Are You Gay, Bi, Strait, or...

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Now, I am not fond of tags, but I think we need to create a new tag. It will be " 'Sexual" or "hyphen-sexual". That will cover those of us who just plain love hot sex, regardless of participant's gender.

 

[Brinnie]

I have more proof that EVERYONE is Bi...

Physical & Mental Sexuality.

Strait people are physically attracted to the opposite sex. Duh.
However, today while looking through Craigslist ads, I had an [SIZE=-1]epiphany..[/SIZE].

Women look for "sensitive", "gentle", "caring" and "romantic" men- while men want "horny", "wild" "spontaniuos" women... Strait people looking for same sex characteristics in their partners. Hmm.

My theory that everyone is bisexual is graphed by percentages and everyone falls somewhere on the chart, as follows:
STRAIT-------------------------------GAY
100 - 75 - 50 - 25 - 50 - 25 - 50 - 75 - 100


If all it takes is 0.1% to make a person bi-sexual, then this hypothesis supports my theory of bi-sexuality. Yes, you are strait. But also...

http://sc.tri-bit.com/images/f/f5/adu.sized.jpg​

 

[Anarawd]

I have more proof that EVERYONE is Bi...

Physical & Mental Sexuality.

Strait people are physically attracted to the opposite sex. Duh.
However, today while looking through Craigslist ads, I had an [SIZE=-1]epiphany..[/SIZE].

Women look for "sensitive", "gentle", "caring" and "romantic" men- while men want "horny", "wild" "spontaniuos" women... Strait people looking for same sex characteristics in their partners. Hmm.

My theory that everyone is bisexual is graphed by percentages and everyone falls somewhere on the chart, as follows:
STRAIT-------------------------------GAY
100 - 75 - 50 - 25 - 50 - 25 - 50 - 75 - 100


If all it takes is 0.1% to make a person bi-sexual, then this hypothesis supports my theory of bi-sexuality. Yes, you are strait. But also...

http://sc.tri-bit.com/images/f/f5/adu.sized.jpg​

Works for me!
Glad to see you're back Brinnie.
Whatever happened to A&E? It was the best! ​

 

[WynEternal]

I am married to a man, but my heart still longs for the first woman I feel in love with. I realize I am not entirely heterosexual, and often, the feelings for the women I am close to are stronger.

Where does that leave me? In the middle and sometimes, it is still confusing.

 

[TerriV]

I'm 100% bisexual

 

[stlpenguin]

Until recently I'd have said "Straight, and curious." I think now it's "Bi, and no longer curious" Mostly-straight-bi submissive crossdresser. That's me in all my labeled goodness!

-- Scott / Sara

 

[BetweenWorlds]

Labels

I am not a fan of labels as I think the confine more than define. For as long as I can remember I have been emotionally attracted to both men and women. In grade school I had a crush on a boy and a girl at the same time.
For me it is important to be emotionally attracted to a person before there can be a sexual relation. That doesn't mean I can't look at a man or a woman and find them attractive. I can and do, but physical attractivness is one thing and emotional attractivness is another. If I had to label myself I would say I am a lover.

 

[Crastynyx]

I'm a bisexual, I guess. However, I only see the same sex (Guys) as sex and roleplay partners. I don't like gay porn but I like to watch men solo. I'm odd and quite proud of it, haha.

 

[skittles_lm]

Many people are 100% gay or lesbian and are drawn sexually and emotionally only to partners of the same sex. Others are completely heterosexual, bonding in sexual and intimate relationships only with people of another sex.

But what about everybody else? A significant percentage of people do not fit neatly into either of these categories, because they experience sexual and emotional attractions and feelings for people of different genders at some point during their lives. For lack of a better term, they are called bisexuals, although, many people prefer to call themselves “pansexual”, “non – preferential”, “sexually fluid”, “ambisexual” or “omni – sexual”.​

I like both ambi- and omni-sexual! lol

I like everyone. Meow!

I wonder... does being commited for life to a woman make me gay by default?

Just cuz i'm not getting cock doesn't mean i don't like it anymore, right?

 

[nici]

I guess my point here is that queerness really is more than just a label - it is a way of being in the world that includes all of this gender play and ambiguity, and that encompasses an aesthetic and world view that transcends cultural boundaries. When I am separated from it for a long time (as I often am at the conferences I must attend because of my job) I crave contact with it - it embraces me as though I am a long-lost child coming home. And if I know where to search for it, I can find and recognize it whether I am in San Francisco, London, Mexico City, Berlin, Thailand, Budapest or Tokyo...

LOL!

Oh did you just awaken memories I had pushed way into the attic of my mind, hoping they would become covered with dust and fade away.

About two years ago a guy I was with asked me to marry him. I told him that I couldn’t. The only reason I could tell him was, “Because I’m queer.”

Neither could I get him to understand, nor could I fully understand my feelings, myself. (Maybe I still don’t completely understand.)

 

[menatv]

This pretty much sums me up.

I LOVE women. I fantasize about them all the time..especially a couple of my coworkers here (ages 19 and 50..yes..fifty).

But..I think I love women so much I want to be them and experience sex as they do..having to put a cock in my mouth and inside me as well. At least that is what I fantasize about.

Anyway, below is pretty much how I feel...straight/dom but definitely bi curious/submissive...(or maybe wishing I were a bi female..)

Joe/Mena

Until recently I'd have said "Straight, and curious." I think now it's "Bi, and no longer curious" Mostly-straight-bi submissive crossdresser. That's me in all my labeled goodness!

-- Scott / Sara

 

[xdressslut]

i am very bi sexual i do love both equally ..

 

[MsWet]

I find both men & women attractive.

 

[FazilKotuk]

I swing both ways, but more toward women than men.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

I am bi curious & open minded

I am attracted to women but I can say that another guy is attractive.

If the situation arose where I felt that the other guy is safe then yes I would have sex with him. So far the problem is I have not trusted anyone. Whenever I post an ad I get creepy emails from men that I call a "mouth". These guys will suck anything that shoots cum.

For me its just sex with another guy but I want a relationship with a woman.

 

[yorksguy]

Straight but want to change

Love to have a guy stip me and play with me,

 

[lilsub4u]

Hello...I'm happily bi, but some call my lesbian by default. I've been in my current relationship for over ten years with the love of my life, another woman.
But I'm still bi. I know I still have attraction to both men and women. So...there you have it...Kinsey Scale 6!

 

[curiouslez84]

That's cool.

I used to think i'm bi- but now i just think im sexual.

Well, regardless of what you are, you're most definitely hothothot!!

Oh, and I'm a lesbo, btw.

 

[janet_rubs]

Two Cute Kids

Well, regardless of what you are, you're most definitely hothothot!!

Oh, and I'm a lesbo, btw.

It took me many years to accept I was bi and I am finally, truly happy with myself. Curious, I think I can find a job or task for your sweet self.

 

[licentiousangel]

I believe bisexual and pansexual are two different things.

In my opinion, bisexual means you perfer both men and women.

And I think this description from i_am_pansexual, a community on livejournal.com perfectly describes what a pansexual to me is:

A pansexual is one who can love sexuality in many forms. Much like a bisexual, a pansexual can love a man or a woman but a pansexual can also love transgendered, androgynous and gender fluid people, people who do not feel they fit into categories of male or female. Pansexuals come in all shapes and sizes, all sharing one common goal, sexual freedom.

I used to believe I was bisexual but within the past year or so when I have really gotten to explore my sexuality, I'm starting to think I might be more in the pansexual category. But, who knows? lol

 

[Destry54321]

strange

I am attracted to women but I can say that another guy is attractive.

If the situation arose where I felt that the other guy is safe then yes I would have sex with him. So far the problem is I have not trusted anyone. Whenever I post an ad I get creepy emails from men that I call a "mouth". These guys will suck anything that shoots cum.

For me its just sex with another guy but I want a relationship with a woman.

I feel much the same as you do.

 

[bi golly]

I'm mostly het, but I have a strong bi side. When I get around women, the thought of men fades. But when I am alone, I think about men constantly. On the other hand, I went to a few gay bars and I wasn't attracted to any of the men there. Too few data points to be valid.

 

[inmyanonymity]

I look like a white middle-age male, but I am a bisexual ambidextrous multiracial agnostic crossdressing moderate temperate kinky switch (more or less)


oh yes - wise-ass

Shankara, only you could come up with that one!

I like men. I like women. Bi-sexual. Pan-sexual. Articulate. Witty. I just want to have fun.

 

[sunandshadow]

I'm kind of puzzled about what to call myself. I am more likely to consider the average woman good looking than the average man, yet I'm not really sexually interested in women (no objection to them either) and am intensely sexually interested in the small fraction of men I consider pretty (who are generally somewhat feminine looking - long hair, cleanshaven face, narrow shoulders, curvy butt). I'm also not generally interested in transexuals of either variety.

 

[wfbfootball]

i'm strait, but i'm very interested in transexual ppl, especially the more wamanly they are the better, its kinda like the best situation, you get to be with a girl, and then, idk, tis just tight and i'd love to meet a person who is trans gender