Male sub thread

[jpschust]

i am a young (23) sub male, who is just getting into the scene im always looking to gain experience, know some of my hard limits, and also know what to avoid. im always happy to here there are others of us out there and women who love to dom as well!

 

[Netzach]

Not to dis the thread

which I'm glad for, truly...

but where *are* you guys?

Why do you feel like coming out of the woodwork on a specific thread, it seems like your insights would be valuable in *any* discussion of submission, you know?

if it seems like the whole world is Mdom femsub sometimes, well it's 'cause no one else is saying anything, right?

 

[ghosst_K&H]

Re: Not to dis the thread

which I'm glad for, truly...

but where *are* you guys?

Why do you feel like coming out of the woodwork on a specific thread, it seems like your insights would be valuable in *any* discussion of submission, you know?

if it seems like the whole world is Mdom femsub sometimes, well it's 'cause no one else is saying anything, right?

i try to post a reply to all topics i feel i can contribute to, not just male sub threads, but my experience is limited, and i really can't answer questions like, "do all fsubs like to suck cock?"

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: Not to dis the thread

which I'm glad for, truly...

but where *are* you guys?

Why do you feel like coming out of the woodwork on a specific thread, it seems like your insights would be valuable in *any* discussion of submission, you know?

if it seems like the whole world is Mdom femsub sometimes, well it's 'cause no one else is saying anything, right?

Our boy is doing his part, and we are doing ours ... but I agree ... why aren't all you cute male subbies posting more dammit

 

[wolf2002]

Re: Re: Not to dis the thread

Our boy is doing his part, and we are doing ours ... but I agree ... why aren't all you cute male subbies posting more dammit

we're shy

 

[BrightFlower]

Re: Re: Re: Not to dis the thread

we're shy

Excuse me, but, Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha, shy, ha right tell me another one.

 

[JoseIsWild]

Re: Re: Not to dis the thread

Our boy is doing his part, and we are doing ours ... but I agree ... why aren't all you cute male subbies posting more dammit

Maybe they don't have 'permission' to post!

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: Re: Re: Not to dis the thread

Maybe they don't have 'permission' to post!

Well, that is a thought that hadn't occurred to me, but at the same time, if they aren't taken (and I know there are some that aren't taken after looking at the "subs seeking Dom/mes" thread & getting all kinds of PMs from them), they don't need permission ...

 

[wolf2002]

Well, that is a thought that hadn't occurred to me, but at the same time, if they aren't taken (and I know there are some that aren't taken after looking at the "subs seeking Dom/mes" thread & getting all kinds of PMs from them), they don't need permission ...

Of course I am not the one to decide, but in my view this isn;t the kind of thing I would need permission for from my Domina... after all, it's a discussion thread, with no interaction of a submissive or sexual nature...

 

[SweetDommes]

Of course I am not the one to decide, but in my view this isn;t the kind of thing I would need permission for from my Domina... after all, it's a discussion thread, with no interaction of a submissive or sexual nature...

Another good point - this also isn't something that I would consider that our boy needs permission for (obviously, since we haven't chastized him for it) ...

 

[rick_j21]

This is why we male subs do not post often. All of a sudden a good thread is turned into a personal attack on male subs. We aren't hiding in any kind of woodwork. I personally do not hide, but when I do post and contribute my opinions and my ideas someone always without fail shoots them down. Ussually basing their reason on the fact that they are a Dom/me and no other reason.

 

[wolf2002]

I didn;t take Netzachs comment as an attack at all, merely an encouragement, or invitation, to join in on the other threads as well. Nor have I ever had the feeling that any of my posts was shot down by others... unless it was so stupid that I deserved it... what I have experienced that the discussion on this board is open and direct... actually that’s one of the reasons I stick around here...

Wolf

 

[Megafurvert]

To all you sexy male subs:

What is your favorite part of submitting to your Lady?

what i truely enjoy about my submission is that due to the fact that i am a pet and not a slave my whole role is to make fantasies a reality and to make sure that M'lady is have the best possible verison of her fantasy come true..... it fills me w/ the greatest of joys to watch as M'lady's pleasure comes to a peak!!!! to put it simply i enjoy the pleasuring of others aspect of my submission!! >^.^<

 

[SweetDommes]

This is why we male subs do not post often. All of a sudden a good thread is turned into a personal attack on male subs. We aren't hiding in any kind of woodwork. I personally do not hide, but when I do post and contribute my opinions and my ideas someone always without fail shoots them down. Ussually basing their reason on the fact that they are a Dom/me and no other reason.

I, for one, haven't shot down any of your posts ... I enjoy them ... and I don't think that this is a personal attack on male subs either - it is simply a comment that posts from malesubs are lacking on this board because the majority of people on here are Dominants or femsubs, and for whatever reason, the malesubs tend to not post. We are trying to make them feel more comfortable, we are trying to bring them out - that is all.

-Miss Karen

 

[Megafurvert]

you said it Ms. Karenits about time we subbie boys speak our minds and not worry what others are going to say!! Hi Ms.holly, i hope you are doing well!! say hi to the the little one for me.... i'm sure his in heaven at the moment pleasing one or both of you two right now!!

 

[Netzach]

It's certainly not a personal attack, nor any kind.

I'm just surprised that there are a lot more of you out there than commonly contribute and that such good meaty posts haven't been forthcoming in the general discussion.

I have nothing against msubs at all. I like them so much I have 2.

 

[Mistress Tae]

Well, my msub is shy and that is why he hasn't posted more. But he does read most of the threads and discuss them with me. He's even inadvertantly (or not), pointed me to a few that have given me some delicious ideas.

I am glad to see that you male subs are out there though, perhaps he'll post more if he sees more of you.

Mistress Tae

 

[SweetDommes]

Well, my msub is shy and that is why he hasn't posted more. But he does read most of the threads and discuss them with me. He's even inadvertantly (or not), pointed me to a few that have given me some delicious ideas.

I am glad to see that you male subs are out there though, perhaps he'll post more if he sees more of you.

Mistress Tae

Definately encourage him to post ... the more the merrier

 

[Shadowsdream]

This is why we male subs do not post often. All of a sudden a good thread is turned into a personal attack on male subs. We aren't hiding in any kind of woodwork. I personally do not hide, but when I do post and contribute my opinions and my ideas someone always without fail shoots them down. Ussually basing their reason on the fact that they are a Dom/me and no other reason.

I am waiting for more of your posts. I find them enjoyable and respectful without being ass kissing small talk.
I enjoy a good conversation with some depth and only like My ass kissed when it is a direct command! ~~grin~~
Speak up rick, there isn't a Domme in the world powerful enough to get away with that kind of an attitude.
This is a good forum with good people in it and it would please Me if you allowed yourself to become one of the long time posters who can add a lot of value to the information both practical and emotional that male subs deal with. As you have in this thread.

 

[Shadowsdream]

what i truely enjoy about my submission is that due to the fact that i am a pet and not a slave my whole role is to make fantasies a reality and to make sure that M'lady is have the best possible verison of her fantasy come true..... it fills me w/ the greatest of joys to watch as M'lady's pleasure comes to a peak!!!! to put it simply i enjoy the pleasuring of others aspect of my submission!! >^.^<

I like this pet concept Myself, you have a good attitude to the role you wish to fullfill for your Lady. There are so many sides to submission and they are seen through so many eyes that it is valuable to U/us all to hear every nuance that can be shared.

 

[MissTaken]

I am waiting for more of your posts. I find them enjoyable and respectful without being ass kissing small talk.
I enjoy a good conversation with some depth and only like My ass kissed when it is a direct command! ~~grin~~
Speak up rick, there isn't a Domme in the world powerful enough to get away with that kind of an attitude.
This is a good forum with good people in it and it would please Me if you allowed yourself to become one of the long time posters who can add a lot of value to the information both practical and emotional that male subs deal with. As you have in this thread.

I would second Shadowsdream's post.

Rick, you offer a lot to discussion and I m sorry if you feel attacked.

And unabashedly, I believe that men such as yourself can offer a lot to the many lurking posters who are just entering or are curious about the lifestyle without engaging in role play on the Talk Forum. Further and more unabashedly, the dynamics of my new and wonderful relationship are different than I had ever dreamed they would be when I found the magic. The more input the better in terms of helping me along a new path.

 

[MissTaken]

what i truely enjoy about my submission is that due to the fact that i am a pet and not a slave my whole role is to make fantasies a reality and to make sure that M'lady is have the best possible verison of her fantasy come true..... it fills me w/ the greatest of joys to watch as M'lady's pleasure comes to a peak!!!! to put it simply i enjoy the pleasuring of others aspect of my submission!! >^.^<

And I truly love making my man writhe and squirm!



*missing him badly*

 

[Desdemona]

This is why we male subs do not post often. All of a sudden a good thread is turned into a personal attack on male subs. We aren't hiding in any kind of woodwork. I personally do not hide, but when I do post and contribute my opinions and my ideas someone always without fail shoots them down. Ussually basing their reason on the fact that they are a Dom/me and no other reason.

I'm neither a Domme, nor a malesub, but I want to jump in briefly and say, we need more input from the masculine side of submission. I learn from you guys just as much as I learn from other women. You have alot to offer.

 

[SweetDommes]

Just another quick note - for rick, we agree with Shadows about the dom/mes who try and shoot you down - they don't have that power unless you give it to them. These are just words here, and unfortunately, some people are determined to use them to belittle others (if you haven't already, there is a thread on here about that as well - "looking for reactions" or something like that). But if you don't let them, they can't. I have learned to shake off a lot more than I used to be able to, and I continue to improve my "word-proofing" daily.

For megafurvert - we are so happy for you that you & your Lady worked out ... made us a bit sad as yet another potential that we liked got snagged by someone else, but you definately deserve the happiness that you have found with her. We have always wanted pets, and you definately fit the bill ... (fortunately, you aren't the only one ).

-Miss Karen

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Unsure....

I'm not sure where to ask my question that has been slowly taking shape in my mind. My love introduced me to this thread...

My first point is about the power of words.
Words can strike a negative chord deep inside faster than one can build defenses. This is one of the reasons I find it sometimes hard to read D/s topics, posts, and stories. A word can trigger many bad childhood memories or can carry a connotation, while maybe not intended as bad, can nonetheless hurt and arise emotional pain.

The second more relevant issue deals with what I have been learning.
I have enjoyed reading posts in this thread particularily those by the sub, it has allowed me a glimpse into a world that is one of trust, complete trust, and not fear. I like the description on the site posted by yessmiss, which read "art of erotic teasing and denial".

I hope to continue to learn for I know that I love to tease to bring my love to greater heights of pleasure, past the point where he would otherwise give in to the need, and to teach and explore what pleasures his body and mind. I like to lead in play, to create a place and situation where he only needs to feel and give pleasure. My question is somewhat odd in a way, for it is "am I a Dom to some degree?"

My last story (Apartment Number 69 see link below) was placed in the BDSM category, and a few people have referred to me as such. But I'm am not sure exactly what that role entails, or if my style of play is being dominating in the D/s sense.