barefootgirl69
🧡 Wild Lil Cupcake
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Yeah...he knows I didn't mean it like you infer. This isn't that type of thread, for one. Our conversations are friendly and safe.Did someone say ... Blood flow....
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Yeah...he knows I didn't mean it like you infer. This isn't that type of thread, for one. Our conversations are friendly and safe.Did someone say ... Blood flow....
I will risk offending neither BFG nor her DD.... her counsel is far too valuable to mess up like that.Yeah...he knows I didn't mean it like you infer. This isn't that type of thread, for one. Our conversations are friendly and safe.
This is the very best ...Meme queen is at it again. This one really hit for me. In some ways, I'm so very strong, but in other ways I'm so very weak. Being His evens out the roughness of the day.
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Very fitting.Meme queen is at it again. This one really hit for me. In some ways, I'm so very strong, but in other ways I'm so very weak. Being His evens out the roughness of the day.
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For years, I struggled to be His equal in our marriage. Once he showed me that by giving up on the concept of equality and just being myself; playing to each other's strengths, that I could be so much happier and mentally healthier, I am finally on the path to being the woman I am meant to be. I'm finally being loved and cared for the way I deserve to be.This is the very best ...
I've recently been chatting with another switch... And it's just comfortable.... Not hard or rough or whatever, it's comfort were looking for, and I think that's part of the strength in a relationship
Giving up the concept of equality is the hardest, when you've been brought up that way. When all the society around is built on equality.For years, I struggled to be His equal in our marriage. Once he showed me that by giving up on the concept of equality and just being myself; playing to each other's strengths, that I could be so much happier and mentally healthier, I am finally on the path to being the woman I am meant to be. I'm finally being loved and cared for the way I deserve to be.
I think even though we are D/s or DD/lg, there is still equality in the relationship. We both contribute, it doesn't work if we don't. Our roles maybe opposites, but each must agree to and fulfill that role. With out that there is nothing.The most transformative lesson he has taught me is that, even though I can, I don’t always have to. In our relationship, I do what I am best at, he does what he is best at. But always, He is in charge.
I think thats where the equality lies though. The little accepts what the Daddy brings to the table. The Daddy inturn does the same for the little. Its not that each brings the same, its comes down to each providing that piece for the relationship.The question of equality is an important one. I think there should be equal respect, equal care, equal parts give and take. But the very nature of the roles we take on kind of make true equality impossible. At least in the sense that what each partner brings to the table is different.