big girls got it going on

[SCblondetiger]

Before I jump in on this I wanna know what a CFB is......anyone?

Kalentros explains ithere

"Conceited Fat Bitch"

 

[Abner Devereaux]

Just wanting to sat hello.

 

[SCblondetiger]

Just wanting to sat hello.

Hi

 

[Abner Devereaux]

Hi

Hi there. How are you doing?

 

[gypziedoll]

good morning all

 

[Kalentros]

Before I jump in on this I wanna know what a CFB is......anyone?

CFB....Conceited Fat Bitch. The kind of woman who'll be judgemental about looks, but can't stand when they're told they're not all that. Basically a fat woman who thinks their weight shouldn't be an issue....yet make the guys weight one and are really bitchy about it.

Now to SC:

Yeah...that was was my posting. I also posted that about two hours after someone on Yahoo had just pulled that, so yeah I was still steaming over it.

I freely admit I'm a very jaded individual. I'm also an upfront confrontational asshole. That being said: I personally don't care if you have a personal preferrence. Everyone has a right to their opinions and likes. My problem is when there's a double standard involved in it. You prefer smaller guys...great. How do you treat bigger guys? Do you just tell them you're not interested but at least are polite or maybe willing to get to know them before you make a decision.....no problem. You treat 'em like dirt on sight and make 'em feel like shit because of their weight/looks.....major problem. It would be just as hypocritical if I said that large women are disgusting and should be made to feel like they shouldn't be loved unless they lose 50 lb. Where do I get a right to criticise someone else for being overweight when I am? Big women don't like it done to them...but I've seen quite a few do it to guys, and not just to me. I went off on a woman in a bar because she called a friend of mine disgustingly fat. He weighs 10 lb more than I do...she weighed 10 lbs less than I do. I weigh 270 lb. That's why I came up with the CFB bit. I got sick of watching people be hypocritical. I've told off guys (who I've referred to as CFDF or Conceited Fat Dumb Fucks) who had the double standard of it. So don't think that it's one sided.

Oh by the way. Don't try to psychoanalyse me. I find psychology offensive. I was told by a psychologist, who I was seeing over having recurring dreams about killing my friends and family, that I drank too much because I have a few beers with my friends during the week. That's all they repeated. "You shouldn't drink"..."You drink too much"..."You're self medicating". The whole time I'm saying "I'm watching the people I love die by my own hand...I'm slaughtering them in ways that Jason Vorhees would cringe." So that put me off psychotherapy.

Now for something completely out of left field: I respect that you articulated your views and instead of going on the attack stood up and defended your position logically. Not many people will do that. I laid down the challenge with my postings to see if I could get some good debate on the subject, and you gave it to me. If you've mistaken anything in this posting as a personal attack then please understand that nothing was meant as one. I used you as the example in posting my questions to get everyone to sit back and examine how they would answer the same questions. I look forward to reading your response to this and hopefully keeping up a spirited debate.

Okay...I ranted...I raved....I got my blood pressure up....I'm done.

 

[gypziedoll]

CFB....Conceited Fat Bitch. The kind of woman who'll be judgemental about looks, but can't stand when they're told they're not all that. Basically a fat woman who thinks their weight shouldn't be an issue....yet make the guys weight one and are really bitchy about it.

Now to SC:

Yeah...that was was my posting. I also posted that about two hours after someone on Yahoo had just pulled that, so yeah I was still steaming over it.

I freely admit I'm a very jaded individual. I'm also an upfront confrontational asshole. That being said: I personally don't care if you have a personal preferrence. Everyone has a right to their opinions and likes. My problem is when there's a double standard involved in it. You prefer smaller guys...great. How do you treat bigger guys? Do you just tell them you're not interested but at least are polite or maybe willing to get to know them before you make a decision.....no problem. You treat 'em like dirt on sight and make 'em feel like shit because of their weight/looks.....major problem. It would be just as hypocritical if I said that large women are disgusting and should be made to feel like they shouldn't be loved unless they lose 50 lb. Where do I get a right to criticise someone else for being overweight when I am? Big women don't like it done to them...but I've seen quite a few do it to guys, and not just to me. I went off on a woman in a bar because she called a friend of mine disgustingly fat. He weighs 10 lb more than I do...she weighed 10 lbs less than I do. I weigh 270 lb. That's why I came up with the CFB bit. I got sick of watching people be hypocritical. I've told off guys (who I've referred to as CFDF or Conceited Fat Dumb Fucks) who had the double standard of it. So don't think that it's one sided.

Oh by the way. Don't try to psychoanalyse me. I find psychology offensive. I was told by a psychologist, who I was seeing over having recurring dreams about killing my friends and family, that I drank too much because I have a few beers with my friends during the week. That's all they repeated. "You shouldn't drink"..."You drink too much"..."You're self medicating". The whole time I'm saying "I'm watching the people I love die by my own hand...I'm slaughtering them in ways that Jason Vorhees would cringe." So that put me off psychotherapy.

Now for something completely out of left field: I respect that you articulated your views and instead of going on the attack stood up and defended your position logically. Not many people will do that. I laid down the challenge with my postings to see if I could get some good debate on the subject, and you gave it to me. If you've mistaken anything in this posting as a personal attack then please understand that nothing was meant as one. I used you as the example in posting my questions to get everyone to sit back and examine how they would answer the same questions. I look forward to reading your response to this and hopefully keeping up a spirited debate.

Okay...I ranted...I raved....I got my blood pressure up....I'm done.

Very well put,

I think most people need to look in the mirror and remember what our little old Grandmothers taught us.....that we should treat others as we would like to be treated.

I am a big girl, I have dated both small and big guys, the only thing I ever worried about was how the guy treated me. Because both big and small guys treated me both like a queen and like shit.

How can you say you are offended when someone comments on your weight, and turn around and do the same thing....how cruel and unjust.....

*stepping off her soapbox*

 

[SCblondetiger]

Hi there. How are you doing?

I'm good ...how are you?

 

[SCblondetiger]

CFB....Conceited Fat Bitch. The kind of woman who'll be judgemental about looks, but can't stand when they're told they're not all that. Basically a fat woman who thinks their weight shouldn't be an issue....yet make the guys weight one and are really bitchy about it.

Now to SC:

Yeah...that was was my posting. I also posted that about two hours after someone on Yahoo had just pulled that, so yeah I was still steaming over it.

I freely admit I'm a very jaded individual. I'm also an upfront confrontational asshole. That being said: I personally don't care if you have a personal preferrence. Everyone has a right to their opinions and likes. My problem is when there's a double standard involved in it. You prefer smaller guys...great. How do you treat bigger guys? Do you just tell them you're not interested but at least are polite or maybe willing to get to know them before you make a decision.....no problem. You treat 'em like dirt on sight and make 'em feel like shit because of their weight/looks.....major problem. It would be just as hypocritical if I said that large women are disgusting and should be made to feel like they shouldn't be loved unless they lose 50 lb. Where do I get a right to criticise someone else for being overweight when I am? Big women don't like it done to them...but I've seen quite a few do it to guys, and not just to me. I went off on a woman in a bar because she called a friend of mine disgustingly fat. He weighs 10 lb more than I do...she weighed 10 lbs less than I do. I weigh 270 lb. That's why I came up with the CFB bit. I got sick of watching people be hypocritical. I've told off guys (who I've referred to as CFDF or Conceited Fat Dumb Fucks) who had the double standard of it. So don't think that it's one sided.

Oh by the way. Don't try to psychoanalyse me. I find psychology offensive. I was told by a psychologist, who I was seeing over having recurring dreams about killing my friends and family, that I drank too much because I have a few beers with my friends during the week. That's all they repeated. "You shouldn't drink"..."You drink too much"..."You're self medicating". The whole time I'm saying "I'm watching the people I love die by my own hand...I'm slaughtering them in ways that Jason Vorhees would cringe." So that put me off psychotherapy.

Now for something completely out of left field: I respect that you articulated your views and instead of going on the attack stood up and defended your position logically. Not many people will do that. I laid down the challenge with my postings to see if I could get some good debate on the subject, and you gave it to me. If you've mistaken anything in this posting as a personal attack then please understand that nothing was meant as one. I used you as the example in posting my questions to get everyone to sit back and examine how they would answer the same questions. I look forward to reading your response to this and hopefully keeping up a spirited debate.

Okay...I ranted...I raved....I got my blood pressure up....I'm done.

I'm always up for a good discussion when people in it play fair.. Now for me
I treat a guy the way that I would want to be treated, and I wouldn't want to be treated like dirt or judged strictly based on looks. It's nice to know that its not one sided, and that there are names for male counterparts who also do this.

As far as the Psychoanalyzation-- I'm sorry, some people shouldn't be doing the things that they are doing. Personally not knowing your situation and just going on those two things I don't think that they were related and if you would like my take on it pm me and I'll tell you (I freely distribute my opinions...lol) I can't help that the analyzation that comes immediately into my head, but I will not "vocalize it" anymore in thie forum unless asked. You have my word on that.

I don't mind being an example..like i said I distrube my opinions freely. I was always taught to stand up for what you feel and defend your natural emotions, but to do it in a way that you are not attacking. Nice to see someone else with the same characteristics

I don't know how much more a debate that their can be on this subject. I see why you have come up with this name-- I may not like the name or the fact that by like smaller guys I present myself to possibly be one of these, but I respect it.

 

[Kalentros]

So far you haven't proven to be either conceited or a bitch. So you don't qualify. You may not like that someone actually came up with a name for people like that about as much as I don't like the fact that Bush was put into office either time...but what can you do?

 

[SCblondetiger]

So far you haven't proven to be either conceited or a bitch. So you don't qualify. You may not like that someone actually came up with a name for people like that about as much as I don't like the fact that Bush was put into office either time...but what can you do?

I'm right there with you on that...

 

[zschachwitz]

Very well put,

I think most people need to look in the mirror and remember what our little old Grandmothers taught us.....that we should treat others as we would like to be treated.

Grandma also taught me that it's better to be thought of as being a fool than to say something silly and prove it (or in the case of this forum, to post something silly and prove it)

 

[popcorn2721]

So far you haven't proven to be either conceited or a bitch. So you don't qualify. You may not like that someone actually came up with a name for people like that about as much as I don't like the fact that Bush was put into office either time...but what can you do?

Good call, Kal....I concur

 

[visionskate]

howdy all ..i hope that everyone is having a good one.

 

[SCblondetiger]

howdy all ..i hope that everyone is having a good one.

hi

 

[Guest]

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[popcorn2721]

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[vetskone]

Personal preferences are one thing. Hypocracy is another. I'm not saying you personally, but I've known too many women who are "BBW" (or CFB, as I call them) who are extremely rude about only talking to guys who are the scrawny pretty boy or the muscle bound brain dead types. Now I'm not attacking anybody for having personal tastes, but think about it from the flip side of the coin.

I'm not rude about talking to anybody, and I guess that's mostly my point. If I'm at a bar and some guy starts a conversation with me, I'll talk to him. I am very sensitive to the nuances of the discussion, though, and will cut it short if I feel he's taking the piss. Even if I don't want to sleep with someone, I'll happily meet and converse with new people... and part of that IS the hypocrisy thing. Who am I to judge people's personality/friendship potential on the basis of their looks?

But I still don't have to shag them just because they ask.

 

[vetskone]

I just have to ask....how many of the guys offering you pity fucks were fat guys with the hairy backs?

Most of them didn't have their shirts off, so I'm not sure about the hairy backs. The body shape varies - it's usually someone who's drunk enough to think they're fantastic and horny enough to ask anyone with tits. But mostly not fat/obviously hairy, no. Just... unappealing to me in their drunken "I don't want to know your name, but surely you're not in a position to say no" method of propositioning.

 

[Kalentros]

I'm not rude about talking to anybody, and I guess that's mostly my point. If I'm at a bar and some guy starts a conversation with me, I'll talk to him. I am very sensitive to the nuances of the discussion, though, and will cut it short if I feel he's taking the piss. Even if I don't want to sleep with someone, I'll happily meet and converse with new people... and part of that IS the hypocrisy thing. Who am I to judge people's personality/friendship potential on the basis of their looks?

But I still don't have to shag them just because they ask.

"Taking the piss"....I maybe opening myself up to a lot of interesting comments but I don't get that slang phrase. You really should have seen the mental image that popped into my head.

That was a better way to put it. Because your "Horny yes, deperate no" comment really came off as being judgemental while getting pissy about others being.

Now I'd actually have to sit down and have a conversation with you before I'd consider if I'd fuck you, but judging from the pictures I saw: I can definately say I'd want to. Pity has nothing to do with it. You're a good lookin' woman. After reading your posts I wouldn't consider it, though. *Shrugs*

Anyway, thanks for the clarification.

 

[zschachwitz]

"Taking the piss"....I maybe opening myself up to a lot of interesting comments but I don't get that slang phrase. You really should have seen the mental image that popped into my head.

"taking the piss" - from "english2american.com":

pissed adj. Drunk. We do not use it alone as a contraction of "pissed off", which means that Americans saying things like "I was really pissed with my boss at work today" leaves Brits wide-eyed. To go out on the piss is to venture out drinking. In what may well be a throwback to the US' use of the word, we use the phrase taking the piss to mean poking fun at someone.

 

[Kalentros]

"taking the piss" - from "english2american.com":

pissed adj. Drunk. We do not use it alone as a contraction of "pissed off", which means that Americans saying things like "I was really pissed with my boss at work today" leaves Brits wide-eyed. To go out on the piss is to venture out drinking. In what may well be a throwback to the US' use of the word, we use the phrase taking the piss to mean poking fun at someone.

When the hell are the English going to learn to speak it right?

*Shakes head*

 

[Guest]

When the hell are the English going to learn to speak it right?

*Shakes head*

I personally like:

spotted dick n. Okay, let's not get too much into this. "Spotted dick" is basically a sponge cake with raisins in it. And yes, we Brits do use "dick" to mean the same thing Americans do. And yes, we do think this pudding is pretty funny.

First time I heard my grandmother say that, I just about fell off my chair. lmao She of course, didn't understand what I was laughing so hard about.

And, by the way, thanks for the link zschachwitz...now maybe i can understand some of what my grandmother says!!!!

 

[visionskate]

hmm spoted dick eh...hehehe silly english