What is your definition of "bisexual"?

[girlsmiley]

Please don't PM me.

 

[HottieMama]

I think you may be confusing "bi" and "pan" sexual.
Bisexuals are monogamous. Pansexuals are not.

Pansexual: the potential for sexual attractions, sexual desire, or romantic love, towards people of all gender identities


You are confusing pansexuality and POLYamory. Polyamory has nothing to do with gender or sexual preference, it simply refers to romantically love more than one person at a time. Anyone can be poly, no matter what their sexual orientation.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I think you may be confusing "bi" and "pan" sexual.
Bisexuals are monogamous. Pansexuals are not.

Dude, you're funny. You say that you are just comming out and that you're new to the community and then you categorically state, on a thread with over 100+ comments from knowledgeable people discussing what a bisexual is, some erroneous BS.

I'd suggest that you might want to learn a bit more first. Though it might be well intended you are coming across as a knowitall noob.

BTW, it's considered in bad taste to PM people who clearly want nothing to do with you.

 

[girlsmiley]

Dude, you're funny. You say that you are just comming out and that you're new to the community and then you categorically state, on a thread with over 100+ comments from knowledgeable people discussing what a bisexual is, some erroneous BS.

I'd suggest that you might want to learn a bit more first. Though it might be well intended you are coming across as a knowitall noob.

BTW, it's considered in bad taste to PM people who clearly want nothing to do with you.

Aw...

C'mere you!

*boob squishin' hugs*

 

[CandiCame]

Pansexual: the potential for sexual attractions, sexual desire, or romantic love, towards people of all gender identities


You are confusing pansexuality and POLYamory. Polyamory has nothing to do with gender or sexual preference, it simply refers to romantically love more than one person at a time. Anyone can be poly, no matter what their sexual orientation.

My bad. On the APA site it has it listed as a "desire for multiple amorous relationships". I misinterpreted that. I also thought, based on the psyche research that I've been reading that anyone could be pan regardless of sexual orientation. I was thinking "pansexual" like "pandimensional" or "panepidemic". My Latin is the suck. I get confused easily.

Also was not aware that anyone wanted nothing to do with me until I was called stupid. Took the hint. I do think that there is a difference between being easily confused and being stupid though. I've decided not to let the internets hurt my feelings. There are to many people who are nice for me to be thrown off by a couple of people who dislike me. People are going to dislike you everywhere, I guess. It's like someone said in a different thread I frequent, "You can't please everyone. In art school, you can hardly please anyone."

Also, me just coming out is irrelevant to my knowledge. "The gay" is not a contest. Or if it is, no one told me. Is it? Because that's just one more thing that I'm losing at... Plus, I'm not really out. A few of my friends know. It's more like a closet with no door. Or beads instead of a door.

Still not sure why anyone wants nothing to do with me, other then blatant sexism.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Also was not aware that anyone wanted nothing to do with me until I was called stupid. Took the hint. I do think that there is a difference between being easily confused and being stupid though. I've decided not to let the internets hurt my feelings. There are to many people who are nice for me to be thrown off by a couple of people who dislike me. People are going to dislike you everywhere, I guess. It's like someone said in a different thread I frequent, "You can't please everyone. In art school, you can hardly please anyone."

Also, me just coming out is irrelevant to my knowledge. "The gay" is not a contest. Or if it is, no one told me. Is it? Because that's just one more thing that I'm losing at... Plus, I'm not really out. A few of my friends know. It's more like a closet with no door. Or beads instead of a door.

Still not sure why anyone wants nothing to do with me, other then blatant sexism.

Dude, you ever been checked out for Asperger's? If not you might consider it, ya know?

Being serious here, BTW.

 

[girlsmiley]

Also was not aware that anyone wanted nothing to do with me until I was called stupid. Took the hint

No you didn't take the hint. I said please don't.
Your ass is going on ignore.

 

[CandiCame]

Dude, you ever been checked out for Asperger's? If not you might consider it, ya know?

Being serious here, BTW.

Yeah, but mine's a form of ADHD, not somuch autism. They wanted to medicate me when I was younger, but my mother wouldn't let them. The conversation went something like this:

Mom: What's he done now.
Principle: He hasn't been turning in his work. He doesn't pay attention in class.
Mom: VINCIENT!
Me: What? (looking up from a gameboy)
Mom: GIVE ME THAT!
Me: Hey! (starts drawing on my arm)
Mom: So, why is he doing so bad?
Principal (hitting both because I suck at English): Because he doesn't pay attention.
Mom: So bitch him out. He will if you bitch him out.
P: We think he may have ADHD
Mom: What's that mean?
P: It means that he can't pay attention.
Mom: Bullshit
P: ?
Mom: He sits and plays this shit, and that playstation, for HOURS- DAYS if I would let him. It's not that he can't pay attention. Your teachers must suck.

And that was her attitude. So I wasn't properly medicated as a child, not until I was a teenager and I got really anxious all the time and started getting in fights and shit. Eventually they put me on mood stabilizers and whatnot. Does knowing that make my comments make more sense? It's not really a learning disability, it's more an inability to put up with bullshit that overflows when I get confused. I don't have aggressive tendencies anymore, but it still emotionally bothers me when I feel like people are trying to confuse me, or won't take the time to explain something that I don't understand.

Also starting to think, because of all my research that I've been doing recently, that I might be bipolar. That might be psychosomatic, though.... Like how you read about a disease and you think you have it.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Yeah, but mine's a form of ADHD, not somuch autism....

... Does knowing that make my comments make more sense? It's not really a learning disability, it's more an inability to put up with bullshit that overflows when I get confused. I don't have aggressive tendencies anymore, but it still emotionally bothers me when I feel like people are trying to confuse me, or won't take the time to explain something that I don't understand.

Also starting to think, because of all my research that I've been doing recently, that I might be bipolar. That might be psychosomatic, though.... Like how you read about a disease and you think you have it.

No, your comments still make no sense, but at least now I understand why they don't.

The reason I asked is because you seem to be struggling with understanding what people mean and with social interaction if you will. Not judging, just saying.

BTW, no means NO, dude. When people say don't then don't, K?

 

[CandiCame]

No, your comments still make no sense, but at least now I understand why they don't.

The reason I asked is because you seem to be struggling with understanding what people mean and with social interaction if you will. Not judging, just saying.

BTW, no means NO, dude. When people say don't then don't, K?

Don't what? PM? I didn't see that until I got back from work today- long after I had sent the pm. And I thought that you/she might be more comfortable talking without a panel of people watching. Again, I backed off when I was told to.

 

[girlsmiley]

Don't what? PM? I didn't see that until I got back from work today- long after I had sent the pm. And I thought that you/she might be more comfortable talking without a panel of people watching. Again, I backed off when I was told to.

Fucking LIAR!

You're lucky we can't post pms arsehole.

:Unsubscribes:

 

[CandiCame]

Fucking LIAR!

You're lucky we can't post pms arsehole.

:Unsubscribes:

You could copy/paste it

Might wanna start a new thread for it though

*very confused*

 

[Safe_Bet]

Don't what? PM? I didn't see that until I got back from work today- long after I had sent the pm. And I thought that you/she might be more comfortable talking without a panel of people watching. Again, I backed off when I was told to.

Sure you don't want to restate that, dude?

I have no doubt in my mind that I believe GS. If you want I can ask her to forward me a copy them. You prolly would be pretty displeased with the results of that.

I gotta think it would be WAY better to edit your comment, ya know?

 

[CandiCame]

Sure you don't want to restate that, dude?

I have no doubt in my mind that I believe GS. If you want I can ask her to forward me a copy them. You prolly would be pretty displeased with the results of that.

I gotta think it would be WAY better to edit your comment, ya know?

Y? You can totally read it... Again, you might wanna copy/paste it into a separate thread, I mean, if you want people to read it. I can, but I have to go to work right now. Plus, I'm not sure that everyone else really cares that much- but who am I to know what people care about? I always get negative reviews, lol.



It's pretty much the same thing I said in here with an additional, "You don't have to talk in front of everyone, you can explain it to me in a pm" attached. I kinda poured out into that message. So it's fairly redundant.

Then I sent a second one after I saw that you called my post stupid apologizing for bothering you with my stupidity. And saying that I felt it was rather harsh language. "Stupid" is a strong word.

 

[girlsmiley]

Sure you don't want to restate that, dude?

I have no doubt in my mind that I believe GS. If you want I can ask her to forward me a copy them. You prolly would be pretty displeased with the results of that.

I gotta think it would be WAY better to edit your comment, ya know?

He sent me a pm. I said please don't pm me.
So obviously that means send me another one

There's nothing confusing about that.

Way to hijack the thread candicame. Friggen NOOB!

 

[girlsmiley]

Y? You can totally read it... Again, you might wanna copy/paste it into a separate thread, I mean, if you want people to read it. I can, but I have to go to work right now. Plus, I'm not sure that everyone else really cares that much- but who am I to know what people care about? I always get negative reviews, lol.



It's pretty much the same thing I said in here with an additional, "You don't have to talk in front of everyone, you can explain it to me in a pm" attached. I kinda poured out into that message. So it's fairly redundant.

Then I sent a second one after I saw that you called my post stupid apologizing for bothering you with my stupidity. And saying that I felt it was rather harsh language. "Stupid" is a strong word.

I would totally fucking post how "mysterious" you think I am but it's against the rules!

What don't you get?

 

[CandiCame]

I would totally fucking post how "mysterious" you think I am but it's against the rules!

What don't you get?

I think you just did.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I think you just did.

Do you get how fucking creepy it feels for some guy to continue to stalk an avowed lesbian, especially after she told him to stop?

I don't know what your deal is dude, but fucking stop it. You are stalking. Plain and simple and I will personally make your life here a living hell if you don't knock it the fuck off and apologize.

 

[Nina327]

searches...

searches...

searches...

searches...

yup.. there it is....

Lit still has an iggy button...

 

[Safe_Bet]

searches...

searches...

searches...

searches...

yup.. there it is....

Lit still has an iggy button...

Nah. If somebody KNOWS you don't like men and you even go as far as to tell him to stop, if he persists he should be dealt with not ignored. Fuck that.

 

[Nina327]

whatever gets your rocks off doll.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Hmmmm, you're right. The ignore button worked on your ass, Nina!

 

[girlsmiley]

Nah. If somebody KNOWS you don't like men and you even go as far as to tell him to stop, if he persists he should be dealt with not ignored. Fuck that.

Lets go, Amy.

This thread is dead.

 

[Etoile]

Y? You can totally read it... Again, you might wanna copy/paste it into a separate thread, I mean, if you want people to read it.

Actually, posting the content of PMs is not permitted, even with the sender's permission.

 

[TallOne]

Could ask a similar question about the definition of "monosexuals".

If someone is revolted by one sex because of some trauma/social conditioning/childhood experience, are they really monosexual or are they just settling for what's left? Or could they be sexually and emotionally happy with the other gender without said trigger if that memory were wiped.

In the end a label's really just what the speaker makes of it.