Long Distance Relationships

[Ladybird]

Oh Jenny....

Jenny your poem has a lot of depth... a lot of feeling.

Your heart is transparent hon.. I can see the longing and love it holds.

I had a LDR once.. a long time ago, before the magic of the internet. We had to rely on snail mail. I would hang around, waiting for the postie.... praying that he had a letter for me.

So I know how how it feels... most of the good stuff, but not enough. Now that you know that you share real love, it's time for it to become physical. Just to see and touch each other. And I know the pain of not being able too.

BUT.... I'm going out now to buy a lotto ticket.. and if it comes up... get ready to pack your bags girl!! You, oman and some other honorary Aussies will be winging your way over here!!

Love to you both...

 

[omahaman2]

jenny

jenny, my dearest love,your words are beautiful but they break my heart,i long for the day when i can hold you in my arms and show you how much i love you,that my words over these months have not just been words,today,has been bad for me too,since any pain felt by you is felt by me.im not able to use the language quite like you but i hope you know how i feel/if i could write you a poem,i would write one to show you how much i love you,how my words are not just words but my true honest feelings.how i too long for the day when we can remove the letters ld from our relationship,

seduxe,sorry buddy please dont type thoughts about my jenny that way.we love each other very deeply and we are destined to be together,our souls dancing to a song only we can hear our hearts swaying to the same beat. ladybird,i cant wait for you to win. it would be a dream fufilled for me to be with both jenny and my freinds from oz.hopefully,it wont be just a dream .jenny and i love you guys pardon the expression of guys but love you guys from oz.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Sigh....

Jenny your poem has a lot of depth... a lot of feeling.
Your heart is transparent hon.. I can see the longing and love it holds.
So I know how how it feels... most of the good stuff, but not enough. Now that you know that you share real love, it's time for it to become physical. Just to see and touch each other. And I know the pain of not being able too.
BUT.... I'm going out now to buy a lotto ticket.. and if it comes up... get ready to pack your bags girl!! You, oman and some other honorary Aussies will be winging your way over here!!
Love to you both...

Ohh Ladybird! The words to what I've been writing lately seem to leap out of my heart. Today (Thursday) was particularly tough for me.. and I know there will likely be more days like this. But it does pass, and I'm fortunate that I have the chance to release these feelings and share them with my friends.

I appreciate you and others sharing their personal experiences. It is comfort for the both of us to know that what we are going through seems to be a natural process.

And I so much appreciate your lotto aspirations!! I actually believe we're destined to meet up one fine day in Oz!

jenny, my dearest love,your words are beautiful but they break my heart,i long for the day when i can hold you in my arms and show you how much i love you,that my words over these months have not just been words,today,has been bad for me too,since any pain felt by you is felt by me....
how i too long for the day when we can remove the letters ld from our relationship...

My wonderful Oman.... your words ARE poetry to me. Our feelings are definitely coming from the same place! I'm not glad to hear you share my hurt, but I understand. Thanks for your understanding, your endless support and encouragement, and your love. I love you too.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Bump

Had a nice time going out Friday night. The bad thing is I missed my early morning time with my LDR.

Oman... have a great day and we'll meet up again later! I love you!

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[ShamelessFlirt]

Fast forward to some time of undetermined length in the future, Jenny and Oman have been married long enough to be Grandparents. They've been acknowledged by Guiness as the only couple to never get into an arguement through out the length of their relationship (with the exception of who loves whom more). Though they're on in years they can both boast good health. All holidays and special occasions are spent surrounded by family and friends. There are no financial worries since winning the lottery shortly after Oman moved to NY to marry Jenny.

Closeup on a fire burning brightly in their mansion.
Fade to black





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[JennyOmanHill]

What a thought!

Fast forward to some time of undetermined length in the future, Jenny and Oman have been married long enough to be Grandparents. They've been acknowledged by Guiness as the only couple to never get into an arguement through out the length of their relationship (with the exception of who loves whom more). Though they're on in years they can both boast good health. All holidays and special occasions are spent surrounded by family and friends. There are no financial worries since winning the lottery shortly after Oman moved to NY to marry Jenny.
Closeup on a fire burning brightly in their mansion.
Fade to black
this message brought to you by Miss Cleo courtesy of BET entertainment

I like the parts about "jenny and oman", "lottery", "good health", "family and friends", "fire burning" and "mansion"! Miss Cleo's been trying to reach me for months! Say hi from me, okay??

 

[stargirl32]

LDR

Hi jenny and oman .. we've met in the tub a few times,
I just had to write to wish you the best of luck ... I really do hope it works out for you both.. I sort of understand what your going through... But in my case I know it would never work out.. So iam taking what I can and tresureing every single moment we have,,, I just want him to be happy,, in know it wont be with me... Theres no way it would work,,even if I was a free as a bird.. I wrote this poem .. I hope you like it
..
IF ONLY...
If only I could stop time
Or stretch it some how
Make a second last a minute
A minute last a hour
An hour lasts a whole day
Then my short time with you would last for the rest of my life
And my life for eternity
An eternity of heaven in your arms




We would be joined together as one
Experiencing flesh on flesh
Your soul mixed with mine
Our mingled breath as one breath
Our hearts beating fast as one heart
When you entered my body for me time would stop for an instant
And I'd wish for it to never start again
Then you'd move,
time would start.
waves of pleasure would wash over me
Sending our souls spiralling towards the stars

To circle the universe for eternity......

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Re: LDR

Hi jenny and oman .. we've met in the tub a few times,
I just had to write to wish you the best of luck ... I really do hope it works out for you both.. I sort of understand what your going through... But in my case I know it would never work out.. So iam taking what I can and tresureing every single moment we have,,, I just want him to be happy,, in know it wont be with me... Theres no way it would work,,even if I was a free as a bird.. I wrote this poem .. I hope you like it

Stargirl, your poem is so beautiful! It does indeed capture so many feelings I have with my time spent with Oman. We try and treasure each moment together, and fortunately have something positive to head towards... meeting each other early in the new year. (Is it February yet?)

Thank you for sharing!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Special Moments

I have learned throughout this LDR experience to treasure the moments, however big or small, spent "connected" to Oman.

As the midnight hour approached (in MY time zone!) for December 18th, and my birthday commenced, I was able to hear him tell me "happy birthday" and those wonderful words "I love you". What a fabulous gift! My "new" year is certainly getting off to a great start! Thank you, Oman. I love you too.

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[digger51]

Star......your poem is so beautiful

and so well puts into words what LJ and I feel online
ty so very much

and Jenny.............I am so glad you were able to start your day in that way
I know how a moment like that can make your whole day glow........and I hope that is the way your day has been

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Star......your poem is so beautiful
and so well puts into words what LJ and I feel online
ty so very much
and Jenny.............I am so glad you were able to start your day in that way
I know how a moment like that can make your whole day glow........and I hope that is the way your day has been

Thank you again, digger, and yes... Star's poem worded things so touchingly!

My day is continuing to be full of love and best wishes from so many directions! And it's only 4PM!

 

[Guest]

Taking Heart

Sweet Jenny & Oman ....it makes me smile to know so many of us think of you both that way....it has been so warming to read this thread. Thank you for starting it.

For us, for digger and I (if I may speak for you too darling), it has been an inspiration and an eye-opener. Even the posts that can be construed as negative are constructive; warning as they do of the pitfalls.

Helping you both look forward to the day you meet. Know and be certain that your joy is just beginning.

 

[LadyJayne]

Taking Heart (2)

OK, OK....so the previous post came up as from someone called 'Unregistered'.....so it's my first posting. Sorry.

Kisses Jenny

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Thanks LJ!

OK, OK....so the previous post came up as from someone called 'Unregistered'.....so it's my first posting. Sorry.
Kisses Jenny

What a honor, dear Lady Jayne, to have your intial post in this thread! Welcome to the boards! What a day this has been here; you posting your first, and Oman losing his virginity! Thank you both!

I have indeed learned a lot from posting here, and it's comforting to know there are many of us "out there"!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Mixed emotions

Had a wonderful birthday: great friends, drinks, presents, very many greetings (on and offline). Such a wonderful day!

Lots of laughs, smiles, a few tears. Throughout the entire evening, however, I felt incomplete. Missed Oman so much! Hope it's the last birthday I spend without him sharing each second with me.

 

[stargirl32]

wow thanks guys .. ( there now follows a short add break for more of stargirls work )) liked what you read find more like this at literotica.com/storys..... lol under the name of nebula 33.. now you will find two of her but dont panic there both me lol

jenny iam glad your b day went ok i was thinking about you babe ... bye for now

 

[lovetoread]

Geez who knew this thread would still be going?

I have met my ldr and will do so again next month. He is wonderful and the most important thing to me. I wish everyone a Happy Holiday,and that includes your partners too.

 

[Spanktress]

Jenny
Sorry I wasnt online 'closer' to your birthday to send my best wishes..altho it does seem you didnt need them
This thread has helped me (even tho the last week I've been very depressed!) to realise that distance is only a physical barrier & there are no barriers for the emotional & heartfelt.
I may not catch you or Oman online before... so all the best to you both for a Merry Christmas (Jenny, get that grin off your face!!!!) & a wonderful 2002.

*~* Spanks *~*

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Big Grins

Jenny
Sorry I wasnt online 'closer' to your birthday to send my best wishes..altho it does seem you didnt need them
This thread has helped me (even tho the last week I've been very depressed!) to realise that distance is only a physical barrier & there are no barriers for the emotional & heartfelt.
I may not catch you or Oman online before... so all the best to you both for a Merry Christmas (Jenny, get that grin off your face!!!!) & a wonderful 2002.
*~* Spanks *~*

Thank you for your birthday wishes (I've decided to celebrate it until Xmas!!)

Glad that keeping this thread alive seems to have helped others as much as it has helped me! So sorry to hear how rough it's been for you. Just remember distance is not stopping us from sharing in each other's joys and sorrows. There is a bond here at Lit that allows us the forum to share and reach out for a hug once in a while, bringing a lot of us closer together.

Hugggggss Spanks! Try and have a Merry One and we'll ALL have a better year soon! Yes, I'm STILL grinning!

Very happy to hear you'll be together again during the holidays, Lovetoread! Enjoy every second.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Sigh....

Another sleepless night.
Rain drizzling against the windows.
Xmas Eve... where did the time go?

Trying not to think of NOT being with those I love this Xmas. Missing the snowy holidays of my childhood; remembering trying hard to fall asleep because Santa wouldn't arrive if I stayed awake.

Christmas shopping (last minute, of course!), showering the people in my life with gifts that would light up their faces.

Losing loved ones throughout the last two years, but realizing they are still somehow "with" me. Last year's Christmas with my family in Arizona was so comforting. Enjoying so many hours sharing stories, riding through the streets at night (Arizona nights are wonderful!) enjoying the holiday lights. Giving me hope that 2001 would be a new start for me.

And yet, a year later, things are somehow just as bad. Where did the time go? Where is the new job? So many dreams for so many people changed in a single day in September. Life will always be different now, but my heart has found a strength that I didn't know was there.

So I choose to focus on the blessings that have come to me through this lonely, scary year. My friends are STILL fine and still in my life. Plus I have met many new friends right here at Lit; friends from all over the world! I've become an honorary "aussie" and a "Lit Guru"! I am writing again, something I had lost interest in the last few years.

And I am in love! Who thought a visit to a chat site would allow me to meet the man I was waiting for? He has already seen me at my best and at my worst. Our love grows stronger as each day passes, and I do not take his friendship, his caring or his love for granted. His love allows me to want to straighten up my life, and his support is there, even on days I can't get going.

Oman is my LDR, and the reason I started this thread. We both appreciate all the advice, support and comfort you other "couples" have shared with us.

It will certainly be hard for Oman and I to try and celebrate this holiday season apart from each other. My wish would be for all the "couples" here to be together this week, whether online or in each other's arms.

Merry Christmas everyone!

 

[espressolover]

Hi

Happiest of Holidays to you and Oman too, jenny!!

Yes, we are all a bit different since 9/11. But I really do think that it was a wake-up call. I know that I will never take anything for granted again. I always tell my friends and family "I love you", no matter what our petty little differences are...we never know if we will get another chance.

This year I have met a wonderful man online as you know.
We have yet to meet...we have been going thru some rough times lately...but I believe maybe we are finally coming out the other side. Maybe...keeping my fingers and toes and eyes crossed...lol...I am praying that we have.

We had a short, short talk last evening, due to his work problems.
But it was very warm and nice...not the cold there tht i have felt recently.
So, i have much to be thankful for...and of course my new friends at Lit!!! You guys are great.

Take care and best wishes and prayers
espressolover

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

Corn for the holidays

It will certainly be hard for Oman and I to try and celebrate this holiday season apart from each other. My wish would be for all the "couples" here to be together this week, whether online or in each other's arms.

Merry Christmas everyone!

I know you don't need me to tell you that you guys aren't apart. One mind, one heart. So if you feel lonely or bleak, simply look within. It may be all you have for the moment, but knowing the eventuality of it can only make your heart beat that much faster.

Happy Holidays!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Merry Christmas

I know you don't need me to tell you that you guys aren't apart. One mind, one heart. So if you feel lonely or bleak, simply look within. It may be all you have for the moment, but knowing the eventuality of it can only make your heart beat that much faster.
Happy Holidays!

Once again, Flirt, your words are the right ones for me at this moment. Oman is indeed in my heart, all the time, and we already have made "memories" to connect us in our time apart.

Good to hear from you again espressolover. Sorry to hear about the rough spots, but as Oman has reminded me recently, how can we really enjoy the good times if there aren't a few few bad ones thrown in. It's been a stressful one for many of us, but Flirt's words can help you as well at this time.

Hang in there, and have as happy a holiday as possible!

 

[SusieB]

I am marrying my long distance love of four years this January 13, and couldn't be happier. He is in Toronto, and I am in California. We have had a few small bumps in the road, like who is going to eventually move where, but for the most part our love is better than ever. We talk CONSTANTLY, and have the phone bills to prove it (800/month between us), but it never feels like he is far away. Some times when we are having a heated discussion, we go back to "chat mode" and type our words instead of speaking them. Somehow that takes a bit of the tension away and reminds us how far we've come. It will be pretty weird when we're on the sofa together with our laptops in netmeeting typing, though. We are both very open about our flirtations and attraction, so trust has never been an issue for us. It's hard to cheat with a phone pressed up to your ear, unless his lover doesn't mind staying quiet while we talk for three hours every night. We met in person very quickly after our original contact in chat, so that made it "real" for us right away. I would feel silly investing too much of myself in a love before knowing if there was true chemistry in real life.

 

[espressolover]

jenny

Thank you soo much for that!

Life has it's ups and downs..you guys are right..it makes us appreciate the great moments.

Thanks you guys, you're great!!
And, may I add, a great comfort as well.

espressolover