Would you meet someone from Lit for coffee?

Yes, although I'd fuss about which shirt to wear...button down collar or a casual vest? Should I flash my gray chest hair or not...
Obviously I'm going to wear my tightest jeans..
 
it's easier for me to think I might because it would have to be a friend meet. I've done the dating ap thing and it was just awkward. Meeting with the understanding that we're friends is just so much more relaxed.
Agree 100%. Have a coffee or tea just as friends means little pressure and get to know person a little in the real world.
 
Many years ago I spoke to one of the authors here after reading her stories and she directed me to another web site where we could video. Funny thing is nothing romantic came of it, but I met someone else on the other website and had an amazing one night affair. That was 15 years ago I recall. Anyway, you never know until you take a chance. Even a video call.
 
I have met up in the past with 2 people, both from out of town, 1 just turned into a good friend, the other one, we clicked, spent a lot of fun time while in town, still see from time to time. Would love to meet others, so relaxing to meet in person people with open minds.
 
If it’s a place with good coffee I would meet up with one of the lesser demons from the seven circles of Hell, with the understanding that there were to be no devious manipulations for my soul.
I’m a conversation whore that way.
 
I've been a member since 2001. My profile says 2004 but I changed my registration a couple times. Was a chatter here when the format was called DigiChat. That said, I've met at least 20 people from the chat rooms and everyone I met was just great! We always enjoyed the coffee/lunch/dinner but the conversation was fun fun fun every single time! Would I meet someone again? Definitely....and South Florida is a great place to meet in winter!
 
I've been a member since 2001. My profile says 2004 but I changed my registration a couple times. Was a chatter here when the format was called DigiChat. That said, I've met at least 20 people from the chat rooms and everyone I met was just great! We always enjoyed the coffee/lunch/dinner but the conversation was fun fun fun every single time! Would I meet someone again? Definitely....and South Florida is a great place to meet in winter!
So is central west Florida
 
Yeah, I have a few times. We chatted in the WaWa parking lot over coffee before work. It was cool. But also, a public place, but you can still have a private chat, and people watch a little. The cars are nearby, so it's safe to walk away, and plenty of places nearby to go, instead of heading straight home. Never go straight home after a meeting.

Anyway, WaWa coffee is awesome. I get the Cinnamon twist or a cheese danish to go with it. Their breakfast sandwiches are great too.

But, I do miss our chats. Never went anywhere, because we are both straight men, but we agreed that if either of us ever found a woman who wants 2 men, we would be each other's tag team partner. Alas, the wonderful woman I married has no interest in having 2 men (again), or anal sex, it never happened on my side. We kind of drifted apart. However, my amazing wife does give me the occasional hall pass for no strings attached anal with women when we travel, or rarely when they travel. Well, there was this wonderful young woman we met during a trip to the NE USA, that we got the contact info for, so we can have regular fun. Similar to ourselves, she maintains very different public and private lives. She plans to visit VA on St Patrick's weekend, and has asked if I can bring another guy. I hope my buddy gets back to me when I reach out. She's a real live wire, and a triple threat, so it will be worth it.
 
I suspect that many folk miss out on lovely dates by being too literal.
If invited to "coffee", I would expect that I could order a different drink.

I had to give up caffeine, but still get decaf mochas (with whip).
I can also find teas and juices or even water at most venues.

Hell, I can even just wrap my hands around something warm and enjoy the company.
 
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I sure would and have some good conversation about most anything and learn a little about about who I was meeting for coffee!
 
I suspect that many folk miss out on lovely dates by being too literal.
If invited to "coffee", I would expect that I could order a different drink.

I had to give up caffein, but still get decaf mochas (with whip).
I can also find teas and juices or even water at most venues.

Hell, I can even just wrap my hands around something warm and enjoy the company.
I'm often having a "coffee break" or suggesting "afternoon coffee" despite never drinking coffee 😏
 
I suspect that many folk miss out on lovely dates by being too literal.
If invited to "coffee", I would expect that I could order a different drink.

I had to give up caffeine, but still get decaf mochas (with whip).
I can also find teas and juices or even water at most venues.

Hell, I can even just wrap my hands around something warm and enjoy the company.
I agree. I've always been amazed at how many say, "no because I don't drink coffee." The idea is for whatever works for you. Most cases was lunch for me. I think only 2 were actually for coffee, and I never asked what was in their cup.
 
I would love to meet some folks from this site but they are out of the USA or if in the USA, they are out of State. It is difficult to find people to meet within even a region. So, unless someone is traveling through the area, I will never meet people from here. Now I have met interesting people from dating apps. And they are local.
 
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