What was your first sexual experience that lead to your current fetish or fantasies?

[YourSecretDesires]

It was pretty kinky and I was young. She was three years older and it was role play. She was spider woman! I was caught in her web!

if it's too kinky for the thread you can PM me the deets.

 

[mrsgee]

I was seduced by my boyfriend's older brother.

 

[Sexysally1234]

Ohh tell more

 

[mrsgee]

Because of the above incident, I often fantasise about being seduced by someone more powerful and experienced than my current partner.

 

[The_Carrie]

Going to a clothing optional area on the lake in Austin, TX.

 

[Sexysally1234]

I was seduced by my boyfriend's older brother.

Similar thing happened To me

 

[shewantsmore]

I was bi curious, had a few gfs and expermented but i found out a real close friend of my mums, carol,she was gay and not sure if it was seduced or mutual but we became lovers. I was in my late teens she was late 40s. We did everything and i discovered so much,i think alot of my fetishes were formed from being with Carol, i was shaved but she wanted me natural, i love natural women now, she always wore white lingerie, 4/6 strap suspenders, corsets, panty girdles and i have a huge fetish now for everything white..other fetishes too, i really fell in love with her.

 

[lowcollar]

Two things changed me. The first time I got behind my girlfriend after a shower on my knees. She bent over and I tongued her ass for a good while. The second time was the first time that I was pegged on camera and watched it later. I've been a submissive slut ever since.

 

[easyoff]

There's a couple of things, one I can't say on here, and the first time I sucked a cock.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Because of the above incident, I often fantasise about being seduced by someone more powerful and experienced than my current partner.

Mmmmmm…we should talk…

 

[P0peye]

My early experiences as my best friend's eager and willing personal cocksucker introduced me to a lifelong oral obsession. On occasion, I have agreed to be the lone cocksucker in a series of oral gang bangs involving multiple men. I believe it has also made me a better lover with women because it conditioned me to prioritize my partner's orgasm over my own.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Massaging an older woman’s feet one night when I was 18. I had no idea She was seducing me when shel slid her bare feet in my lap…

 

[Baddad2004]

Going to a clothing optional area on the lake in Austin, TX.

Hippy hallow

 

[DpropertyofR]

(TW: r*pe)

I remember being very young sitting on the floor of the family room and watching some made for TV court melodrama about a college professor who attacked 2 sisters on different occasions. Details are hazy but I remember it was a mistrial on the case of the older sister then when he was free he attacked the younger sister. Although short, the r*pe scene burned itself in my memory for different and disparate reasons. I remember the long semi-dark tunnel he chased her down, the sound of his literal breathing down her neck, her furtive glances over her shoulder as she ran, the melodramatic music and finally, once he caught her and wrestled her to the ground, the sound of her overalls being ripped at the hip, her terrified scream and fade to black. I was breathing a bit heavily both horrified and frightened but also a strange new and not wholly unpleasant sensation I’d never felt before. Logically I knew it was faked and the director was just emotionally manipulating the audience but at the sound of cloth ripping, tiny match was lit in me. I became fascinated years later with non-consent situations and power-struggle and sought out those scenes in books or movies, and becoming infatuated with the “bad boys”, desirous of a taste myself of a little bit of sexual violence. Admittedly it’s still the scenes of implied sexual violence, or resistance to, in movies that excite me most.

I had a similar experience in my youth when I saw the movie, Lipstick, starring Mariel and Margeaux Hemingway and Chris Sarandon. Margeaux Hemingway plays a model and Mariel plays her younger sister just like she is in real life. Chris Sarandon plays the younger sister’s music teacher. The music teacher comes to the model’s house, ties her up, and assaults her. In the graphic scene, he strokes her bound body with a knife and licks the spots he stroked. I know it was supposed to be nonconsensual, but I found myself turned on by both the element of nonconsent and the bondage. I never forgot about that and enjoy BDSM and consensual nonconsent to this day.

 

[slipprywenwet]

Massaging an older woman’s feet one night when I was 18. I had no idea She was seducing me when shel slid her bare feet in my lap…

"I had no idea" -- love that. seems like you must've figured things out quickly enough
dumb & lucky -- very cool

 

[CuckinTx]

Always curious why people develop an attraction to certain fantasies or desires over other acts.

I have always found the hj for example a real turn on or eating pussy.

Ever since I was a teenager and getting my first hj from the hands of an older woman a friends mother its been an fantasy relived many times with various girlfriends. Love all forms of sex but seem to navigate towards hj finishes.

Now that I have started tell me your early experiences that have done the same

For me it was group sex which led to the discovery of how small I was. My buddy and I partied all the time and one time I asked my girlfriend to fuck both is us. She said yes and when he got naked both my girlfriend and I had our jaws drop as he was 8-9 inches and I was 4.5! I went limp and couldn't fuck but him and her fucked hard until he came. I saw her eyes rollback in her head and I knew I couldn't compete. He ended up fucking 3-4 of my girlfriends over the next couple years. He also would make comments about how small I was in front of girls. It was embarrassing but eventually and as of today it makes me hard!

 

[lilmissdarling]

Read some erotica.. fairly dark. And it's just been down the rabitt hole further and further.

 

[eric_erosfan]

I became a voyeur because of the movie "Porky's". My best friends house had a panel in the back of the closet of the guest room that could be pulled away enough to give a view of the bathtub/shower. Many a night I caught his older sisters showering. I realized I didn't want to turn into a creepy peeping tom kind of voyeur so now I just enjoy when women accidentally or on purpose flash something in public spaces.

 

[LastExit77]

Lost virginity to much older pregnant relative. Has lead to a life long love of pregnant women, and extending to imppregnation also. I enjoy being with pregnant women, sometimes with partners watching. Also enjoy baby making and have a number of children as a result. Very open to chatting by dm or even email.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Good question. My first real experience was when my friend and I were watching porn on his computer and we were playing with ourselves. He talked me into getting naked with him so we could play. I was too busy looking at his cock that I didn't see much on the computer except for some girls with dicks sucking each other and I really did want to put his dick in my mouth. The next time I went over to his housee he asked me if I wanted to try it and I thought I would pass out from excitement. Once I put my tongue on it I nearlky cried...I told myself I didn't want to be a queer, Well, I sucked his dick nearly everyday, couldn't wait to get home from school. My story!

 

[coticoti]

Due to family issues..... I m always looking silently and I was long before I got hook on voyeurism...What follows was the urge to know what's beneath woman's clothing kept appearing on mind..... It's not exactly upskirt or down blouse.... It's never about the color or style that particular individual wears that attracts me.... To know whats concealed to public eyes tells a lot Abt that someone.... Like use of pantyliner is for those grp where they more concern with cleanliness or odours, those with torn panty suggest someone who isn't that concern or mind details.... It's a window into a stranger life... Just as how I watch from afar who ppl are doing... And yes those exhibitionist turns me on so so much and it's another way how one interact or present themselves.... Then it's others wives or gf... They jus develop and grow as time goes by....

 

[MrAddisonDMV]

Years ago a friend of mine was in town on a business trip. We met up for a drink and in the course of talking, she mentioned that things were good in her marriage but that over the years her husband had gotten more conservative in bed.

When I asked her for an example she said that she had recently discovered she was turned on by the thought of being spanked. But when she told him about it, he basically rejected her and said he didn't want to do that.

I listened, and replied with a smile, "I'd help you with that anytime you want."

She laughed and sipped her drink. Then she looked at me seriously and said, "Really?"

I nodded and we were both silent for a minute.

Thirty minutes later we were in her hotel room. She said she'd be more comfortable with a roleplay, so I suggested a
Professor/Student scenario. She was failing my class, needed an A to graduate, and would do anything to get it.

I'd never spanked a woman like this before, but soon she was bent over my lap and I was spanking her with my right hand, while alternately groping her and holding a fistful of her hair with my left.

She was not expecting to cum from the experience and was more than pleasantly surprised that she did.

Since then I've been interested in giving that same experience to women who cannot find it in their current situation.

 

[InYourPanties]

When I was young and playing dress up I found I got aroused (completely innocently) while trying on my mother’s underwear. I didn’t really see any link though. Fast forward and there was a moment in my teens where at a family event an aunts dress zip broke and she asked me to hold it together as she walked out to get changed. Couldn’t take my eyes off the top of her thong that I could see. Ever since then I was hooked…

 

[threequel]

Some things that happened to me really early on in life have resulted in me having several fantasy fetishes around playful group sex with friends, and having a person or people more experienced than me guiding me and a partner through sex.

 

[michael2956]

I can trace my nylon/pantyhose fetish to a high school girlfriend. It was the 1970's when girls were wearing short skirts and pantyhose. My girlfriend and I went to a conservative church that had services on Sunday nights and Wednesday nights. I would always give her a ride home afterwards, but we would always detour to the backside of a local lake. It was so arousing to have my hand on her leg during the drive. The smooth texture of the nylon was enough to get me hard. Once we parked and crawled into the back seat, we would partially undress each other. When my cock was out and in her hand, I'd lie on top of her, propped up on my elbows while she stroked my and I fingered her. My hard dick would sometimes rub against her leg. The silky smooth nylon felt so damn good and on more than one occasion, I lost it and shot my load all over her legs and stomach.

To this day, I mourn the demise of pantyhose. I have a few well-hidden pair that I will slip on for a long edging session when my wife is out of town. I love to watch the precum seep though the nylon. Sometimes I take a out pair and use it as a glove to stroke.