Skinny girls? OR Girls with some meat?

Vandren said:
Have fun in your own little insular world.

Hehee. I will, thanks. It's quite nice over here. You see, when you live as I do - with arrogant confidence and little care about other people's opinions - then you live happily and peacefully. It's kinda like being retarded (have you ever seen a waterhead with a frown?). Yes, that's it! I'm a social retard. :) And happy to admit it. Hahahahahaha!
 
I've got meat on my bones. Of course, this is no reason for anyone to like that. Stating this is only my way of bumping the thread.
 
I can see benifits to both types to be honest.

The skiny look, so popular in the media, I will admit was very nice to look at when I could still see. But when it comes to close contact I have to go with a little meat on the bones.

Nothing better then tracing the curves and finding out where they go.
 
meat on the bones without any hesitation.

aesthetically, i am not turned on by seeing a ribcage or a pelvic bone. i find nothing more beautiful than a woman with some meat on her. not to mention the women i have been with who have meat on their bones tend to not be so vain (though thats not always the case, and some of the women with meat on their bones can be a little self-conscious which saddens me and is complete bullshit, but the media is the media)

nor do I find it fun when i am poked by the pelvic bone when i am enjoying my woman. my perfect woman has a big butt, proportionate breasts, and round meaty thighs.
 
I agree with what a lot of people on here have written. I'm attracted to a girl who feels attractive in herself, regardless of whether she is skinny or a bit larger. Tiny tits can be so sexy but so can larger breasts. I think thin women look gorgeous in photos but I would probably prefer a girl with more meat on her sexually.
 
I'm gonna have to go w/ Ekserb. I've been on lit only for a short time, and yet I'll get complimented on the boards, but in real life, few if any guys would ever come up to me in person and compliment me...sure it's happened, but it's rare.
I have no qualms admitting about myself what others wouldn't want to say...so I do it for them. The truth for me is simply that should I place myself beside another woman who's skinny, I might as well be invisible as far as having a guy approach me...but I'm cool w/ that b/c unlike being superficially pretty, flaky and vapid, I can hold a conversation that actually requires neurons, and it's not interrupted by social moments of awkwardness a la "valley girl style, like for real hehehe" :rolleyes:
 
I actually love both. my first wife was 5'1", 100 to 105 pounds and could only wear training bras. My 2nd wife was 5'9", about 220, and had 38dd's. My current g/f is 5'7", 160, and 36 ddd's. All women are beautiful to me as long as they have a good personality and a nice smile :)
 
As long as she looks like a woman - not a circus freak - I'm happy. I don't like extremes in either direction.
 
Hmm.. well, then, where do I fit in this question?

I'm petite - 5'1", 100 pounds, Asian.

But I have curves.. quite obviously so.
 
Hmm.. well, then, where do I fit in this question?

I'm petite - 5'1", 100 pounds, Asian.

But I have curves.. quite obviously so.

I think you fit right in that range of the ideal ratio. You don't look like balloons will pop on your sharp skeleton and you are curvy enough to be a lot of fun.
 
I think you fit right in that range of the ideal ratio. You don't look like balloons will pop on your sharp skeleton and you are curvy enough to be a lot of fun.

Haha, well that's good to know!

It's just that a lot of people were against either ends of the spectrum.. and I was just thinking like.. "Wha! Then what about me? I'm skinny and Asian! But I have pretty big boobs! :eek:"
 
JenLee, there is something about the honesty of the lack of extra meat that is sexy in itself. But, there are some aspects of a bit of bone that can drive some guys nuts.
 
Being an Asian female, I do not understand why American White guys like me. Is it a skinny thing? I am 100 pounds and 5'2." Why is it that African Americans like meat?

-Jen :kiss:

Its all about proportion - I, like many men, prefer women whose bodies are proportional. If they have a small frame, then small breasts and a flat butt is really hot. On the other hand, if they are tall and broad shouldered like many American women, then larger breasts and rounder butts are super-fine. And of course, proportionally long but not skinny legs are great too.

I REALLY hate the scientificaly altered extremes. Whether its super skinny 6' models, or any woman with giant fake boobs that stick out to the sides, no matter what kind of frame they are on!
 
As I suspected, the men of Lit truly are the only group of men who are immune from the physical charms of women. Apparently these men are so tuned into a woman's personality that they feel absolutely nothing when they look at Playboy, Penthouse, or FHM. (If they do have any copies around the house I'm sure they read the articles and avoid the pictures.)

Pleeeeeeease. I am so fucking tired of the bullshit online personas. There are maybe a dozen honest people on this forum and they are so rudely criticized for their candid opinions that they rarely say anything. This forum (and the entire country for that matter) are so Politically Correct that no one says what they think anymore - they only say what they think other people want to hear.

There are some women on this board who are indeed sexy and attractive despite being a little overweight or a little short or a few years older. There's no denying that. What I find hard to believe, however, is the numbers of men who say they would choose a woman based solely on her personality instead of what she looks like.

It's easy to bang away on a keyboard and play the person of high moral character, but in the real world when presented with a real choice between a hot chick and an average girl, men will almost always pick the hot girl. I don't know how many different ways to say it and you all know it's true. Ask any woman who goes to a bar and finds herself sitting alone for hours while the gorgeous model has to beat off the men from the moment she walks in the door. Is it because the model has such an amazing mind and loves sports and beer? Hah! No way.

How many men walk into that same club and walk right up to the worst-dressed girl in the place and start talking to her to find out about her dreams and desires? No fucking way. They might find their way over to her corner after they've been shot down by one or two of the better looking women, but they never start with the fat chicks (unless they have a fetish for that kind of girl).

Any man who is honest with himself will admit that he would walk up to the better looking of two women if he had no other criteria to go on. Jesus, who wouldn't?!? Even if the women were identical twins he would more likely gravitate toward one over the other if the first was better dressed or was wearing nicer makeup.

As usual, there may be a handful of exceptions, but study after study proves that men are primarily attracted to pretty women. If she happens to have a brain in her pretty little head, that's only a bonus. (In fact, many times the brain might be a turn off to the man if he was really only interested in getting laid.)

So go ahead, let me have it for being honest and speaking the truth.

This is the most brutally honest poster I have ever seen on Lit. One of his points that really stood out to me, was the one where nearly all of the Lit men here try and take the moral high road. I DESPISE that utter bullshit, where men with their dicks in their hand lie through their teeth and tell anything with tits and a vagina, wverything she could possibly want to hear, just to get more pics. And when ever a woman asks for an honest opinion and someone gives an opinion that isn't in line with any of the groomers, all of the groomers gang up on that person and insult him, call him a troll, bigot, idiot. They try to take the "moral high road" and play the white knight. The irony is, there's nothing morally right about grooming for more pics, and artificially inflating a woman's ego and self-confidence, especially for selfish sexual personal gain. These false white knights, they are the true pigs among men, not the men like Ekserb. I never understood why people like Ekserb get nailed to the cross. I too have been nailed to the cross several timea, have been insulted, delegated as a troll, etc, for speaking against thebgroomers and stating an opinion that may be detrimental to the groomers game. Lit needs more Ekserb!
 
As I suspected, the men of Lit truly are the only group of men who are immune from the physical charms of women. Apparently these men are so tuned into a woman's personality that they feel absolutely nothing when they look at Playboy, Penthouse, or FHM. (If they do have any copies around the house I'm sure they read the articles and avoid the pictures.)

Pleeeeeeease. I am so fucking tired of the bullshit online personas. There are maybe a dozen honest people on this forum and they are so rudely criticized for their candid opinions that they rarely say anything. This forum (and the entire country for that matter) are so Politically Correct that no one says what they think anymore - they only say what they think other people want to hear.

There are some women on this board who are indeed sexy and attractive despite being a little overweight or a little short or a few years older. There's no denying that. What I find hard to believe, however, is the numbers of men who say they would choose a woman based solely on her personality instead of what she looks like.

It's easy to bang away on a keyboard and play the person of high moral character, but in the real world when presented with a real choice between a hot chick and an average girl, men will almost always pick the hot girl. I don't know how many different ways to say it and you all know it's true. Ask any woman who goes to a bar and finds herself sitting alone for hours while the gorgeous model has to beat off the men from the moment she walks in the door. Is it because the model has such an amazing mind and loves sports and beer? Hah! No way.

How many men walk into that same club and walk right up to the worst-dressed girl in the place and start talking to her to find out about her dreams and desires? No fucking way. They might find their way over to her corner after they've been shot down by one or two of the better looking women, but they never start with the fat chicks (unless they have a fetish for that kind of girl).

Any man who is honest with himself will admit that he would walk up to the better looking of two women if he had no other criteria to go on. Jesus, who wouldn't?!? Even if the women were identical twins he would more likely gravitate toward one over the other if the first was better dressed or was wearing nicer makeup.

As usual, there may be a handful of exceptions, but study after study proves that men are primarily attracted to pretty women. If she happens to have a brain in her pretty little head, that's only a bonus. (In fact, many times the brain might be a turn off to the man if he was really only interested in getting laid.)

So go ahead, let me have it for being honest and speaking the truth.

LOVE this post. Total truth. : )
 
This is the most brutally honest poster I have ever seen on Lit. One of his points that really stood out to me, was the one where nearly all of the Lit men here try and take the moral high road. I DESPISE that utter bullshit, where men with their dicks in their hand lie through their teeth and tell anything with tits and a vagina, wverything she could possibly want to hear, just to get more pics. And when ever a woman asks for an honest opinion and someone gives an opinion that isn't in line with any of the groomers, all of the groomers gang up on that person and insult him, call him a troll, bigot, idiot. They try to take the "moral high road" and play the white knight. The irony is, there's nothing morally right about grooming for more pics, and artificially inflating a woman's ego and self-confidence, especially for selfish sexual personal gain. These false white knights, they are the true pigs among men, not the men like Ekserb. I never understood why people like Ekserb get nailed to the cross. I too have been nailed to the cross several timea, have been insulted, delegated as a troll, etc, for speaking against thebgroomers and stating an opinion that may be detrimental to the groomers game. Lit needs more Ekserb!

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and to stay on topic. as far as girls and guys... scrawny is not appealing to me. i'm also not a fan of those who are considered obese in medical standards. i like healthy. kthx.
 
All body types. It really depends on the individual, what's in their brain, how they carry themselves. I prefer thick to too thin, but I have had and enjoyed sex with women of every body type. Why limit myself if I don't have to? ;)
 
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