Skinny girls? OR Girls with some meat?

[JuanVato]

attitude

Yep, personality goes a long way. I was dated a size 2 who was very attractive, but not as fun as a size 16 I dated later on.

The one "surgically enhanced" woman I dated was VERY self conscious. It was really very sad. After a short time I discovered she really did not like working out (that sweat thing). She just liked starving herself and looking cute at the gym.

An all natural woman with a positive energy is sexy.

 

[starletscarlet]

Do I get overlooked at the clubs and bars for skinnier and younger girls? Yep. In that kind of environment, it is all about looks. When I'm in my environment, book clubs, craft circles, I get more attention than I think I deserve. Different environment creates different expectations.

When guys are hunting in the bars and clubs, they are hunting specific prey, which I'm not it. Well, maybe as a Last Call sort of thing, but really not the prime choice. Thus I don't go to clubs, etc. In the regular world, I'm kind, a bit opinionated and extroverted so I engage people wherever I am and to that I get quite a bit of attention. I know I'm not hideous, I also know I'm not the thinnest sexiest woman alive, but dammit I'm hot enough for any ol' regular joe.

And if I'd stop being so picky, maybe I'd actually get laid.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

I love women of all sizes but there is something special about the confidence of a larger woman. Give me a smart and sassy chick with some meat on her bones and I am a happy man.

Bonus points: I'm a strong and muscular guy. If she can hold me down in bed, and I mean really hold me down and not any of this sissy playtime shit, the woman owns me.

 

[eatinpussy]

"I like my women like I like my chicken with a littl bit of fat on the ends, not too much not too little just enough to make me grin"-Rodney Carrington

I like this theory!!

 

[2ndchance]

I love the ladies with the curves! There is just something so hot about a woman with some nice ass curves and some tummy! Give me a woman with size and that will make me happy!!!!

 

[BeFun4me]

Curves are great!!!!! Skinny can be ok too...if they are naturally skinny and not just starving their ass.

 

[EctoJohn]

All girls!

Skinny, meaty, doesn't matter much.
I'd do them all.

I will say I prefer girls with some good curves, though.
I'd rather have a fat girl than a stick.

 

[PixelPrincess]

I'm a curvier girl and have dealt for a long time with insecurity about that due to what is splattered all over television, magazines, etc. It also had to do with a long history of not getting any attention or affection from my husband. After opening our marriage and exploring Lit and meeting different men, I've found that there are men who find me extremely beautiful and tell me. It has done amazing things for my confidence.

Interestingly enough, it was a double edged sword. Once my confidence increased because of seeing other men attracted to me, my husband became more attracted to me as well. Interesting how that works...

I've done a lot of learning and soul searching over the past two years and I have come to love and embrace who I am. I may be a larger woman, but I am passionate and smart and have a lot to offer. If someone doesn't "like" me because I have meat on my bones, then screw them. I don't want someone so shallow and egotistical anyway. I am beautiful and sexy in my own way and I know it, that's all that matters to me.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I'm a curvier girl and have dealt for a long time with insecurity about that due to what is splattered all over television, magazines, etc. It also had to do with a long history of not getting any attention or affection from my husband. After opening our marriage and exploring Lit and meeting different men, I've found that there are men who find me extremely beautiful and tell me. It has done amazing things for my confidence.

Interestingly enough, it was a double edged sword. Once my confidence increased because of seeing other men attracted to me, my husband became more attracted to me as well. Interesting how that works...

I've done a lot of learning and soul searching over the past two years and I have come to love and embrace who I am. I may be a larger woman, but I am passionate and smart and have a lot to offer. If someone doesn't "like" me because I have meat on my bones, then screw them. I don't want someone so shallow and egotistical anyway. I am beautiful and sexy in my own way and I know it, that's all that matters to me.

Where's the "like" button

 

[boriquasoy]

Skinny is nice but I love a full fiured and thick woman. My wife is full figured with a great ass and killer legs.

 

[Ricanbandit]

I am not into skinny women at all. By skinny I mean bony skinny. I am also not into very large BBW.

So anywhere fron slender to large ;-)

 

[liv21]

I'd say as a girl I'm pretty middle-ground when it comes to slender/fat. 5'3" and 135 pounds.
As far as what I find attractive though, I don't lean towards either. There are plenty of girls I see whose bodies I admire or would even love to have for myself. I'd say only about half of the time are those girls smaller than me. The other half, obviously, they're bigger than me.

I'm happy there are people here who realize bigger girls are not all self-loathing complainers wishing they were skinny. It seems to be an assumption for many small-minded people that fat people always want to be skinny, which isn't the case. I mean, sure, I would love to get rid of a tummy roll, but let me keep my soft breasts and thighs.

Perfection does not come in one body type. As I get older, I realize this. When I was younger I'd envy models with perfect round tits, but now I think things like stretch marks on breasts in a pornographic picture are much more erotic. Being able to appreciate beauty in different body types is something that, to me, shows maturity in a man. Gravitating towards only one body type, particularly the porno/nudie mag form of attractiveness, speaks of inexperience to me.

 

[mrppv]

I like a woman with some meat on her body. They look so much healthier and the curves.....

 

[PixelPrincess]

Where's the "like" button

thank you sweetie

 

[giventake65]

What's funny about all of this -- and it's a great discussion -- is that most of us men come with "extra baggage." Some of us just mentally shave off that belly fat when we look at ourselves in the mirror, but some of us (myself included, at times) think that women must be a certain (small) size. It's a double standard. At my best, I've dated women of all sizes, shapes and colors. Where I draw the line is at standards for character, philosophy of life and values.

 

[PixelPrincess]

What's funny about all of this -- and it's a great discussion -- is that most of us men come with "extra baggage." Some of us just mentally shave off that belly fat when we look at ourselves in the mirror, but some of us (myself included, at times) think that women must be a certain (small) size. It's a double standard. At my best, I've dated women of all sizes, shapes and colors. Where I draw the line is at standards for character, philosophy of life and values.

Very well said.

 

[Tio_Narratore]

Skinny or with meat? Yes! Yes! A thousand times, Yes! And mesomorphs too! Let's not forget those wonderful mesomorphs!

Far more than the shape, size, or lipodenisty is the woman herself. All I want is one who enjoys herself and her partner(s) and enjoys having her partner(s) enjoy themselves and her!