If you're getting covered in cum, then the cummer ought to be ok with squirting. IMOThe fear of letting go and whether someone really wants all of it is what holds me back.
But I'm talking about squirting and you're talking about kids, so I don't know if we're on the same page
Well then use your words woman! You did not say oh I squirt and it makes a mess. You said you agreed with sassy and she mentioned a mess. My saying something about having kids is that it is messy af and if you could do that then no mess made during sex should be an issue.The fear of letting go and whether someone really wants all of it is what holds me back.
But I'm talking about squirting and you're talking about kids, so I don't know if we're on the same page
Thank you!
I'm a hypocrite. I want all his mess. But none of mine. But there is a difference. Men's messes aren't mixed with pee.
Less messy as long as you don't look over the curtain.
That was the mess I was referring to also.
Hmm. So, I don't squirt(in any kind of huge spray or way I’d be embarrassed about) so I can't comment on that but I also don't “pee” when I orgasm but I can get very wet. It just doesn't bother me. I celebrate it.I'm a hypocrite. I want all his mess. But none of mine. But there is a difference. Men's messes aren't mixed with pee.
I think the only way I could ever truly let go would be to be tied up. Part of being able to hold back comes from the positions and the movements. The more I can wiggle around. The easier to hold back. Don't get me wrong. I'd love to experience that. To totally let go. But insecurity stops me.
And my babies came from my belly. Not vaginally
I cannot orgasm in water. I've tried. On a ledge I'm not sure. It's a in my head thing.
OMG Sassy. Remember one time we were talking about this and I accidentally texted my mother-in-law a very detailed response instead of you?!?I'm a hypocrite. I want all his mess. But none of mine. But there is a difference. Men's messes aren't mixed with pee.
I think the only way I could ever truly let go would be to be tied up. Part of being able to hold back comes from the positions and the movements. The more I can wiggle around. The easier to hold back. Don't get me wrong. I'd love to experience that. To totally let go. But insecurity stops me.
And my babies came from my belly. Not vaginally
That's why you take a shower together afterwards!
haha I had totally forgotten about that. But I do remember now.OMG Sassy. Remember one time we were talking about this and I accidentally texted my mother-in-law a very detailed response instead of you?!?
I do not squirt from a Clitoral orgasm. Has to be penetrative. He has to hit the right spot. So yes. If he fails. I can have sex without squirting. But once that spot is triggered. Watch the fuck out. It keeps happening with every touch. Penetration wise. I can't control it. Maybe it is because I don't focus as hard on trying to stop it. I don't worry as much about it when his head/mouth isn't involved. I am sure that a huge part of my issue is mental. Again, why I'd be curious about being tied up and somewhat forced to let go. Blindfold me so I can't see you looking at my embarrassed face and whoo hooo let the fun begin.
Oops...OMG Sassy. Remember one time we were talking about this and I accidentally texted my mother-in-law a very detailed response instead of you?!?
I will never forget. Unfortunately, I doubt neither will she.haha I had totally forgotten about that. But I do remember now.
Yes! You are correct. WebMD for the win …very interesting.
If you watch squirters in porn. That is not me. I do not shoot across the room. If I compared it's feeling it would be like peeing during sex.
Hopefully she ends up with a bad memory and you can just tell her it had to be someone else.I will never forget. Unfortunately, I doubt neither will she.
I'm all ears
Oh that woman hates me with a passion and holds grudges for life. She won't forget haha.Hopefully she ends up with a bad memory and you can just tell her it had to be someone else.
My hang up too. I don't want to pee on my partners faceSee...I feel like those that say it's not pee just don't want to admit they're peeing on their partners.
Because I would love to say it's not pee. And honestly, it doesn't look or smell like it either. I always pee before sex so my bladder is empty. But study after study show that the make up of a squirting orgasm is urine, so I'll side with science even if I don't wanna.
From what I’ve read (which I will admit is not super extensive, but at least several articles), it’s not exactly peeing, but the ejaculate will mix with any liquid that’s in the bladder at the time. Unless we are being crazy spontaneous, I always pee before sex. And mine has never smelled like urine, either.See...I feel like those that say it's not pee just don't want to admit they're peeing on their partners.
Because I would love to say it's not pee. And honestly, it doesn't look or smell like it either. I always pee before sex so my bladder is empty. But study after study show that the make up of a squirting orgasm is urine, so I'll side with science even if I don't wanna.
Well maybe it made her think of the boringness of her own sex life
