Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Jw75766]

I saw this in @Chillygirl's thread and stole it.

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Real communication takes time and effort. Likely a bit of empathy to a degree as well. It's setting aside personal pride, allowing for the possibility that you were wrong, approaching a situation open-minded and with full intent to find a workable solution even if it means hard work. It's being able to say, "I trust you with my heart and soul to present you with my honest feelings" and know that those words and emotions will be accepted, considered and respected.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Real communication takes time and effort. Likely a bit of empathy to a degree as well. It's setting aside personal pride, allowing for the possibility that you were wrong, approaching a situation open-minded and with full intent to find a workable solution even if it means hard work. It's being able to say, "I trust you with my heart and soul to present you with my honest feelings" and know that those words and emotions will be accepted, considered and respected.

If it's something you aren't used to, it can be very uncomfortable at first. I find that the more I trust, the more I can open up. Communication doesn't always come easily, and we may not always "do it right" but learning and trying and continuing are all good things.

 

[Strixaluco]

I find that the more I trust, the more I can open up.

This is totally normal.

I am relatively open communicator in a relationship by default. But I've learned that if I experience the other one reacting adversely to open communication, or ignoring me, it doesn't feel safe and even I shut up.

And then now, with a partner who makes it safe to open even the most vulnerable parts of myself, I find myself being still more open than ever before, compared to even good ex-partners.

 

[Strixaluco]

Oh btw, I feel like having got an extra Yule present - I managed to ask my D to stay over unplanned, for the first time ever. He's of the slow and steady type, planning everything ahead , so this was a huge step. (I actually got some homework to write about ex tempore visits.)

The timing was very interesting hormonally... I may have been in heat for a few days, and it showed

 

[Jw75766]

If it's something you aren't used to, it can be very uncomfortable at first. I find that the more I trust, the more I can open up. Communication doesn't always come easily, and we may not always "do it right" but learning and trying and continuing are all good things.

It definitely is scary at first if you aren't sure how your openness will be received, or even just learning how to properly verbalize your emotions. It's something that needs to be learned from both partners but once that level of intimacy is achieved, it opens up a completely new level of comfort. Especially in the context of DD/lg.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

merry christmas, BFG.

 

[barefootgirl69]

merry christmas, BFG.

Merry Christmas, GA!

 

[CuriousRick]

Merry Christmas everyone

Cookieclaus is here to pass out cookies to all!!

 

[barefootgirl69]

Merry Christmas, CookieClaus.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Merry Christmas Daddies and littles.

 

[Littlewolf8258]

Merry Christmas everyone!

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Merry Christmas everyone

Cookieclaus is here to pass out cookies to all!!

Merry Christmas Cookieclaus, and everyone else!

 

[dreamysub]

Merry Christmas to all of you!!

 

[Strixaluco]

Happy Boxing Day!

Very classically we're visiting this day. Still decades ago 25th was not really appropriate for visiting anyone (except if it was really your family who'd you spent Xmas with),, but 26th is.