Would you meet someone from Lit for coffee?

[Superman2008]

From the Safety side of it. Yes, typically it is much safer to meet other women. But as someone who has met more men than women. I've met pretty much everyone in public places. Men and Women. I've never met anyone without quite a while of conversations/picture exchanges/voice/video etc.

I would never meet someone without knowing them at least a little (not days or weeks)

I've enjoyed everyone I met. I've been lucky. No one has been rude or upset that I wasn't meeting them for sex. (Okay, one was disappointed, but still not rude)

One of the last ones Disappeared after meeting me though. So, my ego is a little bruised for now.

But there are still plenty I would meet.

You're good people Sassy.

 

[Vitriolhack]

From the Safety side of it. Yes, typically it is much safer to meet other women. But as someone who has met more men than women. I've met pretty much everyone in public places. Men and Women. I've never met anyone without quite a while of conversations/picture exchanges/voice/video etc.

I would never meet someone without knowing them at least a little (not days or weeks)

I've enjoyed everyone I met. I've been lucky. No one has been rude or upset that I wasn't meeting them for sex. (Okay, one was disappointed, but still not rude)

One of the last ones Disappeared after meeting me though. So, my ego is a little bruised for now.

But there are still plenty I would meet.

It’s a good idea to first build some kind of a rapport, like you did, with conversation.

The reality is that you don’t want to drink coffee with someone you have nothing in common other than a kink for erotic stories.

 

[SassySheDevil]

You're good people Sassy.

Thank you.

It’s a good idea to first build some kind of a rapport, like you did, with conversation.

The reality is that you don’t want to drink coffee with someone you have nothing in common other than a kink for erotic stories.

You are right. There is no one I met simply because of Lit. There was much more in common.

I think I only talk to 3-4 of them still today. But I wanted to meet them for a reason.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Come back to my house. That person is a loser.
I’m
Still
Here.

I don't think Necro will be so willing to give up the bed for me this time

And I'm grateful.

 

[SunshineSam218]

If I knew them well enough, than yes.

 

[AZDryHeat]

If I knew them well enough, than yes.

Yes, if I could get to know her.

 

[MrJogger]

A platonic lit friend and I have talked about it - we work in the same city from time to time so we might grab a coffee at some point.

 

[Wageslave]

Possibly

 

[rlaflamme]

Sure, it is just coffee after all.

 

[Vitriolhack]

A platonic lit friend and I have talked about it - we work in the same city from time to time so we might grab a coffee at some point.

That sounds like fun. Why would you want to meet with that person?
You don’t need to answer if you don’t want to. I figured your answers may be enlightening to others on this thread.

 

[Cat]

Definitely!! Actually, I would probably love to throw a decadent tea party.

 

[rycat25]

Yes I would.

 

[theeonanist]

Definitely!! Actually, I would probably love to throw a decadent tea party.

I’d come, if invited. As long as there’s cake, and you.

 

[Cat]

I’d come, if invited. As long as there’s cake, and you.

Cake would be imperative for the party, the most decadently delicious cakes.

And lots of tea!

It could be so much fun, everybody meeting up and having a jolly good time

 

[theeonanist]

Cake would be imperative for the party, the most decadently delicious cakes.

And lots of tea!

It could be so much fun, everybody meeting up and having a jolly good time

It’s certainly a nice thought, having all your favourite litsters together for tea and cake. I think I’d be in heaven with all the lovely people I’ve met here.

 

[Youroldscotsman]

Tea party, I like the sound of that

 

[OxfordJack]

I once had tea in bed with a Litster..

 

[theeonanist]

Cake, tea and Cat? I'm in!

Cake, tea, Cat and no expectations.

 

[Cat]

I’d come, if invited. As long as there’s cake, and you.

Tea party, I like the sound of that

Can I go? I'll bring croissants.

Cake, tea and Cat? I'm in!

Now this could be so much fun!!! 🐿

Yes, no expectations, no pressure.. a tea party with the sole purpose: Get to talk with all of our online friends, relaxing and to be together in a different setting

That kind of tea party, yes... Oh YES would I ever throw that.

You guys are just so... Amazing!!!

 

[beachbaby179]

Ooh. Can you save me a seat?

 

[Cat]

Ooh. Can you save me a seat?

Oh you bet I can!!

 

[theeonanist]

Oh you bet I can!!

What a lovely dream to have. I don’t think I’d want the party to end. There would be so many lovely people to talk to.

 

[theeonanist]

I have LOADS of expectations. Loads and loads. Expectations of fun and good food and even better conversation!

I meant no expectations that we’d all throw our clothes off and bang each other senseless. I’d rather keep that for my fantasies. The best people I’ve met on here are worth far too much to me to have sex with.

 

[Cat]

What a lovely dream to have. I don’t think I’d want the party to end. There would be so many lovely people to talk to.

I know, and by doing it so, throwing a fun and casual tea party people would be able to mingle, talk and laugh together.

A party with no expectations, no pressure.. no nothing to live up to.

That is my favourite way to meet new friends

 

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

This tea/coffee party sounds like a good excuse for that lemon blueberry cake!