What was your first sexual experience that lead to your current fetish or fantasies?

[tristianc]

I don’t remember exactly how some kinks started like my interest in voyeurism when I think was just born out of sexual curiosity.

Incest, when I was growing up a friend of mine introduced me to the word and what it meant, I found it kinda odd with how frequently he’d mention it but it wasn’t long until I too was having fantasies and thoughts on the subject.

Bondage and CNC, might have started at the same time. Thinking of it just aroused me and thought how great it would be if others were into it too. Found out later I wasn’t as alone as I thought.

Seduction, when I was in college I was still hoping to abstain from sex until marriage. I met up with my long distance girlfriend in a hotel. I didn’t expect anything would happen there as I thought we were on the same page, we weren’t. She respected my boundaries but she slowly pushed some as my young hormone fueled mind gave into her desires, I found the slow build and dry humping to not having sex better than sex, still do.

 

[Zosofan1000]

[Age reference removed] ... took my temperature using rectal thermometer. There was a feeling of vulnerability, but it wasn't uncomfortable. In fact, it felt oddly relaxing. That feeling stayed with me, and I got older, and was learning about my body, I would occasionally insert pens into my bottom. That's how I discovered the prostate orgasm...and Wow! After that, I was hooked on ass play.

I have graduated to plugs and dildos since then, but have never taken a cock in my ass. But i hope to one day.

 

[SecretAdmirer584]

I was in the police many years ago. At the time pornography was a criminal offense. We raided a house and confiscated hundreds of imported sex tapes. I had to watch the tapes to be able to testify in court about the content. I was 23 at the time and got hooked on porn. I tried to fight the urge to watch porn for years but it got the upper hand and then I discovered porn on the internet and the diversity of sex positions, inter racial sex, gay, lesbian, food play, everything blew my mind.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

Ever since I saw this thread pop up, I've been trying to connect the dots. I have no idea what led me to my kinks.

I’ve been trying to figure out why I am the way I am for years with little luck. But I think I enjoy the journey

 

[saintcero]

I’ve been trying to figure out why I am the way I am for years with little luck. But I think I enjoy the journey

Sometimes you find the kinks and sometimes the kinks find you.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

I’ve been trying to figure out why I am the way I am for years with little luck. But I think I enjoy the journey

I agree! I've learned a lot about myself over the last two years. But my kinks are out there. I would love to know why I'm that way.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

I agree! I've learned a lot about myself over the last two years. But my kinks are out there. I would love to know why I'm that way.

For me I’ll be traveling through memories and then I’ll hit one and immediately wonder if that’s why I so and so.

It’s not necessarily from the direction of “this is my kink. What memory do I have that explains it?”

Self discovery, man. It’s intoxicating. Cheers.

 

[aya_amano]

I had a date with my current boyfriend and was waiting for him at the love hotel we wanted to try out.
But he messaged me that he couldn't make it...
I was pretty disappointed and I guess it was pretty clear.

An older man approached me and normally I would have ignored him (especially in that part of Tokyo) but I was upset and horny.
He offered to pay for the room and he promised to give me a good time.
He wasn't lying. He gave me the best sex I had until then.

Since then, I love to go out with older men.

 

[Chazwill]

A couple years back I had this girl friend (let’s call her friend 1) I was messing with. There was a house party one night, it was pretty late around this point had to be around 1am, we were messing around in the bedroom, with the door unlocked (rookie mistake lol) although not our first encounter with each other we were still new to everything and took it slow. We made out for a while feet dangling off the bed, slowly, sensually really just taking everything in. I was too nervous to take things too far and make her uncomfortable. She wasn’t uncomfortable though and she moved things a little further. We moved back on to the bed fully and she started kissing my neck, slowly, mildly, taking her time. She makes her way towards my chest, my heart was pounding so hard I wondered if she could feel it. She lowers the straps of my tank top and starts kissing on my nipples, sucking them softly. I remember it feeling like nothing i’ve felt before, I haven’t even touched my own nipples at this point. It was arousing to be that close to someone, I could feel myself getting wet. A feeling that was still new then too, everything feels so much more intense the first time. She stops we just look at each other not speaking. I start to kiss on her chest and lower her shirt to reveal her tits. They were on the smaller side a B cup maybe and her nipples were pink and soft. I take one in my mouth and start sucking, i’m moving from each breast kissing them both, we were just in our own world to be honset. The music in the living room was loud, the only light in the room was the red light coming from the lamp across the room. And you know that buzzy feeling in your head when you’re so horny and in the moment that it’s hard to hear or focus on anything expect the person in front of you? Well that’s probably why I didn’t hear the door open and I don’t think she notice for a while either, it couldn’t be longer than 30 seconds but eventually we notice, it was another girl friend of ours ( friend 2), we didn’t see her as often but we we’re friends. I should mention we were doing everything in secret, nobody knew because we didn’t want judgment for our sexuality but also we would just fuck around occasionally there was no point in telling anyone. Anyways, she comes in and closes the door, she was shocked to say the least I was sitting there quietly scared she would run out and say something. But friend 1, starts asking her wants to see, she pulls away her hands to reveal her tits, i’m looking at friend 2 to gauge her reaction, she staring at her tits. She comes down to sit in between us. I ask if I can see hers, she pulls down her top, she has dark skin and her tits her bigger, they were perfectly round and her nipples were getting hard. I asked if I could touch them, she says yes. This was the second girl i’ve touched and I loved seeing both of theirs body’s, different builds but both so fucking hot. I fondled them while I kinda just creepily stared in amazement. Friend 1 is kissing her, they make out while I play with her tits. They pull away and I start to kiss her, while friend 1 starts sucking on her tits, I pull away and start sucking on her other tit at the same time. I’ll forever have the picture etched in my mind of making eye contact with friend 1 was also sucking her and then looking up at her and she’s had her head up in pleasure, eye closed shut. It’s pretty tame but I could cum thinking about it. We stopped there, everyone put their shirts back on and we never talked about it again lol. I’m pretty sure everyone enjoyed it but there was alot of shame around it unfortunately.

Anyways, you probably guessed that I love threesomes and reallllllyyyy want to experience one again taken all the way.

This is the first time i’ve ever written something like this, it’s a true story lol i’m definitely not a writer but I wanted to share, idk leave some comments, would anyone be interested in hearing other stories or should I continue to be a silent viewer lol

That’s a hot memory. I would love to hear more

 

[Nellie60]

In college, I was involved with a woman who cheated on me. I remember feeling so hurt and betrayed. But, when I thought about it after we broke up, I found myself getting so aroused and horny thinking of her getting fucked in every way by that guy. It was my go to fantasy to immediately cum while masturbating.

In a subsequent relationship, I would tell her about my fantasy to see her with another guy. While telling it, I would always be rock hard. I could never, however, fully deal with my jealousy or fear of losing her to go through with it, even though she was into it. Anyway, the relationship did not last. But, the fantasy of being a cuckold remains. There is this added twist that, yes, I am turned on by a hard cock. So, an mmf is what I crave most.

Understand I had those fears of losing her or them and imagined them with other guys but not as far mmf.

 

[Str8andhungfromBoston]

My kink for voyeurism and maybe some incestuous thoughts definitely started with my mother. Growing up she was always open about her love for sex... Pair that with alcohol and she always loved being listened to. When I moved back into their home during college she was always conveniently walking into my room to talk to me when I was in my underwear or just after showering. She finally walked in on me masturbating to porn at my computer (completely naked, but with a blanket covering my lap) and instead of running away she walked over behind my chair and said "oh that is so hot!" I ended up finishing right there in front of her. Something about being watched put me in overdrive and it sounded like a damn waterfall on my chair mat. I remember her jaw hit the floor and all she could say is "woah"... Something like that. Anyways she's a bit older now and has had her health battles but I do still fantasize about some mother son or stepmom stuff.

 

[subdudeme13]

Do I have to talk about my older sister?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

My kink for voyeurism and maybe some incestuous thoughts definitely started with my mother. Growing up she was always open about her love for sex... Pair that with alcohol and she always loved being listened to. When I moved back into their home during college she was always conveniently walking into my room to talk to me when I was in my underwear. She finally walked in on me masturbating to porn at my computer (completely naked, but with a blanket covering my lap) and instead of running away she walked over behind my chair and said "oh that is so hot!" I ended up finishing right there in front of her. Something about being watched put me in overdrive and I remember he jaw hit the floor and all she could say is "woah"... Something like that. Anyways she's a bit older now and has had her health battles but I do still fantasize about some mother son or stepmom stuff.

Hot as hell!!!

 

[cruiser_2015]

My fetish is wearing women's panties, brief ones that show my cock outline or so small my cock pokes out. The sexual experience that led to it was browsing my mother's lingerie catalogues then discovering her panties in her laundry basket. I was led further by meeting a boy at school who was into his sisters panties and seing how sexy he looked in them.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

I would say from the first time I spurted humping a pillow, I was hooked!

Yes, same.
Im addicted

 

[Bbl87]

Hotwifing/Being a Bull is my current fantasy.

Honestly, just kind of being on here, and sharing some photos and videos with friends and enjoying the responses had been the biggest thing. And being encouraged that it would be something I'd be good at by several who have participated in the lifestyle.

 

[WestCin]

Is it a kink or fetish to prefer big women? Ssbbw?
Or is that just having a type?

 

[Not Normal]

Is it a kink or fetish to prefer big women? Ssbbw?
Or is that just having a type?

I think that depends on wether you just want to fuck them, or if you also are interested in knowing them.

 

[NapierBone]

Honestly: the fact that my first girlfriend was horribly sexually abused by her father. If I can’t enact my sexuality in a really active way, if I tend strongly submissive, that’s why. Because my formative sexual experiences were with someone who was often scared and unhappy and found it very hard to trust anyone or her own body to give her any kind of pleasure.

So yeah: anyone on here with fantasies about family members. Don’t fool yourself that they’re in any way reciprocated. And don’t imagine you can enact your fantasies without profoundly damaging someone you love.

 

[Crownvic]

I don't think it's a fetish but, I was seduced by an older woman when I was younger. It definitely influences my preference in porn.

I totally agree..happen to me as a teen..gfs mom..very seductive...always remember the feeling..

 

[Up4fun&69]

There are a number of such experiences that led to current desires/fetishes. Here are a couple.
1) Always enjoyed skin-to-skin play in my "younger" days. One girl (yup, the minister's daughter), was a year or so older and taught me a few things. One was putting my hard cock in between her ass cheeks and sliding up and down over her puckered butthole. It gave us both pleasurable sensations...and kept me out of her pussy. Ever since then, I've enjoyed fucking doggy style and pulling out to slide my cock between my lover's ass cheeks for a bit. And if cumming in her wasn't an option, sliding between her cheeks and then cumming all over her back and ass was such a turn on. (Unfortunately, for the 13 years we dated, lived together and were married, my ex-wife thought that such play was strange and I put it into my "spank bank" until I was single again.)
2) At my first steady job, I dated a tall blonde (she was 19 and I was 23), from the secretarial pool. She was 6'1" to my 6'4". The first time we were nude together, she wanted to accentuate the sensual side of play time. So we sat facing each other, nude, interlocking legs. All we could do was kiss and rub our nipples together. No hands. After 15 to 20 minutes of this incredible build up, she started to orgasm and I then came all over her breasts and stomach without either her or me touching my cock. It was probably the biggest load I've ever unleashed and the deepest, best orgasm I ever had. Ever since then, I became highly aware of how sensitive my nipples were and crave for my lover to play with them.
There are more things from my younger days that define my sexual pleasures these day, but you get the gist.

 

[Anononly1992]

I remember being in my cousin's house when I was in my teens. I was clearly going through that 'wer dream' stage and would regularly wake up with my underwear ruined.

We loved next door to each other. Once I went into the house the doors were always open, we lived in the country). I was walking down the hall to her room and the door was slightly ajar. I saw her putting on her knickers, with her back to me. I froze and thought it was amazing. And quickly ran out the door.

Then a couple of nights later, I knew a friend of hers was over, I knew her friend as we were all on the same swim team. I had a crazy crush on her, but was so shy, I would never even talk to her.

I sneaked out of the house this night and over to her bedroom window. There was a crack in the curtain and I could barely see in. Not much happened, but they were getting dressed again in their knickers, I saw my cousin's boob, but not her friends'.

From then, I've been obsessed with knickers. Flas forward 30 years and daily you will find me digging my wife's dirty panties out of the laundry!

 

[YourSecretDesires]

I have a lot of fetishes but here is one whose origin I remember. I was in high school and had just started seeing my gf. Was still a virgin and hadn't done much so was dying to get some action with her.

After going out with friends she told me to come to her house late at night, she lived in the country. Everyone else was asleep (including her parents!) and she spirited me into her house. In her bedroom her sister (one year younger) and her friend were sleeping in my girlfriend's bed. Her sister was also very hot and the friend, while not my type, was actually a girl I'd rejected when she asked me to a dance, so I think she fancied me.

Anyway my girlfriend and I were whispering, giggling, and fooling around, trying not to awaken the two young women in bed. They were "sleeping" but stirring and I think could hear us and the various sounds we were making. At some point we were mostly naked, my dick was out, but I think we got a bit gun shy and didn't finish. That had to wait for another day in the back of my car. I remember later on the friend being somewhat "mad" at me about that but hey, young lust knows few bounds. Wish I had also fucked the sister but such is life.

Anyway that probably started my interest in having people watch or join in or any kind of group thing.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Do I have to talk about my older sister?

You don't have to but you're welcome to

 

[subdudeme13]

You don't have to but you're welcome to

It was pretty kinky and I was young. She was three years older and it was role play. She was spider woman! I was caught in her web!