Why do you come here?

I came to Lit to read the stories, then I chatted, looking for what was missing in my real life. For awhile, I was a regular in the chat room. Now I rarely go to chat due to all the drama that can occur there (ick.) I still like to hear about people's opinions, questions, declarations and musings about sex and the like, so the bulletin board is my place of choice to visit now.
 
It started out a couple of years ago when I used to chat with a girl on Yahoo. It was fun chat, sometimes sexual, sometimes sexually explicit, sometimes just about the day an its happeniengs, but she had it in her yahoo profile and i came here to see what she liked about it...i havent read many stories, but from time to time i enjoy one. but I LOVE browsing through the threads. i go through phases of talking to people, i will chat and leave messages sometimes and then not get back on lit for weeks or more. but i have been pretty regular lurker for the past few months. Of course, I enjoy the hot pictures or "real" women. something that seems tangible and not a porn star ( although, i enjoy that too at times:) )
 
I had been reading sories for years and just kind checked th bulletin board by accident.

I like talking sex as well as other stuff....and most every person I know wouldn't believe I'm on here....I've had some very nice pms with people as well some very hot and some serious.....it's all good
 
Just curious about the reasons some may have about coming back to Lit after finding it in the first place....

It's a pretty wide range of people who visit, from young to old, married to single, gay, straight and bi..... but we all have one thing in common... why?

Another question could be how did you find the site in the first place?
Wife left me almost 7 mos. ago, p.c. a pretty good friend. like to masturbate so looked around for format, found this! Pretty damn fine place. Also found soulmate just of late, wanted to share that! New to this thing, any pointers appreciated, like how do I post??? Mostly just like having company.
 
My Master pointed me towards Lit when we were LDR several years ago. We would find stories we liked and link them to each other as ways to talk about this or that. It was a great way to share about ourselves and learn about each other while still feeling "safe."

A few years ago he encouraged me to write a few stories to work through some difficult moments in my past (and explain them to him at the same time). He likes the way I write, which means so much to me! He's done more reading on Lit than I have, but he's kept up the habit of sending me stories that either he especially likes or he thinks I might like (or both).

I was in the hospital two weeks ago, and a little stir crazy. I couldn't get online but I had my laptop. He gave me the assignment of writing a particular story for him, which I did. I've suddenly got the writing bug again! We're collaborating on a few, and have our own ideas for some more. I started reading more to learn what makes a good story, and finally got the nerve to submit my own first try last night. <G> Now I get to hold my breath and see if it gets accepted.

I've lurked on the forums off & on but never had the nerve to post. Dunno why, I just didn't. Since I had to register to submit my story, I figured I might as well start posting around here, too. I definitely like the broad-mindedness of so many people, and it's just plain fun to talk about my fantasies and experiences.

I'm glad I'm here!
 
I also found this site looking for erotic stories and ideas when my girlfriend and I were writing stories to each other. It was as turn on when both of us, when writing stories mentioned each other by name and maybe a freckle or mole in a certain spot that you know meant you.
 
I still find it so interesting, that so many of us have come here as a result of very similar circumstances.

Thanks for posting!
 
Lit adds a spice of life to my sex life... Hubby is reaping the benefits. Im sure he would tell you so.. ALso, Im a big flirt . I love to tease and please.. I love it here. ONe day I might even get brave enough to post some pictures.
 
I come here for a few reasons.

One because of the people. There are some very cool people on this site.

Two because of the stories

three because of t he amature pics area

and finally four to masturbate. I have a feeling that is the reason a lot of people come to the site.
 
I come to LIT

to meet people with same and different opinions as my own.

the best way to learn stuff about sexuality is by asking people. Its much easier to ask people online then having to ask them face to face. There are some very knowledgeable people on LIT and I vow their opinions.

Since being a LIT member, I became much more understanding of what I am sexually attracted to and now do not feel ashamed about it because there are thousands just like me.

Besides talking to some great people, the pictures and stories are amazing. Definitely produces some great masturbation fantasies...
 
In The Beginning...

I came for the stories only. I didn't even realise there was a forum. Went through a phase of using only erotic literature and completely foregoing other types of erotica.

Spending all that time on the site, I eventually stumbled across the boards. I spent a while reading the "How To" and just stocking up on sexual knowledge. Then over time I just begun hanging out on the site more often, commenting, reading, posting pictures, ;).

In conclusion, I come for the VERY useful information that so many members are willing to share and to just have fun interacting with the site and its members, :).
 
My story is pretty similar to many of your stories. Started with reading the erotica, and moved onto reading posts on the board. Started co-writing stories in the SRP section and found I really enjoyed writing. Just posted my first story and have almost completed my second!
 
I came here originally after trying to find a more adult chat room.
I found the board and the How To section which had a lot of interesting stuff, then i saw the amateur pics and so i stayed :)
 
I come here for a few reasons.

One because of the people. There are some very cool people on this site.

Two because of the stories

three because of t he amature pics area

and finally four to masturbate. I have a feeling that is the reason a lot of people come to the site.

I find it kinda funny that you're the only one (so far) that has just laid it out there...

The amateur pics seem to be a pretty big hit too. I wonder if the draw is only for the people looking or for the people posting. I know I'm far to shy to post a photo of myself..
 
My x bf told me about this site last year never thought about it till Jan of this year, logged in and read some stories, accidentally found boards. Thats when I made a big mistake went on the General Board, they treated me like crap, accused me of being someone else, some guy with 70,000 post jumped on me and they all followed. I didn't come back for a while, then only to read stories. I have just begun about a month ago to post a lil more and meet people.
 
My x bf told me about this site last year never thought about it till Jan of this year, logged in and read some stories, accidentally found boards. Thats when I made a big mistake went on the General Board, they treated me like crap, accused me of being someone else, some guy with 70,000 post jumped on me and they all followed. I didn't come back for a while, then only to read stories. I have just begun about a month ago to post a lil more and meet people.

Not sure why people have to be that way. I would want to jump on you as well but the differnce is we both would enjoy it:D
 
My x bf told me about this site last year never thought about it till Jan of this year, logged in and read some stories, accidentally found boards. Thats when I made a big mistake went on the General Board, they treated me like crap, accused me of being someone else, some guy with 70,000 post jumped on me and they all followed. I didn't come back for a while, then only to read stories. I have just begun about a month ago to post a lil more and meet people.

Glad you decided to stick around. The GB is what it is and it goes through phases. The reality is that people claim to be someone else all the time and sometimes people feel trampled on. I am not excusing that you were treated like crap. But it is not often that a stunning beautiful women passes through and she isn't really some big fat dude drinking beer laughing at the people he is fooling.

I came for the stories, met a few people that I connected with and have stayed for the giggles and the teasing. Of course...I do have a big ignore list.
 
My x bf told me about this site last year never thought about it till Jan of this year, logged in and read some stories, accidentally found boards. Thats when I made a big mistake went on the General Board, they treated me like crap, accused me of being someone else, some guy with 70,000 post jumped on me and they all followed. I didn't come back for a while, then only to read stories. I have just begun about a month ago to post a lil more and meet people.

Nice to hear you've decided to stick around. I can honestly say, I've never really veered onto the GB, simply because I've heard far too many horror stories....

I guess I like to stay out of the limelight somewhat.

Welcome though :)
 
Glad you decided to stick around. The GB is what it is and it goes through phases. The reality is that people claim to be someone else all the time and sometimes people feel trampled on. I am not excusing that you were treated like crap. But it is not often that a stunning beautiful women passes through and she isn't really some big fat dude drinking beer laughing at the people he is fooling.

I came for the stories, met a few people that I connected with and have stayed for the giggles and the teasing. Of course...I do have a big ignore list.

There seems to be plenty of (good natured) teasing going on here! and you're right, it's the people who make it fun.
 
Came to the site because of the stories. Came to the board out of curiosity.
 
People

Most people here are honest and thats cool. No need to lie or be what your not. Thanks all for good times. Oh yea i like to masturbate to am pics too.
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There seems to be plenty of (good natured) teasing going on here! and you're right, it's the people who make it fun.

You know how it feels when you walk down a street and you can't help but notice someone is admiring you? How it puts a smile on your face? I tend to think of the teasing/flirting in the same light. The goal is to make someone smile.
 
You know how it feels when you walk down a street and you can't help but notice someone is admiring you? How it puts a smile on your face? I tend to think of the teasing/flirting in the same light. The goal is to make someone smile.
That feeling is why I spend time at the gym using the Stairmaster.
 
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