What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[Lonelywife1205]

That's two more than me. Yes, it's cost me in the e-boning department and in the friendship department. I'd meet someone in person before I'd post my pic. I appreciate and respect those that do. I hope I can get the same respect in return. Someday, I'll find my unicorn.

On behalf of all the unicorns on Lit, you’re not getting one of us without showing your face.

J/k

 

[AZDryHeat]

Someone made a comment about the cactus in my avatar, but I can't remember who.

 

[Mr_bogey]

There is zero chance I would ever agree to meet someone from here in person without having seen them first online.

Zero. Zilch. None.

This would totally give me serial killer vibes.

That makes sense since it's so important to you. I'm not necessarily in the market, so it makes it much easier to stand my ground. If that changes I'm confident enough in who I am and my ability to communicate that I could overcome any concerns someone might have (no matter how shallow).

It's funny to me some of the same people that blasted the chef (rightfully so) for his comments early in this thread are the people now stereotyping and judging.

 

[Shenanigans90]

I find Lit very intriguing because people from all over the world and all different walks of life come together trying to fill a void in their life. Navigating a path to find people with similar interests is the fun part for me.

 

[2021Noobie]

Hearing a voice doesn’t even mean you “know” who you are pm’ng

But what does someone gain by “cat fishing”’ others? Power?

 

[Punkrockchick]

Can we actually know the people we are PMing? Even if you meet up, they could be putting on an act.

 

[2021Noobie]

Been catfished

IANA how rain can shine ??

Meeting personally ? That went well
No crying game incident
Don’t be dumb. Take protection
You’ll feel dumb for not foreseeing the need
Gallantry is dead

 

[Xerxes82]

Can we actually know the people we are PMing? Even if you meet up, they could be putting on an act.

But isn't that a danger with any social interaction, anywhere? It may be easier online or across distance, but people have been lying to each other as long as there have been people.

 

[Punkrockchick]

But isn't that a danger with any social interaction, anywhere? It may be easier online or across distance, but people have been lying to each other as long as there have been people.

How do I know that's true? You could be lying about people lying.

 

[Xerxes82]

How do I know that's true? You could be lying about people lying.

I am, too. 100%. Or am I lying about lying about lying?

 

[Punkrockchick]

I am, too. 100%. Or am I lying about lying about lying?

I think I need to lie down

 

[Xerxes82]

I think I need to lie down

Do you require assistance? I bet we can find you a Litster to nurse you back to health if it would help.

 

[Azuldrgon]

On one hand, I know I am very self-conscious about my looks.

On the other hand, I do allow myself moments of weakness to show a bit of face and stuff.

But it's all about comfort level, you know?

 

[Azuldrgon]

What Rainshine and Sassy said and no, bogey, you can’t have any woman worth her salt on lit without showing your face. Boo. Hoo.
Not the same thing as what Chef said at all.
He said women who e-fuck a lot here are “very unattractive”.

For you guys who whine that you get nowhere with the women here or that no one wants to talk to meeeeeee, every woman here that has said she wants a connection has said “show me your face”, and we have shown you ours.

And the women on here are beautiful.
Relationships are all about give and take.
If you are afraid to show yours, what gives you the right to demand they show theirs?

 

[Texastuffbbc]

Can we actually know the people we are PMing? Even if you meet up, they could be putting on an act.

Knowing or getting to know people is a good thing, but ha e to have conversation long before any e-boning is in order…..

 

[Punkrockchick]

Knowing or getting to know people is a good thing, but ha e to have conversation long before any e-boning is in order…..

Shit. I was just about to e-bone you

 

[Texastuffbbc]

Shit. I was just about to e-bone you

Lol. So funny, but have to say hello before any of that is appropriate. Lol. My smile in my profile picture says a lot don’t you think? Lol

Don’t let my cordial side fool you. Lol

 

[hairball18]

There is zero chance I would ever agree to meet someone from here in person without having seen them first online.

Zero. Zilch. None.

This would totally give me serial killer vibes.

Corbal is a cereal killer.

 

[Texastuffbbc]

Me too. Guess it’s you and me, Punky.

Nah! Wait am I getting on y’all good side? And a few, select few have seen my face.

 

[2021Noobie]

E-boning is better if there is some familiarity
And.. more chance it won’t end up being a wam bam thank you Sam
(As in ghosting by Sam or Samantha)

 

[Texastuffbbc]

E-boning is better if there is some familiarity
And.. more chance it won’t end up being a wam bam thank you Sam
(As in ghosting by Sam or Samantha)

Ghosting is the worse. That is why connections are important, plus it stretches both the imagination and the bone more effectively.

 

[Dribble]

Just pointing out...a person can be drop-dead gorgeous and be very unattractive. Looks have nothing to do with it.

 

[Mr_bogey]

Corbal is a cereal killer.

And Ted Bundy would have had his pic in his avatar....

Btw, unicorns do exists and they are spectacular

As far as my comparison to cheffy, I agreed that there was no wiggle room for what he said. I might have even been the first to call him out on it. He lumped all sexually experienced women into the category of undesirable. Some of you lumped those unwilling to share a picture but willing to meet into the category of serial killers. Stereotyping = Stereotyping. I haven't delved into the depths of lit that some of you have and I haven't been burnt like some of you have. Maybe if I wore those scars I'd feel different but all I can judge on is my experience.

I know I have rules some here don't agree with. It doesn't make us bad people. We just want different things.

 

[AZDryHeat]

The opposite is true as well. A person who is not considered to be " good looking" or or "sexy looking" may be very attractive to someone who has gotten to know that person's inner self.

Now that's a big faulting statement that only makes sense if you think about it for a second.

 

[AmberLGreen]

As I said previously, for me knowing what a person looks like is about trust and openness. I wouldn’t know one serial killer look from another so that isn’t going to help me if I am meeting somebody. If you are going to meet somebody then why wouldn’t you show them what you looked liked first. If you have already made a connection online then the fact that you won’t show them what you look like before you meet isn’t about whether you would be worried about if they would show up or not if they didn’t like the look of you. Or are you hoping that if they don’t see you first then they will show up because of the connection but because you are in person with them, then you can make it so they can’t escape. And that for me would be the freaky thing!