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Totally agree with this. A person’s past is their past. Knowing how many people they have slept with isn’t going to change whether you know or not.

However, if the sex was either really bad or totally mind-blowing, I might ask lol

Well if the person fell asleep as in sleeping together.. then yeah, the sex was pretty bad. :rolleyes::D
 
I’m really not.
I second this opinion.

At my age (almost 40) I don't think there is much of any chance of you not having sex before. So with that part covered, I really don't care what your number is. But not because I give a fuck about the number... but because I don't really need to be thinking about your past lovers. I want what you and I have to be the best sex in your entire life. Thinking about your previous orgasms with others, doesn't improve that situation haha.
 
I’m really not.

Same. I probably wouldn’t be into being someone’s first or second, but it’s not a conversation I want to have.
However I meant more do people keep track of their own regardless of ever being asked. Like do you have a mental record of your past partners? Maybe the record got blurred after a certain point?

I don’t think I could name or recall everyone. I can recall most relationships that lasted for any stretch of time. My brain is at capacity for everything else!
 
Tried making a list...I stopped after

The redhead from the Underground on High Street...and her brunette roommate. It wasn't even that fun.
 
Just to chime in from a swingers perspective. Newbies that are swinger virgins is a whole new world. Those that have never been with anyone else other then there spouses. Many times high school sweethearts who are each other’s firsts join the ranks of swinger sports. It’s true. Mostly after they are done raising their kids and are newly emptying nesting. Some just to see what sex with someone else might be like and they dare to step into the swinger world together or with a hall pass separately instead of being a cheater. We’ve always considered those people virgins.

The equivalent in the vanilla world would be a divorced couple that had not ever been with anyone else. Widows or widowers , peeps that were sheltered by their helicoptering parents and are out on their own for the first time.

Being someone’s second is a very interesting dynamic , even better when it’s casual sex NSA rather then relationship sex.
 
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I’m nosey about why ya’ll hate me so much.

Just kidding, you freaky babies love me and you know it. If you don’t love me you soon will. *squint*

Yep, you're a loveable sexy Aussie for certain. :)
 
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Let me guess: I'm supposed to find the one lone character that's different in this?

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Nope , it’s a hypnotic trance post , loook deep into the pattern. Listen to my words as you read them.
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I’m nosey about why ya’ll hate me so much.

Just kidding, you freaky babies love me and you know it. If you don’t love me you soon will. *squint*

I love you. But can I say I don't just to see what you'll do next?

:p
 
Not that the number of past lovers matters, but how many depends greatly on how you count. The question used to be important to my wife, but she had to be satisfied with the number of hetero penetrating partners.

Does oral count? Does heavy petting count? Does it matter if you orgasm or not? Is it just a matter of swapping fluids? Does it count for one or two if you are fucking someone but only kissing their partner? How about kinky playmates who only penetrate with toys?

You can do a lot of fucking without fucking, and having been with a lot of girls who ID as lesbians and a couple of curious boys who didn't want to cross certain lines, it's hard to truly determine 'how many lovers' I've had, but that makes me sound like more of a slut than I feel I've really been.

My wife and I have been exclusively together for over twenty years now so I don't think I could accurately count if I tried. She claims six for herself while discounting a few casual girlfriends, and holds onto the number twenty for me, which may or may not be accurate.

At what point can you call a Mullugan? :rolleyes:



Edit: I remember hearing a bunch of lesbian girls at a thanksgiving get together, trying to determine what counted in their ā€˜count.’ It turned into a heated argument over what constitutes ā€œfuckingā€. I don’t think they ever came to a consensus. ;)
 
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Or, someone divorced after a long time. I didn’t cheat on my ex. I just… didn’t have sex. At all.
I mean, I do, now…

What would be a good name or description be for that. ā€œSexless marriage syndromeā€or is syndrome the proper terminology to even use.

SMS used here it could be referred to as *Lit-SMS or Lit-sms

Just image how the sex would be when two Lit-SMS users finely bang.

Even better meeting up at a Lit 2021 Vegas meet and greet. Now that’s a thread I’d read , I’d be so curious as to who signs up with a maybe , or confirmed yes they are going to Vegas to get laid. The I was going to go but not if that asshole is going to be there. All that juicy fonder to read.

It could be like a swinger hotel party , separate rooms for separate fetish and kinks.

One of you organized Lit moguls should make the thread.
 
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I'm curious about the movie I just watched. The Duff.
Designated Ugly Fat Friend (good movie btw)

It made me wonder if any of you had this within your group? Were you one? Did you feel like one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-o-C21COWIQ

No. My childhood and high school years were atypical though - I am Native American and went to an Indian school - and a small one at the. We didn't have enough people to form social cliques and friends were friends, not ranked or sorted or designated to roles based on appearance. Most of the who hang out with who divisions ran down kinship lines (in Lakota "Tiyospaye" - the extended family).

My last two years in high school were at a private prep school (help the poor Indians scholarship) - it was big, lots of students, lots of groups - but I still don't remember anyone being the DUFF (though it may have happened there, I was just unaware/uninterested in it).

Probably the closest I came was when I was in prep school, I was aware that I was very different from the other students (predominantly white anglo-saxon protestants from the wealthy classes) but it worked in my favor. Because i was the exotic, far more people knew who I was than I knew them and people had lots of questions and were for the most part genuinely interested and inviting. Having grown up on a ranch, the cowboy hat alone was enough to draw lots of attention, so I took full advantage of that at prep school.
 
I'm curious about the movie I just watched. The Duff.
Designated Ugly Fat Friend (good movie btw)

It made me wonder if any of you had this within your group? Were you one? Did you feel like one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-o-C21COWIQ


I’ve always been friends with anyone who was friendly, so I’ve often been friends with nerds, geeks, and the generally insecure. In high school I had a couple of ā€˜cool’ friends who tried to talk me out of hanging out with certain crowds because the association was un-cool.

Senior year I got asked to the prom by the varsity captain of the cheerleaders. She’d been long-time best friends with an overweight unpopular girl and said one of the things she liked about me was the way I didn’t discriminate - one of her previous boyfriends had been a jerk to her friend.

We were an odd couple. She was the hot popular queen bee while I was the femmy chess champion and outdoors guy with a nice car - we hung out with everyone.
 
I'm curious about the movie I just watched. The Duff.
Designated Ugly Fat Friend (good movie btw)

It made me wonder if any of you had this within your group? Were you one? Did you feel like one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-o-C21COWIQ

I was just the fat ugly girl, not the friend. I was excluded from everything. "No room for an ugly fat ass," they'd say, and it was one of the kinder things that was said to me.

Did I feel like one? Yep!
 
I'm curious about the movie I just watched. The Duff.
Designated Ugly Fat Friend (good movie btw)

It made me wonder if any of you had this within your group? Were you one? Did you feel like one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-o-C21COWIQ


I might not have been the prettiest or skinnier but I also didn't hang out with people who would have even fathomed the idea of a DUFF. People who think this way don't deserve friends.
 
I’ve always understood the ā€œ duff ā€œ thing as a cheerleaders urban legend type high school tall tale.

There’s also shallow Hal staring Jack Black that covers the subject matter. And a older film with River Phoenix called Dogfight.
 
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