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Jw75766 said:
Real communication takes time and effort. Likely a bit of empathy to a degree as well. It's setting aside personal pride, allowing for the possibility that you were wrong, approaching a situation open-minded and with full intent to find a workable solution even if it means hard work. It's being able to say, "I trust you with my heart and soul to present you with my honest feelings" and know that those words and emotions will be accepted, considered and respected.
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If it's something you aren't used to, it can be very uncomfortable at first. I find that the more I trust, the more I can open up. Communication doesn't always come easily, and we may not always "do it right" but learning and trying and continuing are all good things.
 
barefootgirl69 said:
I find that the more I trust, the more I can open up.
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This is totally normal.

I am relatively open communicator in a relationship by default. But I've learned that if I experience the other one reacting adversely to open communication, or ignoring me, it doesn't feel safe and even I shut up.

And then now, with a partner who makes it safe to open even the most vulnerable parts of myself, I find myself being still more open than ever before, compared to even good ex-partners.
 
Oh btw, I feel like having got an extra Yule present - I managed to ask my D to stay over unplanned, for the first time ever. He's of the slow and steady type, planning everything ahead , so this was a huge step. (I actually got some homework to write about ex tempore visits.)

The timing was very interesting hormonally... I may have been in heat for a few days, and it showed 🫣
 
barefootgirl69 said:
If it's something you aren't used to, it can be very uncomfortable at first. I find that the more I trust, the more I can open up. Communication doesn't always come easily, and we may not always "do it right" but learning and trying and continuing are all good things.
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It definitely is scary at first if you aren't sure how your openness will be received, or even just learning how to properly verbalize your emotions. It's something that needs to be learned from both partners but once that level of intimacy is achieved, it opens up a completely new level of comfort. Especially in the context of DD/lg.
 
Strixaluco said:
Happy Boxing Day!

Very classically we're visiting this day.
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https://i.ibb.co/9kxQQL8t/22a749.jpg

Some visits are not the classic ones , and yet
My daddy seems to quite appreciate
The fingers of His naughty little pet
That have been trained to make Sir's needs awake;

It's good that while he drinks in each caress
He let's me visit teases, so I toy
With his un-Christmas baubles and I bless
His sugar candy stick with warm, wet joy;

I could compose a carol but the mouth
Will soon be so engaged it cannot sing,
Of holy visits to the pole down south,
Where the holes Daddy most loves bring...

The wet flow Daddy-Sir enjoys a bit
With such seasonal joys and exercise
To refresh all the Daddy you'd deploy
To ensure visits like this energise...
 
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So, I found this, and it aligns with what I have discovered being in a 24/7 DD/lg. I found the rituals that she lists to be of particular importance now that we work together.

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“How do you switch off in a 24/7 D/s relationship?”

The truth is — you don’t really turn it off. You shift it.

Being a submissive or a Dominant isn’t like flipping a switch. It’s like juggling all the hats you wear in life. You might be a friend, a coworker, a parent, a partner… and someone in a D/s dynamic. Each role steps forward when it’s needed, while the others rest quietly in the background.

When you’re at work, your professional hat sits on top — but that doesn’t mean your D/s identity disappears. It’s still part of how you carry yourself, how you communicate, how you connect.
Even in 24/7 relationships, no one is “in protocol” all the time. What matters isn’t constant performance — it’s consistent presence.

You can create small rituals to help shift gears:
A morning message to check in.
A nightly phrase or gesture to reconnect.
Clear cues to mark when you’re stepping into another role.
You never stop being who you are — you just let another layer come forward for a while.

D/s isn’t something you turn off. It’s something you carry.
 
When a relationship is based upon such fundamental needs...safety, security, love, care...the practices related to it may well be suspended, set aside, or under another hat to use the excellent analogy above, but the needs themselves and all the feelings and thoughts pertaining to them must remain. Now, it will vary by individual and circumstance whether or not those thoughts and feelings are close to the surface, but they're always there, abiding.
 
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