4 noobs

[Kajira Callista]

I must say that I completely disagree. I think cattiness and dissent are excellent signs of vitality. I've been promoting the GB spirit here for some time. I think the "circle-the-wagons", one-for-all-all-for-one subculture days of perversity and BDSM are over; it is time to grow and to split into warring camps.

shhhh you just need warm milk and a nap.

 

[Never]

rosco rathbone,
I don't think Netzach is anti-cattiness. I've seen her in one too many hot debates to picture her wringing her hands over disputes in the community.

 

[Silverlily]

Netz - any advice for dealing with an alpha sub who isn't new and accepts his submissive side?


I have a potential sub who is very aggressive in his RL occupation, but very docile and submissive outside of that. I'm having a little trouble accepting the change in demeanor and am struggling with punishing him for who he is.

I know this is not the best way to approach the situation and if I can't figure it out, I'm going to cut him loose before I do some real damage. I realize the problem is me. Is it really possible to have an alpha sub?

Even if I can't make it work with this one, this is something I want to address with myself for future subs. So any insight would be appreciated. Thanks

 

[Never]

Something tells me this is going to be a long wait.

*begin: thread squatting*

 

[rosco rathbone]

rosco rathbone,
I don't think Netzach is anti-cattiness. I've seen her in one too many hot debates to picture her wringing her hands over disputes in the community.

No, that was in response to Blue Sugar's post.

 

[Never]

Ah...
*enlightenment*

 

[rosco rathbone]

Ah...
*enlightenment*

D'ye think that if we all start chanting ne TZACH ne TZACH ne TZACH like fans at a pep rally she will appear??

 

[Never]

Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI, Knee-CHI...

(Is it working?)

 

[rosco rathbone]

We need someone dressed as a giant strapon or frankfurter to run about galvanizing the crowd and driving them mad.

 

[Never]

I'm doing the chanting so it looks like you'll have to be the giant cock.

[edit]

Wait a minute. Rasco, you're into BDSM, why don't you answer the question?

 

[rosco rathbone]

What if I got it wrong and netz took away my membership card for the league of leather men?

 

[Marquis]

You would make a good horse whisperer KC.

 

[Never]

rosco rathbone:
"What if I got it wrong and netz took away my membership card for the league of leather men?"

~sigh~
*waiting...waiting...waiting...waiting...*

 

[Betticus]

I'm glad Betticus asked this question as I have been dealing with a similar situation, albiet not nearly as far along on the realization scale. Your advice on the matter has put into words (far more eloquently than I can) what I had set upon as the course to take in my case as well.

Thank You.

I'm glad that I'm not the only one. You are teasing though and should share your story.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I know...where _IS_she????

Maybe if we sacrificed a nubile slave boy. Or girl. Yes, girl, definitely.

 

[Kajira Callista]

You would make a good horse whisperer KC.

im afraid of horses...they always wanna try to eat my hair.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I know...where _IS_she????

Maybe if we sacrificed a nubile slave boy. Or girl. Yes, girl, definitely.

tries to look *new*

 

[Never]

No, no a nice femme boy.

Ah hell, let's sacrifice one of each, then she'll have to come!

 

[Marquis]

I know...where _IS_she????

Maybe if we sacrificed a nubile slave boy. Or girl. Yes, girl, definitely.

Now I'm gonna make you dance
It's your chance
Yeah boy, shake that ass
Whoops I mean girl, girl girl girl

Rosco, have you heard this verse before?

 

[Never]

Girl, you know you're my world..

[edit]

Okay, what about you Marqis? Or, are you afraid of Netzach like Rasco?

 

[Betticus]

Girl, you know you're my world..

Man, you must be up out your mind!

 

[Marquis]

I'm just trying to unwind!

I don't know anything about male subs.

 

[Never]

Marquis:
"I don't know anything about male subs."

Did I ask about male subs? No, I think not.

 

[Marquis]

I thought that was what the question was about?

What can I do for you Never?

 

[Netzach]

Oh my god, fail to be an insomniac and look what happens in one night here.

Never, I need clarification -- how do I know or how do you know? I don't know the answer to the latter I'm afraid.

As for me, it's pure wild conjecture and personal bias based on 8 years of doing skin to skin SM (gad) from the extremely mild to the moderately weird, as a bottom and more often as a Top. My D/s orientation is a laid back, fetishistic, but decided D.

That's a rank neophyte compared to some people on the board, mind.

Like I said I don't want this thread to be "what would Netzach do?" (what would Brian Boitano do?) so anyone with any insight based on common sense if not SM resume can chime in, this is just intended to give noobs feedback.

If you mean how did I "know" I knew when I came back to my sweetie with this great idea for an all night sex session where we talked dirty and he did what I told him to do and maybe tied him up and I got the "no way" and I felt like someone put up a cage and stuck me in it. I think I knew then.