big girls got it going on
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kirksaudi said:had surgery this morning, looks like no cancer and i should be fine. thanks to everyone for thier concern. it was really appreciated.
glad to know it was not cancerous, hope you start feeling better soon.....
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Kalentros said:
ohhhhh, bracing myself and waiting patiently......
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Kalentros said:
ohhhhhhh ouchhhhhh.......
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gypziedoll said:
again?
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gypziedoll said:
bracing myself for another....
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Kalentros said:
mmmmmm, i see you will torture me by teasing me....
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kirksaudi said:you guys are the best and thanks much.
your welcome darlin....
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Kalentros said:
ummmmmm maybe you.....don't know.....lol
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Kalentros said:
Touche'.....I will remember that.....and for the record....neither do i
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Kalentros said:
hehehehe *wicked giggle*
SCblondetiger said:When I first started dating a few years ago ( I'm only 23) I would tend to stick to larger guys cause ya know...larger guys..larger girls...I dunno I was childish... but I like skinny guys. But I kinda feel bad that I'm attracted to skinny guys and not BHM... is this unusual? Is there anyone else that feels like this?I don't know whether it's unusual or not, but I too am not attracted to big guys. If you have to spend your whole life being "understanding" of the fact that some guys just aren't attracted to you because of your looks, I don't think it's too much to ask that you be "allowed" to have your own preference. Possibly the most insulting conversations I've had have been with guys offering me pity shags who were actually offended and angry when I turned them down.
Horny, yes... desperate, no.
Personally? I don't like guys with hairy backs or who are fat. I like tall, black, athletic guys, as a visual preference.
Rambling now - basically, my thought is, you're entitled to your personal preferences, and shouldn't apologise for them. I don't mind that the guy I like doesn't like me, as long as he's not an arsehole about it!
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vetskone said:SCblondetiger said:When I first started dating a few years ago ( I'm only 23) I would tend to stick to larger guys cause ya know...larger guys..larger girls...I dunno I was childish... but I like skinny guys. But I kinda feel bad that I'm attracted to skinny guys and not BHM... is this unusual? Is there anyone else that feels like this?I don't know whether it's unusual or not, but I too am not attracted to big guys. If you have to spend your whole life being "understanding" of the fact that some guys just aren't attracted to you because of your looks, I don't think it's too much to ask that you be "allowed" to have your own preference. Possibly the most insulting conversations I've had have been with guys offering me pity shags who were actually offended and angry when I turned them down.
Horny, yes... desperate, no.
Personally? I don't like guys with hairy backs or who are fat. I like tall, black, athletic guys, as a visual preference.
Rambling now - basically, my thought is, you're entitled to your personal preferences, and shouldn't apologise for them. I don't mind that the guy I like doesn't like me, as long as he's not an arsehole about it!
Well said Sweetie, no one should have to apologize for their own personal likes and dislikes.
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Morning everyone........how are you all doing this morning?
vetskone said:SCblondetiger said:When I first started dating a few years ago ( I'm only 23) I would tend to stick to larger guys cause ya know...larger guys..larger girls...I dunno I was childish... but I like skinny guys. But I kinda feel bad that I'm attracted to skinny guys and not BHM... is this unusual? Is there anyone else that feels like this?I don't know whether it's unusual or not, but I too am not attracted to big guys. If you have to spend your whole life being "understanding" of the fact that some guys just aren't attracted to you because of your looks, I don't think it's too much to ask that you be "allowed" to have your own preference. Possibly the most insulting conversations I've had have been with guys offering me pity shags who were actually offended and angry when I turned them down.
Horny, yes... desperate, no.
Personally? I don't like guys with hairy backs or who are fat. I like tall, black, athletic guys, as a visual preference.
Rambling now - basically, my thought is, you're entitled to your personal preferences, and shouldn't apologise for them. I don't mind that the guy I like doesn't like me, as long as he's not an arsehole about it!
Personal preferences are one thing. Hypocracy is another. I'm not saying you personally, but I've known too many women who are "BBW" (or CFB, as I call them) who are extremely rude about only talking to guys who are the scrawny pretty boy or the muscle bound brain dead types. Now I'm not attacking anybody for having personal tastes, but think about it from the flip side of the coin.
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Before I jump in on this I wanna know what a CFB is......anyone?Kalentros said:
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vetskone said:SCblondetiger said:
I don't know whether it's unusual or not, but I too am not attracted to big guys. If you have to spend your whole life being "understanding" of the fact that some guys just aren't attracted to you because of your looks, I don't think it's too much to ask that you be "allowed" to have your own preference. Possibly the most insulting conversations I've had have been with guys offering me pity shags who were actually offended and angry when I turned them down.
Horny, yes... desperate, no.
Personally? I don't like guys with hairy backs or who are fat. I like tall, black, athletic guys, as a visual preference.
Rambling now - basically, my thought is, you're entitled to your personal preferences, and shouldn't apologise for them. I don't mind that the guy I like doesn't like me, as long as he's not an arsehole about it!
Thanks
that's what I wanted to know and hear....
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Kalentros said:vetskone said:SCblondetiger said:
I don't go just for that type...and I really hope that due to my statement that you're not including me in that group that you call CFB's (Yes you say not us / me personally, but that may just apply to vetskone, and not me) ...I have been told that I am one of the sweetest girls you will ever meet. I can not help who I am attracted to, and neither can you or anyone else. I posted my original post to see if there was anyone else who felt like this... The only thing we can control is how we react when we are greeted with some one that we do not find attractive, AND how we react when we are the person that's not being found attractive.
I have thought about it from the flip side of the coin, and I'm pretty sure that most of us in this forum have. We have seen the guys that only talk to the skinny short skirt girls, we have seen the guys that look at our friend(s) who are skinny but not us, we have seen the guys that when faced with the choice of dating us or dating a smaller girl they choose the smaller girl.
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Also-- I resisted the urge the first time i saw you post your BBW vs. CFB to comment, but now with your last entry, my psychology degree has taken over....I'm sorry that some of my fellow larger ladies have treated you this way, but please do not catagorize ALL of us as this way. We are not all Conceited...is it possible that conceit is just misinterepreted self confidence? Not all BBW are going to turn you down and treat you that way, and you may say I know that- but do you? You may know it but do you honestly believe it? I'm not meaning this in any mean or spiteful manner and I'm sorry if you take offense, but i feel like it needs to be said. I get the impression that you see all of us as not seeing the way that a larger male feels (I don't know the acryonm for it BHM?). It's probably very close to the way that we feel we a guy doesn't like us or when we get shuned or made fun of or turned down because of the way that we look. We (being society and/or this thread) are in this together...we all feel the same emotions, some just deeper than others....
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