The Grass Is Always Greener...

[southerntierguy]

Happy Valentine's Day to all my regular posters here (and lurkers if there are any)​

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mrtnmoon, southerntierguy, wildfyre, spyro1123, tolyk, ocean goddess & it_matters ​

Hope you had a good evening, my guess is you did ... thanks for the well wishes. Sorry I missed seeing you here.

 

[fade2blue]

Hi again MG!
Just a quickie to wish you a (late, I know ) happy V-day. Hope you had a great day (and night).

Been a while since I was on - just being busy r/l..... But hope that you're doing OK.
See you soon

 

[OceanGoddess]

Happy Valentine's Day to all my regular posters here (and lurkers if there are any)​

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mrtnmoon, southerntierguy, wildfyre, spyro1123, tolyk, ocean goddess & it_matters ​

Aaaaaaw, thanks MG!! And to you, too, if a few days late . . .I hope you got a large dose of Valentine's Day medicine.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Good evening everyone.How are you all?

 

[tolyk]

Good evening everyone.How are you all?

Oh, about the same as always, thanks You?

 

[BHill93]

I miss the girl I just lost. I was so in love with her. We were supposed to get married. I guess that just happens. I miss her smile, her smell, her love, everything. I miss her. =*(

 

[sauron316]

Well...

I can say i am single now but i lost the wife i h ad in november,after 4 years of marriage and a 2 and a half year old son she tells me she is still in love with the exe boyfriend....so of course i left she took me for everything i was worth and now i a rebuilding my life.She is picking up guys and still has custody of the child,so i don't know whats gonna happen but yea...

 

[interesteddad]

wondering

Im wondering how green the grass really is on the other site. tempted to try

 

[montrealgirl]

Aaaaaaw, thanks MG!! And to you, too, if a few days late . . .I hope you got a large dose of Valentine's Day medicine.

Hey OG,

Well, you know me...I do a pretty fair job keeping myself properly medicated

Hope you are enjoying your weekend...

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

The grass HAS to be greener.Just has to be.

 

[montrealgirl]

Welcome BHill93, sauron316 and interesteddad...thanks for sharing with us

 

[montrealgirl]

Just thought I would take this opportunity to gloat about my weekend. Last week I had 3 midterms. LLeaving school behiind, my girlfriend Alex and I left Montreal yesterday for the Eastern townships where we checked into a 4-star hotel. We spent the evening eating junk food, lounging in our matching Queen beds and watching the Olympics (we are both Olympic-philes).

We then went swimming and relaxed in the jacuzzi.

So far today we have drank tea, read books, watched the Canada/Swiss hockey game (which is fun because she is from Switzerland). Now she decided to read some more, and I decided to catch up on Lit.

In about 10 minutes we are heading for the Hotal Spa, where we will have a Turkish bath, relax in the Finnish sauna, followed by cocoa body wraps.

Then we are going to return to our room and order in Pizza Hut to top off our day of slothishness in full style.

I love mini-vacations....oui, ca fait du bien!

 

[mrtnmoon]

Just thought I would take this opportunity to gloat about my weekend. Last week I had 3 midterms. LLeaving school behiind, my girlfriend Alex and I left Montreal yesterday for the Eastern townships where we checked into a 4-star hotel. We spent the evening eating junk food, lounging in our matching Queen beds and watching the Olympics (we are both Olympic-philes).

We then went swimming and relaxed in the jacuzzi.

So far today we have drank tea, read books, watched the Canada/Swiss hockey game (which is fun because she is from Switzerland). Now she decided to read some more, and I decided to catch up on Lit.

In about 10 minutes we are heading for the Hotal Spa, where we will have a Turkish bath, relax in the Finnish sauna, followed by cocoa body wraps.

Then we are going to return to our room and order in Pizza Hut to top off our day of slothishness in full style.

I love mini-vacations....oui, ca fait du bien!

might it be too much to hope for a little girl-on-girl dessert?

nice to hear you're having such a wonderful time.

 

[montrealgirl]

might it be too much to hope for a little girl-on-girl dessert?

nice to hear you're having such a wonderful time.

Well the baths and sauna were very soothing. We even ran outside in -36 degree weather, in our bikinis to sit in the rooftop hot tub. Our eyebrows froze and we had ice forming on our eyelashes. It was fun though!

We were then covered in hot chocolate and wrapped up in plastic and blankets for 30 minutes, following by another jacuzzi bath. We smell fantastic and both admitted that sliding around in hot chocolate was quite the stimulate (ok, we are both downright randy. Too bad my normal chocolate stimulate is one hour away in Montreal), but we are now in our seperate beds with little chance of the dessert you mention.

 

[crazycatt]

Been meaning to post to this one for awhile now, made sure I performed a suitable ritual of introspection first. Been single since aug of 01 and likely to remain that way for some time to come. Partially because my nature seems to prefer the independence but also because of my career. Just way too darn occupied... little hiatus now until I start my new job in march and then I'll return to a life without time for a life. :Þ

I was engaged to the last girl I was with, and somewhere along the line we just stopped trying... but I think it's for the better things worked out the way they did. So anyway, the top three things I miss about her:

1) The little thoughfulnesses - I miss the little gifts she would get me, totally out of the blue. I miss being able to walk by her while she was doing something... like concentrating on some design or whatever and, without having to say anything, just touch her or kiss her neck (which she would lean into it was really cute) to let her know I was around. I miss the candlelight dinner she set up for us at a nice club, the song she requested for us to dance to before I even showed up or knew we were going to have a 'special night'. The unexpected, thoughtful things were the best.

2) Her kinkiness - Ladies, any of you who wish their men were a little more adventurous sexually, I think I can honestly say you'd be surprised. Do you know what a man's greatest fear is in a relationship? That you'll leave him for someone 'better than him'. It is the unbearable thought. And when he isn't sure how you'll take some of his 'wilder' desires he'll simply not say anything. Well, this girl and I found we were able to explore our naughter selves... er, with great relish in fact. And (obviously) I miss that...

3) As final evidence of my utter sappiness - I miss breathing for her. I came to notice that she often had trouble sleeping at night, and I tried things like telling her stories and singing to her (which I'm pretty darn sure was the cause of many of her nightmares)... and I finally figured out what worked. If I lay close to her and just breathed for awhile... evenly and deeply, she would fall asleep like that. Just the fact that she needed me for something so simple and dumb made me feel important.

So, is that longwinded enough?

edit: Oh, and as a bonus *missme* I miss her ass. She had a fine, fine ass! If we were walking around together I would sometimes pretend to tie my shoe or stop to "look at something", she'd walk ahead a bit... and I would just totally check her out.

 

[crazycatt]

does anyone else ever feel begin to feel a slightly uneasy embarrassment after making the last post in a thread.. ? or is that just me?

I wonder what other superhero powers I can unleash besides "death-like awe"

 

[mrtnmoon]

does anyone else ever feel begin to feel a slightly uneasy embarrassment after making the last post in a thread.. ? or is that just me?

I wonder what other superhero powers I can unleash besides "death-like awe"

yeah... there are plenty of times I've felt like a thread killer. for what it's worth, I thought your post was nice.... it kind of reminded me of the way I think about someone and the things I miss about her. I'm sorry things didn't work out for you.

 

[crazycatt]

yeah... there are plenty of times I've felt like a thread killer. for what it's worth, I thought your post was nice.... it kind of reminded me of the way I think about someone and the things I miss about her. I'm sorry things didn't work out for you.

tis cool. I certainly don't miss the fighting that seemed to define the relationship at the end... she wasn't someone who spent a lot of time between relationships, and I *think* she carried around a lot of previous hurts and such. in the end I want to be with someone who wants to be with me rather than someone who needs to be with someone. if that makes any sense

 

[gingermango]

Aaaaaaw, thanks MG!! And to you, too, if a few days late . . .I hope you got a large dose of Valentine's Day medicine.

OceanGoddess - tried to PM you today but your box is full dear! Give me a yell sometime again.