knew. Thank goodness for the internet.-LOL

I sandwiched a bi porn between a bunch of lesbian porn when I rented my first VHS that had m4m contact in it. If anyone said anything I would have told them it must have been mixed in with them. :)

The movie was the Bi Intruder staring Rod Garetto. There's a hot scene in it with him and another guy with no women. I think if you search for 'the bi intruder dvd' on yahoo you can find the full video on XHamster
 
I sandwiched a bi porn between a bunch of lesbian porn when I rented my first VHS that had m4m contact in it. If anyone said anything I would have told them it must have been mixed in with them. :)

The movie was the Bi Intruder staring Rod Garetto. There's a hot scene in it with him and another guy with no women. I think if you search for 'the bi intruder dvd' on yahoo you can find the full video on XHamster

Luckily I found gay porn in the days of Internet lol
 
Amateur gay porn

I have to agree with you in that regard.
I like to find homemade videos made by real men having real fun together.
I enjoy it more when the feelings being experienced are obviously genuine.
 
I have to agree with you in that regard.
I like to find homemade videos made by real men having real fun together.
I enjoy it more when the feelings being experienced are obviously genuine.

Amateur is always better
 
All I know is I can't remember the last time I watched straight porn

Amen! I've been watching gay porn for over 10 years and I guess it has been more than 5 years since I watched straight porn and a lot longer since I came to it. Once in a great while I will watch lesbian porn, a little more frequently, shemale, but almost everything else is gay porn
 
My true self

I'm not curious. I have finally admitted to myself that I am Bi-sexual. My fist gay experience was at 17 with a best friend. We went everywhere together. One night he was sleeping over and we began to touch. It just flowed into kissing. I did him anal and he pleasures me oral. Two weeks later we reversed roles. I loved pleasuring him orally.

Since then I've had three other gay encounters. As I get older I find I think more and more about cock.
 
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