Why do older men become bi-curious?

Excellent point ...

I think most have touched on the main reasons we start looking for guys to have sex with as we get older. One I haven't seen yet is: Sex with guys is simply easier than with women! Especially if you are a married, closeted guy. The amount of work (and committment) required to get most women in bed seems overwhelming. But most guys are willing to trade handjobs/blowjobs/and more at the drop of a hat (or pants), anywhere and anytime.

I have to agree with you LeeNorCal. Men are generally much easier to bed than women. It also seems a lot less complicated. There is not a lot of emotional investment for two married, closeted guys to get together for mutual pleasuring sessions. We can meet, talk sports, talk dirty, get each other off and say 'goodbye, see you next time'. Most guys don't need to be pampered, wined or dined. Just the prospect of getting our cock sucked or stroked is enough. Having said that, there must be some kind of mutual bond there, just not as much as most women require.
 
Curiosity, fantasy, mystery, taboo... maybe something that was in the back of the mind and want the experiences, especially since none of us is getting any younger
 
I have to agree with you LeeNorCal. Men are generally much easier to bed than women. It also seems a lot less complicated. There is not a lot of emotional investment for two married, closeted guys to get together for mutual pleasuring sessions. We can meet, talk sports, talk dirty, get each other off and say 'goodbye, see you next time'. Most guys don't need to be pampered, wined or dined. Just the prospect of getting our cock sucked or stroked is enough. Having said that, there must be some kind of mutual bond there, just not as much as most women require.

I agree totally. Perfect description of how Infeel and exactly what I want and desire
 
Why do older men become bi curious? Possibly because with age the levels of testosterone start to fall and the oestrogen levels stay high. This will cause such things as male breasts to begin to form (albeit only VERY small) and a wanting to explore our female side.
 
Apparently there are plenty of opinions and theories... clearly each reflective of the poster
 
Exactly

Curiosity, fantasy, mystery, taboo... maybe something that was in the back of the mind and want the experiences, especially since none of us is getting any younger

I had a couple of m2m experiences long ago, quickies both - done!

Now I have cock in the back of my mind all the time and would love to meet someone close by with the same thing on their mind. I'all even travel, within reason, if anyone's interested.
 
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I had a couple of m2m experiences long ago, quickies both - done!

Now I have cock in the back of my mind all the time and would love to meet someone close by with the same thing on their mind. I'all even travel, within reason, if anyone's interested.

Im sure there are alot of people interested, like me, but where is inside the rainbow?
 
for me though - I had some lovely experiences as a very young man with another lad my age - I never forgot and want that again.
 
I had a couple of m2m experiences long ago, quickies both - done!

Now I have cock in the back of my mind all the time and would love to meet someone close by with the same thing on their mind. I'all even travel, within reason, if anyone's interested.

The trick is to find that person close by with the same interests, isn't it?
 
For me it's no sex at home so I really want to try finding another guy like me. Want to have my cock sucked and experience sucking another guy. We help each other is my feeling on it. Willing to try about anything. Mostly want to experience sucking another guy to completion.
 
No sex since about the third child coming along. So if you stay married the only alternative you have has been M 4 M sex. Being bisexual is easier than trying to find a girl friend.
Yes. Being bisexual is far easier than trying to find a girl friend. So you find one, say. Then what? Maybe she's as uneager to suck you off as the wife.

Been there, done that.

Being practical some guys really do a great job of sucking cock. And I am eager to reciprocate.
 
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If you're a Mature older guy, recently single....the testosterone is still pumping. it is SO much easier, with a few clicks of the mouse....fingers typing oh the keys... you are with in 30 mins of getting your cock sucked...

Finding someone to get you off or get off with.....and NO investment of emotion. Why not chose another guy. I just typed in CL....*click* casual encounters *click* M4M 2500 options
 
I had a couple of m2m experiences long ago, quickies both - done!

Now I have cock in the back of my mind all the time and would love to meet someone close by with the same thing on their mind. I'all even travel, within reason, if anyone's interested.

I also had a aouple of great encounters. Now I would love more. Private Message me lets chat.
 
I'm curious and ok with that because I'm less concerned about what others would think about it. I'm still not interested in kissing, but pretty much everything else is in the table with another man. Although I am way more interested in being the bottom. I don't need to be blown or fuck an ass.

When I was younger I didn't even consider it because of public perception/AIDS hysteria. I also don't think we fully understand our own sexuality until our 30s or later.
 
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Me too. Been denying it for a while, but I think we all just go a bit gay eventually. Never touched another's cock, but first crossed my mind in my thirties. Now I would suck an maybe even take up the shute.

Not sure where that came from, but its the truth.
 
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