Are we headed toward a Dom shortage?

[Betticus]

I'm gonna need some popcorn and a soda to watch this show.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Sitting down front row center

i've got dibs on the Sour Patch Kids.

 

[Betticus]

Re: Sitting down front row center

i've got dibs on the Sour Patch Kids.

The sour patch kids are all yours but the raisinettes are mine. We can share the jelly beans.

This should be good.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: Re: Sitting down front row center

The sour patch kids are all yours but the raisinettes are mine. We can share the jelly beans.

This should be good.

As long as i get the black and red ones, you've got a deal.

 

[Betticus]

Re: Re: Re: Sitting down front row center

As long as i get the black and red ones, you've got a deal.

Deal.

Now let the games begin!

Where are all the militant subs? I thought that the filleting and frying would have begun by now.

 

[Netzach]

I don't think, and I certainly hope, that femsubs don't suddenly stop masturbating when they meet a Dom/me.

 

[Betticus]

Me too, women in the heat of lust are just so damned alluring. One cannot resist the urge to just admire them.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: kitty speaks

well for many subs when she says "feel so pressured to have an ltr with no possibility of ending . . ."

That is why so many subs do masturbate for they need the pleasure and release that masturbation gives them, while longing for a true Master that can and will complete them.

It is very hard for a young woman with a child or children to still want a Master as well as a boyfriend/spouse.

The ideal would be to have all of the above in one person.

I definitely feel for you kitty.

so you are saying i only masturbate because i need a Master to make me a whole person?
And because i have kids I'm not so young though) i dont want a Master?

 

[Netzach]

Betticus, I have an awful time enforcing chastity on boys or girls, there's something just so hot about people getting off. More voyeur than disciplinarian, perhaps.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I don't think, and I certainly hope, that femsubs don't suddenly stop masturbating when they meet a Dom/me.

They do as they're bloody well told, duh.

 

[Betticus]

Betticus, I have an awful time enforcing chastity on boys or girls, there's something just so hot about people getting off. More voyeur than disciplinarian, perhaps.

Watching someone masturbate for you is a form of control I think. That act is a gift to me, one I am not quick to refuse.

 

[Netzach]

They do as they're bloody well told, duh.

Uh huh.

The only "crime" I can consistently rely on is wanking/cumming without prior auth. Punishing this is a great source of hilarity.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Re: kitty speaks

That is why so many subs do masturbate for they need the pleasure and release that masturbation gives them, while longing for a true Master that can and will complete them.

Man, please tell me this was meant as sarcasm. That you don't actually believe this bullshit that you typed up here.

"longing for a true Master that can can and will complete them"

You have got to be kidding me.

First of all, will somebody PLEASE tell me what the hell a "true master" is? LOL!!!

That definition varies from person to person, ya know. One sub's true master is another sub's asshole. Personally, I hate that word "true". Is there some great defining committee of BDSM Gods that are certifying doms these days? Stamping them grade A True Number 1? Someone should let JM in on that....

hehe.

Oh. And another thing....

I don't need anyone to complete me. I am complete in and of myself, thanks very much. A D/s relationship is a power exchange, or didn't you know that? If I needed a dom to "complete" me, well there wouldn't be much exchange going on, now would there.

*sigh*

Some people just do NOT get this shit.

~anelize

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

*snickering*

Was that militant enough for ya'll??

~anelize

 

[AngelicAssassin]

*snickering*

Was that militant enough for ya'll??

~anelize

Newp. That was left handed.

Let's see that right hand.

 

[Betticus]

Newp. That was left handed.

Let's see that right hand.

The right hand is full of popcorn.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

The right hand is full of popcorn.

Yours or hers?

 

[kitty4ever]

As Anelize said, we don't 'need' a Dom/me to complete some empty part of ourselves. I don't 'need' a Dom and then I'll stop taking care of myself. Why would I? I've also come to terms with the fact that I may never find another Dom that I'm willing to give my gift of submission. It is a gift and that's why I've not submitted to every man I've been with. He either deserves it, earns it, or he doesn't. My gift is precious, and it's MY choice who receives it.

As to if we're heading towards a shortage? I don't know, but I've learned that you'll meet them in places that you don't expect.

 

[fallon2]

This I

believe . . .

That subs look for Master to fulfill them just as they do the Master,

I have yet to meet a sub that wanted NO One in their life.

Everbody needs a body whether it is to love, discipline or whatever it is.

I meant no sarcasm . . . only that has been my experience.

Apparently, there are some subs agreeing since I have been getting positive pm's.

At lit we can express our own ideas and beliefs and can agree to disagree.

Thoughts from others?

 

[Netzach]

My sub completes me.

I have not, however, tossed my vibrators, naughty pictures and books, trusty index finger or shower massager.

There are some pleasures that have nothing to do with whether one's getting laid or not. Viva self lovin'.

Doms, completed by your sub chicks do you find you no longer jack off?

Didn't think so.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: This I

believe . . .

That subs look for Master to fulfill them just as they do the Master,

I have yet to meet a sub that wanted NO One in their life.

Everbody needs a body whether it is to love, discipline or whatever it is.

I meant no sarcasm . . . only that has been my experience.

Apparently, there are some subs agreeing since I have been getting positive pm's.

At lit we can express our own ideas and beliefs and can agree to disagree.

Thoughts from others?

my thoughts? you need to reread what you posted back there.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: This I

believe . . .

That subs look for Master to fulfill them just as they do the Master,

I have yet to meet a sub that wanted NO One in their life.

Everbody needs a body whether it is to love, discipline or whatever it is.

I meant no sarcasm . . . only that has been my experience.

Apparently, there are some subs agreeing since I have been getting positive pm's.

At lit we can express our own ideas and beliefs and can agree to disagree.

Thoughts from others?

You might consider the subs who are NOT pm-ing you ;-) and what their thoughts are. Usually, people who agree are the ones pm-ing, correct?

But hey... you're entitled to your opinions, just as everyone else is.

 

[Esclava]

Re: This I (Here's the right hand...E)

believe . . .

That subs look for Master to fulfill them just as they do the Master,

I have yet to meet a sub that wanted NO One in their life.

Everbody needs a body whether it is to love, discipline or whatever it is.

I meant no sarcasm . . . only that has been my experience.

Apparently, there are some subs agreeing since I have been getting positive pm's.

At lit we can express our own ideas and beliefs and can agree to disagree.

Thoughts from others?

OK, let's agree to disagree! I, for one, don't need a PYL to complete me. S/He needs me for completion. I can be submissive whether I'm in service to another or not (by my own hands). It is pretty difficult to dominate without someone to dominate.

What I DO need is regular sex. Not "wham-bam-thank you-ma'am", but "fill every hole, all night long and make me cum until EVERYTHING is drenched" sex - more regularly than 3 or 4 times a year - with another human being. I masturbate to orgasm daily, spend 2 hours in my bed with my toys twice a week and do a "fill every hole session" twice a month.

Do I NEED someone in my life? No. Do I WANT someone in my life? It would be nice to have, but I don't look for it to happen. Although I am not unattractive, I am and will not be bound to someone that doesn't arouse me to desire. Where is the fun in submitting to that?

Esclava
Another militant sub(?)

 

[Netzach]

I keep going back to this Dom shortage thing, I envision rationing.

Desperate women trading nylon stockings and chocolate for a buttfucking.

 

[kitty4ever]

I keep going back to this Dom shortage thing, I envision rationing.

Desperate women trading nylon stockings and chocolate for a buttfucking.

<laughs hysterically>

<wipes the tears from her eyes> Oh, thank you...I needed a laugh like that.