Face Slapping

[KinkStevens]

Love a good slap across the mouth. Both giving and receiving. Nothing says “you have no say here” like a clean stroke across the face. I usually test the water with a few gentle taps and gradually, over time, work up to a pure slap. Ive done this many times with long term partners, one night stands, and short term lovers. Ive had no bad experiences. Many were shocked and completely turned on. Some tolerated it, but didnt love it as I do. If its not mutually satisfying I discontinue the behavior. In some rare cases, I trained them to expect and love it

 

[Lady2020]

It's not something I'll put up with after being slapped repeatedly in the face on a date when I was younger because I said no. It was a first date. I begged his roommate who walked in to help me. Roommate walked out without saying anything. Date finally got tired of slapping me around, I guess. I stumbled off and made it home.

 

[IrisAlthea]

It's not something I'll put up with after being slapped repeatedly in the face on a date when I was younger because I said no. It was a first date. I begged his roommate who walked in to help me. Roommate walked out without saying anything. Date finally got tired of slapping me around, I guess. I stumbled off and made it home.

I’m sorry to hear you had to go through that.

Face slapping is not something that has ever had a part in my relationships.
It’s conflicted for me because it can be hot in fantasy land because of pretty much the same reason Rosco mentions early in the thread. I say ”can be” because in visual porn it is usually portrayed in a way that just annoys me. In movies or books it can be hot even when it probably wasn’t supposed to be…

In reality there is some childhood stuff in the background. A face slap is instant rage for me and I have been known to punch the slapper in the face as a knee jerk reaction.

 

[anarchoMando]

How do you feel about face slapping in BDSM play? Some people relish it as a form of humiliation, while others think it goes over the edge.
There are also some who question it as being inherently unsafe.
I hope some of you will share your thoughts on the subject.

Personally I don't like it because I prefer praise over humiliation, but if there should be any it has to be linked with aftercare afterwards.

 

[davion2308]

I'm not really down with pain and humiliation but my wife sometimes likes to be slapped. It'll always start with gentle ass smacks and then she wants more so she hits me with a "harder, daddy," and I leave a hand print or two. If that's not enough rush, she'll ask for it in the face. I can't bring myself to really slap her hard but I give her enough to get her attention. That works for us.

 

[MrsLaMere]

It only works if there is a large amount of trust and both partners have respect for each other. It can be extremely exhilarating to both slap and receive. A gentle tap to get the proper attention needed and receive proper focus is always fun but only if you know your partner is into it. It would be awful otherwise.

 

[lil_jenni]

I'm one of those in the minority. I'm not saying I want to be smacked around, but a stinging face slap at the right moment can be amazing. For example, if we're playing rough anyway, a face slap or two when I am about to climax can send me over the edge, and being slapped while I am coming can make it more intense. And the same's true of having my boobs slapped -- there is just something about the stinging sensation and the humiliation that does it for me.

The other context in which I enjoy face slapping is when I'm giving a blowjob or getting my face fucked, especially if I it is CNC play. A quick slap and being told to do a better job... mmmm...

And to those who wonder, I have been really slapped in anger, and to make me do something or because I didn't do what the guy wanted. My husband would never do that -- he is not really into slapping me even in play, but he will do it because he knows I like it. But it has happened before with other guys, most notably with my first. He slapped me a lot.

Interestingly, I don't think I would want my GF to slap me. I might break down and cry if she did. I think it's got to be a male/female dynamic for me.

 

[MadisonK]

Oh hell no. My face is really personal for whatever reason. Probably because it's my face. I love when hubby slaps my butt with the little flogger and such. I love when he lightly slaps my tits and clit. But absolutely lose my shit if anyone slaps my face. My birth mother used to slap my face when i argued with her. "I'll slap the pretty off your bitchy face, you little *insert various name calling*" She was ugly on the inside. A counselor I spoke to years ago told me she was jealous of my youth. I think she was just a cunt and as we know, there's no cure for that. So... Slap me everywhere, just not my face. I'm likely to punch you without thinking.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Only if I'm bound kneeling for a cumbang before a group of guys and gurls using their hard cocks to slap my face and wide open mouth before they glaze me with their creamy loads.

 

[autologous]

Definitely something that should require a conversation before hand. Especially important to know about any trauma in the person's past, you obviously don't want to trigger someone in the middle of sex (it is not fun for anyone). But that being said, at the right moment with the right person it is very hot.

 

[Dearelliot]

Great especially for openers to remind the sub that the Femdom is serious! The con side, "marks left on face" I cant have that.

 

[jen_nif_fer]

A slap on the face while being choked will make me cum in no time! But the privilege of slapping me definitely has to be earned first….lol.

 

[LarryTee50]

Only if I'm bound kneeling for a cumbang before a group of guys and gurls using their hard cocks to slap my face and wide open mouth before they glaze me with their creamy loads.

You are so much fun!!!

 

[LarryTee50]

There must be consent.....never without consent. I had a lover years ago who liked physical play...Lots of open handed slapping. It was intense and fun because we both liked it and wanted it.....
I would never slap a woman's face or body without consent.

 

[seekingAlpha]

I absolutely love combining a well timed face slap with a choke, a yank of the leash, or a pull of the hair right as the sub starts to orgasm. It is something that happens spontaneously and in the moment as the intensity becomes overwhelming.
On the other hand, if the sub is a masochist it may be an expected part of foreplay and they feel punished if you do not do it.

 

[Bigkay24]

I enjoy it. It is arousing but it doesnt have to cause pain. I dont want a handprint on my face just a sting that serves a purpose. I never viewed it as humiliation or degradation as I see others may have. To each their own

 

[Wonderer67]

I am male, and do enjoy a good face slapping. everyone is different and I am sure it can really have an emotional reaction for some I would suppose.

Best to ask if covering turnons and kinks and limits, yes/no/maybe topics, IMO.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I love being slapped in the face by a Domme when it's agreed upon. Not too hard because it hurts like a bitch, but it's fine along with spanking my arse when I've been naughty or just for kicks.

 

[lowcollar]

I love being slapped, especially when accompanied by spitting and being called names.

 

[Badguy4u]

How do you feel about face slapping in BDSM play? Some people relish it as a form of humiliation, while others think it goes over the edge.
There are also some who question it as being inherently unsafe.
I hope some of you will share your thoughts on the subject.

I'm not into it. I'd rather spank a women on the buns. However I did once meet with a married women that craved being forced using means such as face bitch slapping, hair pulling, bondage, etc. But I think most women are not into it

 

[roshnikhanna]

It's not something we have ever tried.

 

[Ciceri]

I stood up a gf of mine in college. The next time we got together she spat in my face and delivered a slap. She was pissed and warned me to never blow her off again. She did not suffer fools kindly and it was a matter of weeks before she ended the relationship. She was actually too good for me

 

[submissa]

No, I do not like face slapping, but that's probably because degradation isn't my thing and I perceive face slapping to be particularly demeaning.

 

[MorlockIam]

For me it would be in context of a Female Led Relationship for example. I greet my lady at the door on my knee to kiss her hand as she enters and depending on what type of day she has had she slaps my face or caresses it gently.

I don't think I could just stand or sit there and cop slap after slap for the fun of it.

 

[abusedsoccermom]

i'm a huge fan of it. getting slapped around instantly puts me in sub space