MoleskineScribbler
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Do it
Just do it then. Give yourself permission and do it.
Just do it then. Give yourself permission and do it.
HOW TO TELL...if you're a bi-curious man!
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SilverOkie
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If you know a gay guy or a bi-guy just go ahead and ask him if you can try it out to see if you like it. Do it and find out.
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that is the best way to do it, for many men they need a women to give them permission/encouragement to explore that part of them
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if your'e married and find yourself fantising about cock it can be kind of hard to just go out and get it. what is a man to do??
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When a guy walks into a room and you check out his crotch as he moves and then wonder how big his package is, you could be bi. 
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and check out his ass as he walks away, you could be biWhen a guy walks into a room and you check out his crotch as he moves and then wonder how big his package is, you could be bi.
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Absofuckinglutly.
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Difference between Bi and Gay
For me, it's most difficult to make someone (especially hetero men) understand why I'm bi and not gay. In my situation, I enjoy receiving anal sex A LOT. I love receiving BJ's, and I like to suck, but don't like to swallow. These are all gay sexual acts. However, I don't LOVE men. I don't want them to hold me or kiss me, my one partner (the only man I trust) loves kissing, so my rule is the neck down. He hates me for this, but he's gay and he loves me. I love women. I want to hold, kiss, cuddle, be romantic with women. I fuck men to fulfill sexual gratifications that woman can't provide. I'd be happy with a woman who is comfortable putting on a strap-on and giving it to me, but it's never the same as with a real cock. And I would miss sucking on one occasionally. This might be your situation as well, and why you are bi-curious. But I assure you, it's perfectly natural to want to fulfill all of your sexual gratification needs without going totally gay. Hope this helps a few struggling souls out there.
For me, it's most difficult to make someone (especially hetero men) understand why I'm bi and not gay. In my situation, I enjoy receiving anal sex A LOT. I love receiving BJ's, and I like to suck, but don't like to swallow. These are all gay sexual acts. However, I don't LOVE men. I don't want them to hold me or kiss me, my one partner (the only man I trust) loves kissing, so my rule is the neck down. He hates me for this, but he's gay and he loves me. I love women. I want to hold, kiss, cuddle, be romantic with women. I fuck men to fulfill sexual gratifications that woman can't provide. I'd be happy with a woman who is comfortable putting on a strap-on and giving it to me, but it's never the same as with a real cock. And I would miss sucking on one occasionally. This might be your situation as well, and why you are bi-curious. But I assure you, it's perfectly natural to want to fulfill all of your sexual gratification needs without going totally gay. Hope this helps a few struggling souls out there.
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Pussy
I could never give up pussy. But, I would like to pull a cock out of one and suck it.......just saying
I could never give up pussy. But, I would like to pull a cock out of one and suck it.......just saying
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That describes my feelings about 99%. Except I don't mind kissing a guy. And fucking a tight male ass, face to face, is the tightest, hottest fuck in the world. All the soft fun bits I enjoy on a woman don't get in the way when I want a lean tight man ass fuck.
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for me, it was just something I always thought about. I love pussy and tits, but I hate most of the bullshit that goes along with them.
I was 15 or 16 when I first saw the writing on the wall. Literally, the men's room wall. First, I thought girls snuck in and wrote that, but soon it dawned on me that they didn't. I struck a conversation with a young bbc. We talked for weeks, but never ever did anything. I was very image sensitive and from a strict baptist upbringing.
flash forward, 5 years. My mind is racing again. I always loved going into the mens room ad reading walls wherever I can. Finally, so over break I rent a bi porn. The rest is bi history
Joe
I was 15 or 16 when I first saw the writing on the wall. Literally, the men's room wall. First, I thought girls snuck in and wrote that, but soon it dawned on me that they didn't. I struck a conversation with a young bbc. We talked for weeks, but never ever did anything. I was very image sensitive and from a strict baptist upbringing.
flash forward, 5 years. My mind is racing again. I always loved going into the mens room ad reading walls wherever I can. Finally, so over break I rent a bi porn. The rest is bi history
Joe
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I've always figured I was 99.5% straight. I had a few experiences when I was much younger with a friend, but they weren't something I'd really come to terms with in defining my own sexuality. I was close to utterly passive in these encounters, and now I am beginning to regret my passivity.
My wife and I have been together for 11 years now... we actually met 11 years ago on the 29th. We're happily married, but I know she wishes I was a bit more... open to experimentation. I just tend to think that relationships are complicated enough without bringing other people into them. She's by nature polyamorous--I am not. Or so I've always believed.
Lately I've been revisiting this assumption. Though I'd have always been cool with inviting another woman into our bed, this really isn't something in which my wife has expressed any particular interest.
Both of us came into this thinking we were getting, perhaps, someone a bit more bisexual than the other turned out to be. Oddly enough, though, something has changed as of late. While it wasn't unusual for me to occasionally be interested in watching gay porn to get off, it's become something more than that. I'm starting to really like the idea of sharing the right guy with my wife.
Fact is I've been watching gay vids and thinking "This is about guys relating to one another in a totally different way." It's not about the bullshit macho posturing that has always put me off my gender. It can be slow and sexy, or hot and passionate. But it's real. A lot of the male/female or female/female porn out there is clearly staged, and over-directed , and isn't all that sexy because of it. This is two people doing what they're doing because they like it--not because it's just a job. For the most part, anyway.
So now I'm more curious than ever... And I find myself wondering how to bring the subject up again with my wife, to let her know something's changed. It's unsettling, but also exciting.
Sure... I can't have the stereotypical mid-life crisis. I have no interest in chasing younger women and I already own a sports car. Guess it's time to see what other kind of trouble I can get up to.
I've always figured I was 99.5% straight. I had a few experiences when I was much younger with a friend, but they weren't something I'd really come to terms with in defining my own sexuality. I was close to utterly passive in these encounters, and now I am beginning to regret my passivity.
My wife and I have been together for 11 years now... we actually met 11 years ago on the 29th. We're happily married, but I know she wishes I was a bit more... open to experimentation. I just tend to think that relationships are complicated enough without bringing other people into them. She's by nature polyamorous--I am not. Or so I've always believed.
Lately I've been revisiting this assumption. Though I'd have always been cool with inviting another woman into our bed, this really isn't something in which my wife has expressed any particular interest.
Both of us came into this thinking we were getting, perhaps, someone a bit more bisexual than the other turned out to be. Oddly enough, though, something has changed as of late. While it wasn't unusual for me to occasionally be interested in watching gay porn to get off, it's become something more than that. I'm starting to really like the idea of sharing the right guy with my wife.
Fact is I've been watching gay vids and thinking "This is about guys relating to one another in a totally different way." It's not about the bullshit macho posturing that has always put me off my gender. It can be slow and sexy, or hot and passionate. But it's real. A lot of the male/female or female/female porn out there is clearly staged, and over-directed , and isn't all that sexy because of it. This is two people doing what they're doing because they like it--not because it's just a job. For the most part, anyway.
So now I'm more curious than ever... And I find myself wondering how to bring the subject up again with my wife, to let her know something's changed. It's unsettling, but also exciting.
Sure... I can't have the stereotypical mid-life crisis. I have no interest in chasing younger women and I already own a sports car. Guess it's time to see what other kind of trouble I can get up to.
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searching for experience
I know I'm bi-curious, I think I am bi-sexual.
Women turn me on, all sorts of women, physically... but they have to have brains and compassion to turn me on romantically.
Men are another matter. I get along with a lot of men as acquaintances, but only a very few... um, three? as out right friends. I was sexually and emotionally abused by an older brother as a child which left me distrusting men in general and sexually, well, the two experiences I had with other men after that were less than good.
One guy was just tooo masculine, and his jockishness was a real turn off when we were actually in bed. He also kept trying to kiss my mouth, and that just does not turn me on with a guy.
The second guy just wanted to fuck me, no reciprocation, no concern that maybe I wanted something.
Number of cocks in mouth: 3; number of cocks in ass: 1. Number of men's mouths I've had my cock in: 2; number of men's asses I've been in: 1. The only one I've done it all with... my abuser.
But I think about it a lot. I really want to feel another cock in my mouth, to suck on it and swallow hot cum; I really want my cock in another man's mouth, to feel his lips and tongue loving my cock. I really want to fuck another man, his ass hot and tight on me, whimpering as I fuck him full of cum; and to feel a man on me, hot for my ass, fucking me until he can't hold back.
Sometimes I think I would be happiest with a pre-op trans... best of both worlds...
I know I'm bi-curious, I think I am bi-sexual.
Women turn me on, all sorts of women, physically... but they have to have brains and compassion to turn me on romantically.
Men are another matter. I get along with a lot of men as acquaintances, but only a very few... um, three? as out right friends. I was sexually and emotionally abused by an older brother as a child which left me distrusting men in general and sexually, well, the two experiences I had with other men after that were less than good.
One guy was just tooo masculine, and his jockishness was a real turn off when we were actually in bed. He also kept trying to kiss my mouth, and that just does not turn me on with a guy.
The second guy just wanted to fuck me, no reciprocation, no concern that maybe I wanted something.
Number of cocks in mouth: 3; number of cocks in ass: 1. Number of men's mouths I've had my cock in: 2; number of men's asses I've been in: 1. The only one I've done it all with... my abuser.
But I think about it a lot. I really want to feel another cock in my mouth, to suck on it and swallow hot cum; I really want my cock in another man's mouth, to feel his lips and tongue loving my cock. I really want to fuck another man, his ass hot and tight on me, whimpering as I fuck him full of cum; and to feel a man on me, hot for my ass, fucking me until he can't hold back.
Sometimes I think I would be happiest with a pre-op trans... best of both worlds...
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I've been a lurker for a long time on here, but only recently joined.
My two cents I suppose on this:
I'm a very happily married man, but I really enjoy fantasizing about a good cock every now and then. I don't enjoy them as I'm married and want to stay that way. However I do fantasize about it non-stop and even have a but plug I use to help me out in that way.
So what do I do? Well for me, I write about it. I've written a few bisexual stories and that helps me get it out of my system.
So here is a question actually... why is there no Bisexual category on Literotica?
Also, if there are any guys who want to chat about being bi... please let me know. I was fortunate enough before I married to spend a lot of time with a very well hung guy. and I still think about him all the time!
My two cents I suppose on this:
I'm a very happily married man, but I really enjoy fantasizing about a good cock every now and then. I don't enjoy them as I'm married and want to stay that way. However I do fantasize about it non-stop and even have a but plug I use to help me out in that way.
So what do I do? Well for me, I write about it. I've written a few bisexual stories and that helps me get it out of my system.
So here is a question actually... why is there no Bisexual category on Literotica?
Also, if there are any guys who want to chat about being bi... please let me know. I was fortunate enough before I married to spend a lot of time with a very well hung guy. and I still think about him all the time!
suffolkengland
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Hi WKD, I'm bi and don't mind chatting Not on here too often though and I don't do MSN. Maybe drop me a PM?
As for the original question- I've always toyed with my backside. Even as a teen while wanking and thinking about girls. Didn't think I was bi back then, but eventually the feeling of it got my curiosity and fantasies going.
My first all-the-way experience was with a bloke, a married neighbour.
Not on here too often though and I don't do MSN. Maybe drop me a PM?As for the original question- I've always toyed with my backside. Even as a teen while wanking and thinking about girls. Didn't think I was bi back then, but eventually the feeling of it got my curiosity and fantasies going.
My first all-the-way experience was with a bloke, a married neighbour.
SnowsDream
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I have always thought myself bi-curious, but to be honest, it's lady boy transexuals. I came across a Bailey Jay clip and fell in love with her. She is so sexy, and then I discovered I really like crossdressers but have yet to meet someone I want to chase. Anyone else come across this?
Something is in the combination of smooth skin, gorgeous hair, and a beautiful cock... I dunno
Something is in the combination of smooth skin, gorgeous hair, and a beautiful cock... I dunno
I agree, I like sucking cock more than receiving a BJ too.
suffolkengland
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Don't think you're the only one. When I first joined MM contact sites, I got lots of offers from guys who just wanted to meet, suck me off and then just leave! Nice enough for them, but where's the fun for me?
I've also met a few guys who say they never come from BJs. Maybe they were being nice and it was just my particular technique that was bad?
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