The Grass Is Always Greener...

[spyro1123]

It is so nice to be followed

Yup, spooning was the inspiration for this thread...I was laying in bed one morning and really wished I had someone there to push up against me...yup, sure is no substitute....

yeah, i have a lot of pillows and i cuddle up with them, but there is something missing, like breathing and.... breasts

I like your new av, makes me think you are going to crawl up into my lap then procede to devour me.

Oh another thing i miss being single, is not having someone to think up creative and sexy things to do with, for or to them. that is part of the insperation for my new pics thread

 

[montrealgirl]

Hi MG,

No, or at least I've never brought it up, though she may have inferred it from snippets of overheard conversation between my college buddies and I. If she does know, she hasn't said anything. Similarly, we haven't talked about my urges either, though I don't know that there's much point in making her paranoid or suspicious. As far as I know, every guy goes through something similar. You find the person who makes you happy, but there's eye candy everywhere, and eventually you're going to look, undress him or her with your eyes, and maybe fantasize further. Hell, I'd guess most women look at men they find attractive and have thoughts as well. I chalk it up to human nature - as long as you adhere to the 'look but don't touch' rule, it isn't such a big deal as long as you're discrete in allowing your gaze to meander.

With my gf, it's easy for these things not to come up because she has no interest at all in talking about her past experiences or boyfriends, and so she doesn't ask about mine, and that suits me just fine.

ttyl

Thanks XCal for following up...I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on the subject...and good luck with the girlfriend!

 

[montrealgirl]

I guess I'm in the enviable position where my wife doesn't mind me flirting as long as she can too. With her being bi.....chances are she can(and will) flirt with the same person I am. As for actual physical contact....well as long as everyone is comfortable, and we can play as a couple....then that option is open as well. Mind you....it took us nearly 13 years to get to this point of openness and honesty. And we did have our share of problems and jealousies....I think every relationship does at some point. But we stuck through it and now our marriage is stronger than it's ever been. I'm kinda thinking the grass is pretty green right here.

How nice to see you on my thread fenderman...you are always welcome to drop by...sounds like you and your wife have a relationship that you are both happy and satisfied with...good for you! I think most of us always want what we don't have to a certain degree...but you are content and I think that's great...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts...

MG

 

[montrealgirl]

yeah, i have a lot of pillows and i cuddle up with them, but there is something missing, like breathing and.... breasts

I like your new av, makes me think you are going to crawl up into my lap then procede to devour me.

Oh another thing i miss being single, is not having someone to think up creative and sexy things to do with, for or to them. that is part of the insperation for my new pics thread

I find I'm always coming back to this thread and adding another thing that I miss...the thoughts hit you at different times...so thanks for coming back and adding more

I know what you mean for sure...I have a great imagination but it would be nice to actually turn some of my thoughts into reality from time to time...

I also miss having someone to eat Sunday night dinner with...it seems like it should be the one meal that you never eat alone.

Glad you like the new AV...I have a slew and I like to rotate them often

MG

 

[fenderman68]

How nice to see you on my thread fenderman...you are always welcome to drop by...sounds like you and your wife have a relationship that you are both happy and satisfied with...good for you! I think most of us always want what we don't have to a certain degree...but you are content and I think that's great...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts...

MG

Thanks for the warm welcome MG. And likewise....you're always welcome to join our thread as well.

 

[keiffers]

I find I'm always coming back to this thread and adding another thing that I miss...the thoughts hit you at different times...so thanks for coming back and adding more

I know what you mean for sure...I have a great imagination but it would be nice to actually turn some of my thoughts into reality from time to time...

I also miss having someone to eat Sunday night dinner with...it seems like it should be the one meal that you never eat alone.

Glad you like the new AV...I have a slew and I like to rotate them often

MG

aint that always the luck, things hit you when you have no chance to write them down or what not LOL

but you're right, be nice to turn those things into reality, plus enjoy sitting down with someone for a nice quiet dinner any night for that matter

 

[montrealgirl]

Another thing I miss...

...is someone to keep me from procrastinating when I have work to do! I wish I had someone here now to kick my ass and tell me to get studying/writing....perhaps offer me some incentive to do so...like a nice massage if I finish...

 

[keiffers]

...is someone to keep me from procrastinating when I have work to do! I wish I had someone here now to kick my ass and tell me to get studying/writing....perhaps offer me some incentive to do so...like a nice massage if I finish...

lick your ass? uhm I barely know you LOL sorry had to be a smart ass atleast once today lol

 

[Tap-Out]

One thing I'm missing about having someone is this particular time of year.

I truly miss going around and thinking "what would she like for x-mas"? I enjoy shopping for her and for things that will bring a smile to her face. I really do enjoy shopping, but shopping for that special someone makes it a million times better.

Now I'm looking at facing another holiday season alone. Watching friends and family all the ones who have someone to share it with being all happy and cosy, and me sitting all by my lonesome.

 

[montrealgirl]

lick your ass? uhm I barely know you LOL sorry had to be a smart ass atleast once today lol

Haven't you read my interview on Tap-Out's thread...if you have then I'd say you know me well enough to reward me with a nice ass licking

 

[montrealgirl]

One thing I'm missing about having someone is this particular time of year.

I truly miss going around and thinking "what would she like for x-mas"? I enjoy shopping for her and for things that will bring a smile to her face. I really do enjoy shopping, but shopping for that special someone makes it a million times better.

Now I'm looking at facing another holiday season alone. Watching friends and family all the ones who have someone to share it with being all happy and cosy, and me sitting all by my lonesome.

Awww....I was feeling pretty good about the holidays until now...just kidding! I know what you mean...all holidays are better when you have someone to share them with...I don't even like Halloween being single...spent two Halloweens out of my life with a boyfriend...always had a better time then...I've actually cried once on Halloween because I felt so lonely...thats pretty wierd huh...never get that reaction on Valentines...lol....strange that.

 

[keiffers]

Haven't you read my interview on Tap-Out's thread...if you have then I'd say you know me well enough to reward me with a nice ass licking

no I hadn't caught that part yet - guess I learned now LOL

 

[Tap-Out]

like a nice massage if I finish...

That's another thing I really miss. There were often times when I was with my SO and she would come to my place after work or school and be totally drained, or stressed out or whatever. I miss just being able to give her a good massage and to make her feel better without expecting anything in return. Just being able to take away her aches, pains, and stresses was something I enjoyed. I would be rubbing her shoulders, or neck, or whatever would be bothering her, and we would sit and talk. About what's bothering her, what got her worked up, or whatever was on her mind at the time. It worked both ways, when I came home after a long or bad day she would often be able to just tell. Definatly miss those.

 

[montrealgirl]

That's another thing I really miss. There were often times when I was with my SO and she would come to my place after work or school and be totally drained, or stressed out or whatever. I miss just being able to give her a good massage and to make her feel better without expecting anything in return. Just being able to take away her aches, pains, and stresses was something I enjoyed. I would be rubbing her shoulders, or neck, or whatever would be bothering her, and we would sit and talk. About what's bothering her, what got her worked up, or whatever was on her mind at the time. It worked both ways, when I came home after a long or bad day she would often be able to just tell. Definatly miss those.

Yup...although I must admit that I really like alone time, so most days I am actually happy to come home to a quiet house and just relax by myself. I have a few good friends that I can always call if I need to vent about anything. But yes, sometimes it would be nice to have someone here when I get home...

 

[Guttergoddess]

One thing I'm missing about having someone is this particular time of year.

I truly miss going around and thinking "what would she like for x-mas"? I enjoy shopping for her and for things that will bring a smile to her face. I really do enjoy shopping, but shopping for that special someone makes it a million times better.

My favorite color is green....Sapphire's are MUCH better than diamonds. I'm a silver kinda girl (think handcuffs) I love anything feminine...books are great, DVD's (and not chick flicks) are even better......

 

[montrealgirl]

My favorite color is green....Sapphire's are MUCH better than diamonds. I'm a silver kinda girl (think handcuffs) I love anything feminine...books are great, DVD's (and not chick flicks) are even better......

And if all that fails, you can send gift certificate straight by email...very very convenient.

 

[Tap-Out]

And if all that fails, you can send gift certificate straight by email...very very convenient.

I absolutely can't stand gift certificates. The only time I'll do a certificate is if it's for a restarunt, movie tickets, gas, or something of the like. I refuse to give money and a card for x-mas. If I'm going to give a gift there's definatly going to be some thought to it.

That's just me. I have family who give nothing but certificates and cash. I just like personalizing things

 

[Guttergoddess]

I absolutely can't stand gift certificates. The only time I'll do a certificate is if it's for a restarunt, movie tickets, gas, or something of the like. I refuse to give money and a card for x-mas. If I'm going to give a gift there's definatly going to be some thought to it.

That's just me. I have family who give nothing but certificates and cash. I just like personalizing things

My initials are MKD, and look lovely in silver

 

[Tap-Out]

My initials are MKD, and look lovely in silver

And what should I have engraved in the nipple rings??

 

[spyro1123]

Haven't you read my interview on Tap-Out's thread...if you have then I'd say you know me well enough to reward me with a nice ass licking

looking franticly for the interview.....

Well i will look forward to all the AVs

I agree on the shopping for gifts thing, although, i love to go shopping with/for women any time of year. I think it was a survival trait from when i lived in NYC and everyone was coming up to go shopping. Besides womens clothes are much more interesting to shop for then mens clothes.

As long as we arent shopping for jeans, that is, guys if you dont know this already, never go jeans shopping with a woman, for some reason womens jeans are impossiable.

There is currently a sweater at the place where i work that is the most amazing chenille, at $65 it is out of my pricerange for some random friend, but if i had a girlfriend she would totally be getting one for christmass, or sooner.

i could probably go on with this thread forever.

adding new things each time

 

[BluewaveRedHot]

Thanks so much for chosing my thread as the one to lose your virginity on...I feel so special

I also really enjoyed your top 5 list...I totally agree with #3...it is such a great feeling knowing someone else is thinking about you and seriously cares about what happens to you on a daily basis...I almost fell in my shower this week and afterwards, I thought, man, if I seriously went down, how many days would go by before anyone noticed...reminds me of that episode of Sex and the City where Miranda is afraid she will fall and her cat will eventually start to nibble on her! Thank god I don't have a cat.

How long have you been single....and by the way, nice ass in your profile pic!

MG

MG –
I’ve had the same thoughts about injuring myself and not having anyone to notice …the last time was just a week ago when I took a tumble while painting my living room. Perhaps I should invest in one of those “I’ve fallen, and I can’t get up” emergency calling systems?

Having been single for so long (12 years) and not having any kids, I really don’t think of myself as divorced. Certainly I am not as “set in my ways” as most people my age.

On a more general note…I think that we are evolutionarily (this can’t be an actual word, can it?) programmed to want what we don’t have. I find it valuable to regularly think about what there is to appreciate about being by myself.

Oh, and thanks for the sweet compliment! Checked out your profile pic...I REALLY like your eyes...and your lips are positively sublime

 

[preacher.mk]

m/g

since you started this thread and said that spooning is what got you thinking bout it--just which position do you prefer???
being in front or being the rear and why do you prefer it???

myself i like to be in front sometimes--love to feel her clinging to my back and rubbing her lil kitty on my backside.
my fav tho is to be in the rear--that way i can hold her, feel all of her body..the best part tho is when i can slowly insert my cock into her lil kitty and just very slowly rock back and forth, moving it in and out.. not really getting in a hurry.. can stay like that for hours..

 

[Guttergoddess]

And what should I have engraved in the nipple rings??

slut should fit nicely

 

[Burokrat]

What I love about being alone is the freedom you experience. Wanna do this? No negotiation, no compromise. You do it. No one to report to. Nothing to drop.

I love it.

 

[montrealgirl]

I absolutely can't stand gift certificates. The only time I'll do a certificate is if it's for a restarunt, movie tickets, gas, or something of the like. I refuse to give money and a card for x-mas. If I'm going to give a gift there's definatly going to be some thought to it.

That's just me. I have family who give nothing but certificates and cash. I just like personalizing things

Hey, I'm not so into gift certificates either..just thought it would be easier to get a gift to me

So I guess I'll have to get you mailing address instead then huh...