Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[Islander55]

She's done this thing where she'll sleep in the other room. Stretches of 3 years no sex. Business trips then all the sudden this huge change. Nope. Nothing suspicious here. Just saying. Part of me thinks is cool, part of me moved on years ago and part of doesn't care.

You are kind of living in limbo. You might consider defining the relationship to benefit both of you assuming you do not mind that she sleeps with other men.

 

[Juannoche]

Through out our marriage, six other men have fucked my wife. There were actually two other men around that same time as her first tryst. The first guy took her to a hotel, as he was married too. The other two were single men in our smallish apartment building. They fucked her in their bedrooms. She won’t talk about those hook ups much. But I’ve stroked my cock many times thinking it!

That's so fucking hot. I would stroke to those slutty affairs

 

[LeeKee]

You are kind of living in limbo. You might consider defining the relationship to benefit both of you assuming you do not mind that she sleeps with other men.

you are right. I should make it clear. But a but uncertain if it will backfire. Don't know till I try.

 

[Representingmyhotwife]

I would encourage her to get into an affair.

 

[Justfantasies]

I enough imagining my wife having an affair.

hot or not?

 

[Fisher0382]

I found out recently that my wife has been having an affair with a man about 15 years older than her at work for the past 4 months. This was after I told her we should find her a new cock to try out. I didn’t realize how much it would actually turn me on to hear here talk about it.

 

[Justfantasies]

I found out recently that my wife has been having an affair with a man about 15 years older than her at work for the past 4 months. This was after I told her we should find her a new cock to try out. I didn’t realize how much it would actually turn me on to hear here talk about it.

did you "find out" or did she confess? what kind of questions did you ask her?

 

[Fisher0382]

did you "find out" or did she confess? what kind of questions did you ask her?

she confessed after I told her I thought it would be a good idea for her to have some fun with another man and enjoy someone else’s cock other than mine. That’s when she said well and told me. She thought I’d be more upset that she went behind my back.

 

[Justfantasies]

she confessed after I told her I thought it would be a good idea for her to have some fun with another man and enjoy someone else’s cock other than mine. That’s when she said well and told me. She thought I’d be more upset that she went behind my back.

I am imagine she was correct. Did she continue after she confessed

 

[Fisher0382]

I am imagine she was correct. Did she continue after she confessed

Yes last Wednesday they had some after work fun.

 

[Justfantasies]

Yes last Wednesday they had some after work fun.

Did you enjoy knowing what she was up to

 

[Fisher0382]

Did you enjoy knowing what she was up to

Yes very much so

 

[Justfantasies]

Yes very much so

How did she dress for the date?

 

[Fisher0382]

How did she dress for the date?

They fucked after work. That day she wore a dress that showed a lot of boob and came down to about her mid thigh.

 

[Justfantasies]

They fucked after work. That day she wore a dress that showed a lot of boob and came down to about her mid thigh.

Short enough for you to feel her wet pussy

 

[drobert44]

Short enough for you to feel her wet pussy

maybe a creampie for you?

 

[Islander55]

you are right. I should make it clear. But a but uncertain if it will backfire. Don't know till I try.

Ease into the conversation with some hints or maybe a discussion of fantasies.

 

[LeeKee]

Ease into the conversation with some hints or maybe a discussion of fantasies.

She travels again this month. I should before she goes. Well, we shall see.

I just want us both happy. And without controversy/drama.

 

[drobert44]

She travels again this month. I should before she goes. Well, we shall see.

I just want us both happy. And without controversy/drama.

Ask her for a pic of a man she picked up

 

[LeeKee]

Ask her for a pic of a man she picked up

Gotta ease into this. Eventually I may ask

 

[MrETnman]

My wife was seen by a friend and followed to his apt where I went several times before confronting her. The rear of the apartment was next to the woods and I could look inside, it was both painful and strangely enough arousing watching them have sex

 

[Nellie60]

My wife was seen by a friend and followed to his apt where I went several times before confronting her. The rear of the apartment was next to the woods and I could look inside, it was both painful and strangely enough arousing watching them have sex

I bet the sexual intensity and emotions were very high. My heart was in my mouth when I did the same years ago with an earlier girlfriend, both upsetting and yet I was very hard.

 

[Justfantasies]

I bet the sexual intensity and emotions were very high. My heart was in my mouth when I did the same years ago with an earlier girlfriend, both upsetting and yet I was very hard.

Did you talk about it to her later?

 

[Ajjay_Annita]

We both shared each other our previous affairs/ lovers that we have before marriage.
Decided to join lit for chatting together and enjoy new things.

 

[Justfantasies]

We both shared each other our previous affairs/ lovers that we have before marriage.
Decided to join lit for chatting together and enjoy new things.

Did both of you have many lovers before? It’s great to share your history when you are naked in bed together