Male sub thread

[sifer]

Yes I do beleave your sattin kitty could make a man purrr, or grovel for that matter.

Have you tryed the feather duster while he is restrained in the legs over head position. It has been known to make me beg.
You have to use boath ends though.

 

[Guest]

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Yes I do beleave your sattin kitty could make a man purrr, or grovel for that matter.

Have you tryed the feather duster while he is restrained in the legs over head position. It has been known to make me beg.
You have to use boath ends though.

Never tried a feather duster...I'm not sure which end he'll enjoy more

 

[MissTaken]

Does anyone have any thoughts or ideas concerning CBT?

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Does anyone have any thoughts or ideas concerning CBT?

LOL I just realized how tired I am & how much my mind actually learned from my psych courses....for a second I thought you were talking about Cognitive behavioural Therapy...while that might work with male subs too, I'm now assuming you mean cock & Ball torture....

*wanders off to bed in desperate need of sleep*

 

[ghosst_K&H]

Does anyone have any thoughts or ideas concerning CBT?

i am interested in CBT, but my Domme's are reluctant. Theres an underlying fear of damaging reproductive capibility, and since one is a nurse, and the other neuters animals on a regular basis, it may take some time before we can comfortably explore this form of play.

 

[Tom Bishop]

Miss Taken

In Bosses relationship with his boyfriend They seem to be equel The time I served as there butler neither seemed to ask the other for permission or advice they acted as two simaler thinking people Boyfriend said things like Ken your new servent needs more training in breathing control when his mouth is full of cock Boss first introduced me to his boyfriend as a man he was brakeing in as a total servant for there plesure
The time I spent with BF Trying out the cloths for my whoreing out he made comments like
Ken and I want you to do good at this .
Ken dosen't want you to get off till You take care of the couple
IF I didn't have to go back to work I would let you blow me but you would enjoy that to much right now.

I think IN a round about way they are shareing me and Ken is The one training me .

Thanks for your questions Miss Taken they direct my thinking . I wish they had spell cecker on this thing .

BJ Bishop

 

[MissTaken]

LOL I just realized how tired I am & how much my mind actually learned from my psych courses....for a second I thought you were talking about Cognitive behavioural Therapy...while that might work with male subs too, I'm now assuming you mean cock & Ball torture....

*wanders off to bed in desperate need of sleep*

Admittedly, I must say, I have gotten a small charge out a recommendation for "CBT" for my clients.

*giggles*

 

[waterkemist]

CBT

Not for everyone, but I've fantasized about it some. Problem is, when it comes to my balls I am not into any kind of pain at all. None. I might be able to go some light smacking on my dick, but not on the nuts. Am I repeating myself here?

Cock rings with ball spreaders are ok if they are not too tight. Haven't tried them, but I suppose ball stretchers would be ok too. I have seen methods of encasing a cock in rope, and that seems exciting as a preluded to more sex, but not in place of it. That would be fun to try at least once.

What other kinds of cock torture do people use? Is is more the actual pain, or just the appearance of something that might hurt but probably does not?

Really want to torture my cock? Get it hard and then don't touch it. That's real torture.

Waterkemist

 

[MissTaken]

It's the pain, for some.

I have seen cocks that become instantly erect when the sac is squeezed tightly or otherwise made "uncomfortable."

 

[gregor2001us]

I like CBT...

I have always enjoyed and fantasized about CBT. Being tied, slapped, pinched, squeezed, having something inserted into my urethra. Chastity cages fit into the theme too.

For me it is a combination of being controled, being at someone's mercy, being helpless, being scared it could go too far, then sensations, being unable to expand the way I like...

But it is not the main course, rather the spice.

Gregor

 

[MissTaken]

Re: I like CBT...

But it is not the main course, rather the spice.

Gregor

True enough.

I view it as mental and physical foreplay.

After all, figuratively and literally speaking, wouldn't you agree that by nature of how vulnerable you are or feel, having your genitals at the mercy of your Domme could be quite erotic in the sense of the power exchange?

An old joke:

What do you have if you have one green ball in one hand and another green ball in the other hand?


Complete control of the Incredible Hulk.

 

[SweetDommes]

i am interested in CBT, but my Domme's are reluctant. Theres an underlying fear of damaging reproductive capibility, and since one is a nurse, and the other neuters animals on a regular basis, it may take some time before we can comfortably explore this form of play.

We aren't that reluctant ... just cautious ... it will just take time, which we have plenty of.

 

[hurtme]

I have never gotten into much CBT...most guys i have had relationships with weren't into it...at all...not even a little, i have met more than one who didn't even want their balls TOUCHED...pussies...lol...I do have this lovely little sort of cock ring that I recieved as a gift once, it is the funniest looking device...kind of like that bunge cord they have on jackets and such...with a few black adjustment clasp things...I don't know how to describe it properly...anyway, it fits like a cock ring, and it also has clasps to lift and seperate the balls, and hold them as tight as you wish, just like the cock ring part...the reason it is so funny to me is that it is all bright BRIGHT flaming pink in color...and it looks funny as hell when it is on a man....not to mention the look on their face when you say..."now just relax, it looks wierd, but it won't hurt...much"

 

[Tx girl]

Ok ya'll im sorry if this sounds like a stupid question, but its one i've been curious about. When you say switch what do you mean? Is that a Dom/Domme that can also be a sub?

Again sorry if it sounded stupid

 

[DVMnLA]

cbt is about the only thing i won't do for my Masters. too much can be damaged too easy. that's my line. ain't crossin it even for the Masters i love so much. a good smack on a hard cock or pain/pleasure or denial torture is ok. but no piercing, no clamps, no really tight ball binding. there's pain then theres destruction

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

cbt is about the only thing i won't do for my Masters. too much can be damaged too easy. that's my line. ain't crossin it even for the Masters i love so much. a good smack on a hard cock or pain/pleasure or denial torture is ok. but no piercing, no clamps, no really tight ball binding. there's pain then theres destruction

True pain is the bodies way of saying this isn't good for me! Damage in some areas is a more minor concern (ex. skin) since healing is complete and pretty quick.

I think that with a person who knew exactly what they were doing the pain could be minimized to the skin region, limiting the internal damage.

What does everyone think?

 

[yessmiss]

the pain could be minimized to the skin region, limiting the internal damage.

What does everyone think?

*i* think broken trust and disrespect does the most internal damage.

 

[hurtme]

yes a switch is someone who is a dom/me, but also a sub...

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

*i* think broken trust and disrespect does the most internal damage.

I agree...

not being believed, listened to, trusted, secrets held in trust, lack of respect.....*tears*

 

[gregor2001us]

CBT con't

"...wouldn't you agree that by nature of how vulnerable you are or feel, having your genitals at the mercy of your Domme could be quite erotic in the sense of the power exchange?"

Absoultely! Extremely erotic for me. The actual discomfort serves to emphasize the fact that you are in control and that I have no choice ultimately.

And the context of how it is done and when is what makes it such a wonderful mind game. Can be a turn off if done poorly, in the wrong context. But with a reasonable setup, Hot Hot Hot!!!

And there are many levels of sensation, from a gently squeeze to a slap with a riding crop. Lots to choose from. Just let it happen as you explore sex!

Also, the sensation provided can be very gentle, but the possibility ( and "threat") can be very severe which can be hotter than if the more severe sensation were used.

Gregor

 

[Tx girl]

Thanks so much for answering me hurtme. I was beginning to wonder if i had been over looked! Again thankyou! There is alot still i have to learn!

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

A thought for you today

"To your desire and need I answer...bring on the fiery pace, my mind will speed along besides yours pushing you past your fears and break the chains of doubt"

 

[WRs_slut]

I have recently began serving as a sub to a very talented and wonderful mistress. I am expieriancing a total awakening I wish I had long before this. I am very proud to be her sub and will do everything in my power to become the slut she wishes me to be. My mistress has ordered me to join Literotica and use the site as a learning tool for my journey. I welcome all comments and suggestions anyone cares to give. Thanks! WRs_slut

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

I have recently began serving as a sub to a very talented and wonderful mistress. I am expieriancing a total awakening I wish I had long before this. I am very proud to be her sub and will do everything in my power to become the slut she wishes me to be. My mistress has ordered me to join Literotica and use the site as a learning tool for my journey. I welcome all comments and suggestions anyone cares to give. Thanks! WRs_slut

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