Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[barefootgirl69]

This is soothing and quiet to me. I'd love to spend cozy afternoons in here preparing dinner.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

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This is soothing and quiet to me. I'd love to spend cozy afternoons in here preparing dinner.

Oh that would be such a nice cool retreat for you from the heat

 

[barefootgirl69]

Oh that would be such a nice cool retreat for you from the heat

Living in the woods was perfect except that it was hard to find where to put a garden. If I could, I'd search high and low for a perfect spot with both of those!

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

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This is soothing and quiet to me. I'd love to spend cozy afternoons in here preparing dinner.

One of my other characters has kind of a tropical version of that in her apartment:

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Oh that's lovely

I feel like I let my fellow littles down but I'm just not into crayons and crafts and bright colours. Never have been. (please don't shun me )

But somewhere cool, calm and cosy makes me want to relax and smile and curl up. I swear I should have been a Hobbit because Bag End would be perfect for me

I'm with you, @RosewoodTulip !

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

In that case, here are a few shots of the beach cottage I designed for one of my video game characters. Calming blue palette, sunny little book nooks, big fluffy bed, lots of noms and a sleepy (and bunny-friendly) little foxy

Lovely!

 

[Strixaluco]

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This is soothing and quiet to me. I'd love to spend cozy afternoons in here preparing dinner.

That's very close to the colours I like in my kitchen! I just take the green a bit more on the olive side, or even slightly more fresh.

And then some soft yellow to bring the sun into the kitchen..

 

[BiBunny]

I love crafts and crayons and stuffies and all kinds of silly "little" stuff. I just can't help myself, lol.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

I’m turning 41 this week and there are still plenty of guys who love being called “Daddy” from someone our age. DD/lg isn’t exclusively or necessarily about age play. You be you like no one else can

 

[LostGirlTink]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

Not true
Be you
If they don’t like you then you aren’t for them anyway

 

[barefootgirl69]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

There are plenty of Daddies who have little ones who aren't 25 yo. There are those who have little ones who are older than them.

You can't stop being who you are and be happy. I tried that in my marriage and it just doesn't work. Be you and, if someone isn't interested because of your age, that's okay. He's just not the right one for you!

 

[Utmale48]

There are plenty of Daddies who have little ones who aren't 25 yo. There are those who have little ones who are older than them.

You can't stop being who you are and be happy. I tried that in my marriage and it just doesn't work. Be you and, if someone isn't interested because of your age, that's okay. He's just not the right one for you!

This. All of this. I have a long distance little one that is older than me.

 

[BiBunny]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

I'm 40 myself. There are plenty of Daddies out there who want little ones who are a bit older. People are mean and stupid for no reason other than because they can be. Try not to let them get you down. You'll find the perfect Daddy at the right time.

 

[Moochienanu]

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

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[Strixaluco]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

I was 43 when I found out that I'm a) a little and b) a sub. Didn't even know about CG/l kind of relationships existing.

And age definitely has not mattered, except like it does in dating normally. I've seen how responsible Daddies in our age often don't even want a partner who is considerably younger than themselves. Especially if dreaming of a life partner - even in a relationship like this it can be easier to have a small age gap. Those wanting young ones... Are they even looking for a longterm relationship or just a short fling?

My D is less than a year older than I am.

 

[JerseyJade]

My train of thought makes weird stops, and today it led me to look up pics of the Lisa Frank pop up hotel room that was temporarily available a while back. It’s gone now, but thought maybe some of the littles here might enjoy the nostalgia trip. It has plenty of colored pencils and markers for @barefootgirl69 and @JerseyJade to share, and plushies and snackies for all!

This would be perfect except for one thing... BFG doesn't share! She takes! Like all my crayons! She's a brat!

 

[barefootgirl69]

This would be perfect except for one thing... BFG doesn't share! She takes! Like all my crayons! She's a brat!

Breaking them gives you DOUBLE the crayons! Ungrateful!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I love crafts and crayons and stuffies and all kinds of silly "little" stuff. I just can't help myself, lol.

Oh please don't think my comment is in any way a criticism towards the more colourful, playful littles.
I love that we're all different

I've just always preferred a quiet corner.

But if there was ever a little gathering I'd do crafts (badly) with you all

 

[cascadiabound]

Oh that's lovely

I feel like I let my fellow littles down but I'm just not into crayons and crafts and bright colours. Never have been. (please don't shun me )

But somewhere cool, calm and cosy makes me want to relax and smile and curl up. I swear I should have been a Hobbit because Bag End would be perfect for me

No need to apologize please - we each have our own aesthetic and our preferences for what makes us feel happy and safe.

Like you, I would not want to stay in that bright overstimulating environment for more than a few minutes. I don't want any more stuffies (I have one teddy bear that is by now very old and I keep him out if nostalgia), please don't make me watch a cartoon Disney film (not that some of them aren't worth watching, but it's not my preferred entertainment) and I use my colored pencils mainly for design work and mock ups.

In spite of those preferences, I still identify at times as a little in terms of how I want to be cared for. I belong on this thread, just as anyone else does who finds that some part of Dlg dynamic resonates with them.

 

[cascadiabound]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

Those people are silly and don't know as much as they think they know. Preferring a Dlg dynamic has absolutely nothing to do with chronological age. I am a fair bit older than you, and here I am, being unapologetically who I am.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

I was in my late 40’s when I first heard of the DD/lg dynamic. It took a couple years of learning about it and having a Lit bestie who is a little for me to realize how much it resonates with me. I entered into my first DD/lg relationship when I was 52. So those people who told you that you’re too old can just stuff it.

 

[barefootgirl69]

 

[13Fantasies]

It's taken me a long time to accept this one part of myself but I've had many people tell me...

That since I'm 41, I can't have a Daddy because I'm too old and that Daddies only go after younger women. It made me feel insecure, that I hated that was submissive or wanted a Daddy. I need to stop letting people's judgements get to me so much. It's emotionally draining.

It's extremely unfortunate that people around you so incorrectly speak about the dynamic and the potential wants ans desires of others, men and women. Too many age base it and it is SO much more than that...or can be.

I'm glad you know what you want and there is no doubt you will find a Daddy that delights in who you are and what you bring to his life, regardless of how old you are.

And you have all of these wonderful ladies here to talk with and get advice from on your journey. It's only just beginning.

 

[cascadiabound]

Yes we do.