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Chase or Be Chased?

bashfull said:
And ya'll wonder why we men are confused? :eek:
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Not at all, LOL.

Actually, the more I read this thread, the more I realize that I interpret the chase differently - see it as that initial exploration and flirting that helps to determine if there might be chemistry and making that initial first move to say, "I think we could perhaps have something here. Do you want to find out?" The subsequent "games" that seem some folks are associating with "the chase" are just not that attractive to me. Perhaps it is, as others suggested early on in this thread, I have just spent to many years on this planet and see life as too damn short to want to waste my time on them at this point. ;)

:rose: Neon
 
neonflux said:
I interpret the chase differently - see it as that initial exploration and flirting that helps to determine if there might be chemistry and making that initial first move
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And that is exactly how the question was intended!
 
My little one likes to say that I chased her until she caught me. Which does sound pretty apt. We started online (now married and living together) and I was with someone and she wouldn't cyber with me since I was with someone. Since I had never had a woman tell me no before, apparantly that peaked my interest. So I went after her non stop. But with all the time talking, we developed a friendship and once I was no longer involved and we slept together a relationship developed from it. Which was totally not what I thought I wanted. But the list of women I had fun with was whittled down over time until it was just her. Before my little one, any women started talking the remotest bit serious there was a Hawk shaped hole in the door. Well anyway, sorry for the rambling.
 
It can be quite intriguing. Apparantly I thought I was hot shit and gods gift to women and all that other stuff. So when a woman actually turned me down I became that more determined to get into her pants.
 
bashfull said:
And quite enticing for others, darlin'.
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May be enticing for men, definitely not an enticement for most women - we're too sensitive about rejection, not taught to pursue so back down at the first "no thanks!" The difficulties of bisexual dating. *sigh*
 
neonflux said:
May be enticing for men, definitely not an enticement for most women - we're too sensitive about rejection, not taught to pursue so back down at the first "no thanks!" The difficulties of bisexual dating. *sigh*
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Morning, Wench.
 
neonflux said:
May be enticing for men, definitely not an enticement for most women - we're too sensitive about rejection, not taught to pursue so back down at the first "no thanks!" The difficulties of bisexual dating. *sigh*
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That right there has to be the plus side to dating men.

They never say no.

:D
 
I can tell you, being chased will not ever work if you're male and shy.
 
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