What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[SassySheDevil]

I don't do the NAL threads very often at all, just because there are so few who care if I mention them. I'd be posting Fara and Chilly all the time. They don't mind me mentioning them.

 

[Ratchetman1982]

This is my typical method if I’m really curious about someone. If they don’t message me, I have learned to not message them because either they’re obtuse or not interested. Either way, it only ends in rejection.

Some of us really are oblivious to subtle hints.

 

[Xerxes82]

I don't do the NAL threads very often at all, just because there are so few who care if I mention them. I'd be posting Fara and Chilly all the time. They don't mind me mentioning them.

So, I've seen things along these lines said by several different posters. Why are there people who DON'T want to be mentioned? Is it a privacy thing? An embarassment thing? I don't get it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

So, I've seen things along these lines said by several different posters. Why are there people who DON'T want to be mentioned? Is it a privacy thing? An embarassment thing? I don't get it.

Usually because they don't want their other women to know they are talking to you.


But now I'm laughing, because 2 guys just messaged me to tell me I could mention them.

 

[ydahecnot]

Usually because they don't want their other women to know they are talking to you.


But now I'm laughing, because 2 guys just messaged me to tell me I could mention them.

It is kinda meta, not mentioning the guys who said you could mention them

 

[Sundayschild]

It is kinda meta, not mentioning the guys who said you could mention them

I can't work it out. He who shall not be named 1 and 2?

 

[Xerxes82]

I am friends with someone who was very clear about not being linked with anyone, but they really meant not being linked with me. I rarely mention them anymore, and it’s made me pull back a lot from the friendship, which sucks.

This is so sad to me. I guess I'm weird, but it's oddly affecting to me when someone tells me I got mentioned in one of those threads. Like being part of the community and being seen. Not necessary at all, but nice.

But I suppose it's different when you're trying to hide.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I love messaging people. gender doesn't matter.
To get to know them better. Some deeper conversations happen in pms.
Sometimes they poop out, but I still like to message regardless.
I'm not looking to fuck. Just chat. I make it clear. Cuz why not?

I agree with this but I generally don't initiate PMs because of the 3 As.

1. I'm awkward as fuck in private and I don't know what to say.
2. I have ADD and often get distracted and forget to send what I wanted to or respond and I feel bad leaving people hanging.
3. I don't want to aggravate anyone. I feel like everyone is busy and unless I have something specific to ask or mention, that me just saying "hey! I think you're pretty fucking neato" seems annoying or like it could be misread.

I absolutely talk myself out of this.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

As far as PDA goes (as someone engages in a fair bit of it) l, I think if it's fun and flirty it can be an important part of a Lit relationship. An occasional sweet message can be nice BUT...

There are definitely people who take this way too far and make everyone uncomfortable. I try hard never to be that person or at least me affectionate towards everyone but hey... feel free to send me PM rolled up newspaper to the nose if it bothers you.

 

[SassySheDevil]

It is kinda meta, not mentioning the guys who said you could mention them

LOL You and Mav both said I could mention them.

 

[Sundayschild]

As far as PDA goes (as someone engages in a fair bit of it) l, I think if it's fun and flirty it can be an important part of a Lit relationship. An occasional sweet message can be nice BUT...

There are definitely people who take this way too far and make everyone uncomfortable. I try hard never to be that person or at least me affectionate towards everyone but hey... feel free to send me PM rolled up newspaper to the nose if it bothers you.

I was just kidding. Obviously. It's fine - at least to a certain point. Us who aren't paired off just love ragging on those who are.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I'm good with hugging. As long as folks are okay with it.

I think I only did an in-depth PDA with one person on here that I can remember. It was wonderful until the relationship ended later. Thing is I tend to be private and try to keep that stuff private also. Not because of hiding, but just because of comfort level. Some folks like to broadcast what they do I don't. And both ideas are valid in their own way.

 

[ydahecnot]

I was just kidding. Obviously. It's fine - at least to a certain point. Us who aren't paired off just love ragging on those who are.

Marginally fine. A little of that goes a long way. That’s what PMs are for

 

[Sundayschild]

Marginally fine. A little of that goes a long way. That’s what PMs are for

Exactly. If it never happened it would be a sadder place. And as I don't play with paired-up people it's good to know so I'm not wasting my time or theirs. But sure, we don't want it shoved down our throats..if you'll excuse the phrase..

 

[ydahecnot]

Exactly. If it never happened it would be a sadder place. And as I don't play with paired-up people it's good to know so I'm not wasting my time or theirs. But sure, we don't want it shoved down our throats..if you'll excuse the phrase..

It would be my happy place…lol.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Marginally fine. A little of that goes a long way. That’s what PMs are for

Is there a perfect sunny ratio?

 

[ydahecnot]

Is there a perfect sunny ratio?

No one told me Lit entailed math.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I'm nosey about who hates math and science. I hate it, it hurts my brain. Give me history and literature and languages all day long.

I deal with math and science on a daily basis. I'm not a history buff at all. Blame where I was raised.

 

[Mei5ter]

Is there a perfect sunny ratio?

(a+b) /a = a/b

Or, M/plp.

 

[Mav Unlimited]

I love math, science, history, literature and languages.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

(a+b) /a = a/b

Or, M/plp.

I'm sorry. I don't talk to boys without avs.

I love math, science, history, literature and languages.

What about marching band?

 

[Azuldrgon]

What about marching band?

I was a choir kid.

 

[Mav Unlimited]

I'm sorry. I don't talk to boys without avs.


What about marching band?

And yet you are taking to both of us. Don’t confuse us woman!

I led a band in college once. I was the keyboard player. lol not a marching band though.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I'm nosey about who hates math and science. I hate it, it hurts my brain. Give me history and literature and languages all day long.

I don't *hate* math and science. I respect them greatly. I just don't fully understand them. I'm with you on the history, literature, and languages.

What about marching band?

Yeah, I did marching band.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I deal in metal and how to do stuff to it, plus the boss is an engineer. So there's lots of that stuff. The main part of the office part of my job is data collection, so I am knee deep in numbers.

I like writing, I just can't do history so much. I was raised in an area where history was crammed down my throat.