Pmann discusses Lit Economics- Demand for P vs V

[Bbl87]

That all said, I think what this really highlights is that even at a place like Lit, it can be hard (snicker, I'm 12, yes) to make a connection. People are, generally, somewhat picky. Although as noted above, many "new comers" (snicker) are often less picky, until they've gotten over the first few times. (and I fear that some people pray on that...).

I also think there is often a difficult in finding "the right fit." In my (very limited) experience, I've only once or twice found someone kind of "at the right place" for where I was. (didn't stop me from other things, but...you know....). And even then, it was relatively short lived.

I think you're pretty on point.

I think most people who (for me) are worth trying to connect with are relatively picky. I'm generally looking for more than just a one-time talk dirty chat, which I think kind of shapes that. I just generally like getting to know people, if that leads to "fun" GREAT but I don't go in expecting that. Not everyone has the same mindset, though.

And I think finding someone who is at a similar point, or at least one the compliments what you're looking for is definitely part of the trick. But, there are people I still talk to where we weren't at complimentary points but still get along well as friends, so it's not a complete deal breaker just might not go where I/we originally thought.

 

[Bbl87]

I can’t say for certain, but I’m pretty sure there are more men than women on Lit. I think the difference is that the women are more likely to interact in an open, non-sexual way on the forum whilst there are a large number of guys anonymously spamming their PMs with dick pics.

Might be onto something. Like I referenced, I'm guessing she's referring to "quality" male suitors.

I'm curious of the proportion of messages the ladies receive on here that are dick pics/creepy/crude vs polite.

 

[Rapharider]

Might be onto something. Like I referenced, I'm guessing she's referring to "quality" male suitors.

I'm curious of the proportion of messages the ladies receive on here that are dick pics/creepy/crude vs polite.

Oh yes, if we’re talking “quality” then that’s a very different matter!

As to your question, I fear the answer may make for rather depressing reading.

 

[Bbl87]

Oh yes, if we’re talking “quality” then that’s a very different matter!

As to your question, I fear the answer may make for rather depressing reading.

True statement.

With women I've gotten to know on here, I always like to ask what the worst ones they've seen are. My favorite one I was recently told about was a guy who had his dick completely tatted up. She was like, I'm sure he thought it made him look tough or something, but it just looked f'ing diseased. She added most of them she gets are just kinda sad. She was like, if you're going to lead with it, at least have something impressive, haha.

 

[Rapharider]

I’ve had some pretty unusual unsolicited PMs in the past. They were all from men, who also knew I was a guy.

Perhaps I give off a bit of a metrosexual vibe?

 

[Bbl87]

I’ve had some pretty unusual unsolicited PMs in the past. They were all from men, who also knew I was a guy.

Perhaps I give off a bit of a metrosexual vibe?

Not just you, been there as well. Hence my tag line under my name now. Even with that, though, I've received messages from guys who wanted to talk about me and their wives.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Regardless, I appreciate your view. It's enlightening. Oh...and you're clearly high end pussy, if you ask me!

well thank you. I do try to keep myself high class

 

[Bbl87]

well thank you. I do try to keep myself high class

I don't think you could be anything else.

 

[MedicalMuse]

I don't think you could be anything else.

Whatever lol

 

[MedicalMuse]

Not just you, been there as well. Hence my tag line under my name now. Even with that, though, I've received messages from guys who wanted to talk about me and their wives.

I wondered about this. It makes me laugh a little more now

 

[Bbl87]

I wondered about this. It makes me laugh a little more now

Ya, it was suggested to me by a friend on here. I mean, it has worked, so I can't fault her logic.

 

[Rapharider]

I think I’m going to change my tagline to “Straight but loves cock”. That should elicit some interesting action in my inbox.

 

[NC_Coastal]

I get a lot of "show me your wife" among other things. #eyeroll

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I can’t say for certain, but I’m pretty sure there are more men than women on Lit. I think the difference is that the women are more likely to interact in an open, non-sexual way on the forum whilst there are a large number of guys anonymously spamming their PMs with dick pics.

Then there's those who post photos in cycling gear and send a whole sub genre of women nuts

 

[Tallulah82]

It seems the women tend to get "committed" quickly.

That all said, I think what this really highlights is that even at a place like Lit, it can be hard (snicker, I'm 12, yes) to make a connection. People are, generally, somewhat picky. Although as noted above, many "new comers" (snicker) are often less picky, until they've gotten over the first few times. (and I fear that some people pray on that...).

I also think there is often a difficult in finding "the right fit." In my (very limited) experience, I've only once or twice found someone kind of "at the right place" for where I was. (didn't stop me from other things, but...you know....). And even then, it was relatively short lived.

I've done the 'commitment' thing, I've done the fast and loose thing. I'm probably considered easy by most because of the way I post.

But whether I find someone for a one-time thing, or it's naturally evolved from lots of time spent chatting, the bottom line for me is that it's my choice and so as long as I'm always upfront about who I am and what I want, then I don't care if I'm judged by others to be on the sliding scale of boutiqueness.


Also, my pussy is heaven and I always getting begging letters from the one-time dudes

 

[Rapharider]

Then there's those who post photos in cycling gear and send a whole sub genre of women nuts

It was the pink floral jersey, wasn’t it?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It was the pink floral jersey, wasn’t it?

Indeed it was. Guys who can rock skin tight florals are special

 

[Rapharider]

Indeed it was. Guys who can rock skin tight florals are special

When your cock is less boutique and more scrapyard, it’s a good distraction technique.

 

[Bbl87]

I've done the 'commitment' thing, I've done the fast and loose thing. I'm probably considered easy by most because of the way I post.

But whether I find someone for a one-time thing, or it's naturally evolved from lots of time spent chatting, the bottom line for me is that it's my choice and so as long as I'm always upfront about who I am and what I want, then I don't care if I'm judged by others to be on the sliding scale of boutiqueness.


Also, my pussy is heaven and I always getting begging letters from the one-time dudes

I think I've come to a happy medium between the two. I'm not looking for an e-commitment, but I'm also not looking to just have one off fun. Be open about what you're looking for, be friendly, things tend to work OK. I think there are a fair number of people who pretend to commit as well.

And I'm sure it is, and are so kind to bestow its heavenliness upon those who earn it.

 

[Tallulah82]

I think I've come to a happy medium between the two. I'm not looking for an e-commitment, but I'm also not looking to just have one off fun. Be open about what you're looking for, be friendly, things tend to work OK. I think there are a fair number of people who pretend to commit as well.

And I'm sure it is, and are so kind to bestow its heavenliness upon those who earn it.

Nah, man. You don't need to earn it. Just take a ticket and be patient.

 

[Bbl87]

Nah, man. You don't need to earn it. Just take a ticket and be patient.

Patience is a virtue, I suppose.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Also, my pussy is heaven and I always getting begging letters from the one-time dudes

What about begging letters from no time dudes??? hunh????

Nah, man. You don't need to earn it. Just take a ticket and be patient.

And this is where I'm going to fail...I have no patients....

 

[Tallulah82]

What about begging letters from no time dudes??? hunh????

And this is where I'm going to fail...I have no patients....

Those only tend to happen when I post shit about taking tickets... oops!

I'm not even going to begin about my sexy nurse outfit here because that also instigates the letters. smh

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Then there's those who post photos in cycling gear and send a whole sub genre of women nuts

Right???
Or in a suit wearing very sexy glasses.
He definitely belongs on the high end list.

 

[Bbl87]

I'm not even going to begin about my sexy nurse outfit here because that also instigates the letters. smh

I mean, you can't just post something like that... But I'm not going to message you... I'm onto your game...