Face Slapping

[Etoile]

She made a comment to him about somthing that was going down (you don't want to know).

Do too.

 

[LegsApart]

My sub loves it...

 

[ryanslavemaster]

It was great. My girl really wants to be slap before getting fuck.

 

[bambikiller]

Do too.

It was the mid eighties, It was in a bar and my friend was involved with a drug deal going down in the back room. It was a drive bar and most of the people knew each other and knew what has happening in back it was kind of obviouse I guess (alot of these types of transactions happened here) any ways he can out to get a drink. She was sitting on a stool at the bar he ordered a drink standing next to her, she turned and made a comment to him about what was going down he turned to her a lightly slapped her face and said SHHH!.
I wasn't there at the time I asked him how he started dateing her (because she was hot) and he told me the story.

So now you know but I will deny all if anyone asks.

 

[LFO]

I'd never consider face slapping before, but my girl may like it so I may give it a try. I feel weird about it, but I think if I cup my hand just right like a stage slap, I could do it w/o really hurting her.

 

[ataxia.girl]

Love it.

 

[ixpect]

Years ago, I had a boyfriend that liked to play rough, and he liked to pull my hair and slap my face during our "playtime". It was a big turn on for me but he got carried away every once in a while and left noticeable marks on my face. I love marks on my ass and thighs but woud have a hard time explaining marks on my face, so it is off limits for me. But only for practical reasons.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Years ago, I had a boyfriend that liked to play rough, and he liked to pull my hair and slap my face during our "playtime". It was a big turn on for me but he got carried away every once in a while and left noticeable marks on my face. I love marks on my ass and thighs but woud have a hard time explaining marks on my face, so it is off limits for me. But only for practical reasons.

I think secretly I want that to happen just once.

 

[rida]

Funny how I didn't think about discussing face slapping when talking about my limits. I cannot even remember if it was on the checklist I filled out long ago. Anyway, for some reason it didn't cross my radar as something that could be part of the dynamic.

The very first time with the Sadist, he slapped my face because I looked at him. without warning: I didn't even know I was not supposed to. Rage boiled up and a lot of thought crossed my mind, among which the following: "this is it; you wanted to explore your submissive desires, see how far they go, if you are not ready to explore, this is the moment to speak up". I bit my tongue and lowered my gaze. With one gesture he made it clear what the rule were going to be if I wanted to explore with him: his rules (within my limits). And with that single face slap he checked if I really meant what I had said in my emails and our conversations.

Since then I've been slapped more times. Mostly because of minor infractions or to make a point and they still make me flare up in rage, but at the same time put me in my place quickly and efficiently. Interestingly the only time it was done for his pleasure, I didn't get any feeling or rage: just a deeper sense of submission.

They are not gentle taps, they are tuddy and sting. But they do not leave any mark behind. So far.

And if I have to confess ... when I don't get any ... I miss them

 

[Hisscarlett]

Master has never slapped my face as punishment, although that is because he doesn't use pain of any kind as a punishment. It wouldn't work with me as I crave pain.

He does slap my face when he is using me. It intensifies the feeling of submission and control. I love it. He doesn't always slap me so when he does it comes as a surprise and I don't become accustomed to it.

I love the feel of his hand on my face, the sting and heat is wonderful. The look on his face and the timbre of his voice all just add to it. It is a very intimate and loving thing between us.

 

[SweetGigi]

I had forgotten how much I enjoy slapping until Rida posted in fetlife about it. I know the guy I've been playing with is not ready for this yet, but I hope to get him to this point soon. Very little will draw the submissive out of this switch quite like a open palm to the face.... even when I hate it- I love it so.

 

[Roleplay_Mom]

Thought this thought-provoking thread could use some current imput *bump*

 

[bruisedangel]

I remember the first time that I was slapped. I was having a rather heated discussion with the person I was sleeping with. Discussion, as it tends to do in these situations, turned to anger, which left me in the midst of a temper tantrum. Who knew I could hit an inanimate surface hard enough to break a knuckle? He slapped my face, partly to get me to calm down, partly to get me to shut up, and I'm sure completely because I was being an ass and he wanted my attention. He definitely got my attention. Ah, mutual rape. So much fun, so very worth it. (I think being a brat can be a good thing! I'm secretly happy to log every punishment to be doled out!)

 

[Ausus_girl13]

When he brought it into our play, at first he was hesitant, but by my submission he began to really like it. He slapped my face and breasts and when I woke up the next morning with bruises, (not on my face) I was so proud of them. I loved them, and was secretly thrilled every time I saw them. I can't wait for the next time!

 

[subish2009]

My husband and I have only barely begun to play with this a little bit. He threatened it during sex a few times to gauge my reaction before trying it, and my body responded in a very definitively positive way. He's done it a few times now, cupped hand, and very lightly...barely hard enough to register any pain whatsoever. Neither of us wants bruises on my face, and it's not about the pain for us anyway. It's sorta a humiliation thing...more just a dominance/control thing. I'm a bratty sub and I live to get in trouble. I would never want him to slap my face out of anger, and I would never want him to hit me with real strength behind it. But just as a reminder of who's in charge? LOVE it.

 

[mistressmaxine]

For me it is a complete no. Any other type of slapping is fine but not the face.

 

[darkside12]

I never thought i'll be into face slapping until i actually did it. I was fucking this guy for a few months and we were talking a lot about what we like/dislike. When the discussion got to hitting, I told him I'd love to be hit. He asked me more details, just wanted to be sure I wont be wtf?? if he slaps my face, but I said i'd love to give it a try.
First time he did it was during sex, he was on top of me and slapped me with his right hand. Loved it from that moment! He did it harder and harder after and the feeling of being abused and humiliated was more erotic than many other things. I just love his face when he does it, he has all the control then and I love giving in to him. He says that my eyes look so scared and vulnerable and he adores to be in control of me.

I havent read all the posts here, but I didnt find anything about punching. Is it a complete no-no for you? We talked about it a lot and he confesed he would love to do it to me. I didnt really want it, but he knows i want to get to new limits, so he knew i wasnt dead serious. (we have a love/hate relationship, lots of anger). He got drunk one night and he's usually agressive when he's drunk. And like a naughty girl I am, i provoked and teased him until he hit me, quite hard. We were outside alone, dark as hell and he was hugging and hiting me in the same time. It was one of the most erotic experiences I've had. I know he wouldn't hurt me, but when he's drunk, you can never know and that made it even more exciting.

This might sound weird, but I enjoy feeling vulnerable. I was never abused or had any traumatic experiences, so I dont have any deeper problems. Just love being hit.

btw, I did have a blue eye/cheek the next day. Funny explanations afterwards.

 

[1Humiliator]

I never face slapped anyone more than 5-6 times in a play. With prior consent, not hard, only on her cheeks, not ear and maybe a little red for 2 minutes. The more beautiful a woman, the more I want it..but why? Why is it scary for so many, but at the same time a turn on when they experience it for the first time?

The reason I love "safe" and "sane" face slaps is it's more sudden, unexpected and fast. So there's first the shock, surprise, and then the humiliation and submission. it is about intensifying the play and the trust. It's a good setting for a taming a brat, or a good setting for tears and emotional release. To me it's so personal and intimate!

Spanking is more a prepared action. You see it coming while you're forced on the guy's knees with your pants down. You can struggle too to try to evade it and when you get spanked, your prissy brat stuck-up pretentious princess attitude gets humiliated much more than with a slap.

I don't just face slap anyone...Face slaps, even gentle ones take a high level of trust and intimacy, and I would never want to give it without their prior consent.

 

[JudyCD]

I like being slapped in the face but not with a hand.

 

[Dearelliot]

When I make an appointment for a session with a mistress I always remind them of 2 things, dont bathe and when we first meet slap my face good so I know my place is on my knees.

 

[Retrieversandspaniels]

It’s not something that holds any appeal for me. I think I’d struggle to accept it wasn’t rejection, and I also think I’d find it would be too degrading to be exciting.

 

[seela]

Love it. A condescending tap on the cheek can be excellent as well.

 

[BiBunny]

The psychopathic "Master" that I talked about before in this thread used to slap me hard enough that my ears rang and I saw black spots. He did it so often that it got to where I'd flinch every time his hand came close to my face. And that, of course, pissed him off, but he had nobody to blame but himself.

Nowadays, Daddy will slap me gently, but that's fine. The only thing is, he likes to take his life into his own hands by (gently) slapping me when I'm sucking his cock. I'm so afraid I'm going to slip and bite him when he does that one day, lol.

 

[Wonderer67]

All play should be safe, sane and consensual.

I’ve asked my wife to slap me (she leads our relationship) and she doesn’t love to do it and is very hesitant to do it.

I’ve been exploring with a submissive woman online and we sort of role played it. I also don’t love it, but in our online role play she wanted it. I had to check to make sure the “green light was still on. It wasn’t real, since it was online but it was kinda tough for me to do it even in online role play.

 

[twister947]

I have fantasies about being slapped hard, in public, but irl, it would be awful.